Does anyone want a cuckold relionship?

[dancompeller]

Hi

I would love to find a woman interested in a cuckold relationship

This is a relationship in which I would love and adore you and treat you like a princess.

However I would also get very turned on by you having fun with other men of your choosing.

I love this type of relationship.

However all the women I meet just want monogamous relationships. They think I want them to have fun with other men, because I either don't love them or it is an excuse so I can have fun with other women.

This could not be further from the truth. It will be like a swinging relationship in which you get to have all the fun, but I stay totally faithful to you and head over heels in love with you.

There has to be some woman out their wanting this...

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+1 y

Exactly thanks Mia, definitely an open minded person. Unfortunately from experience you seem to be in the minority.

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Honeybaby


Thanks for your answer. I don't see why you would be foolish if it is what your partner would love you to do.


But the majority of women have the same mindset as you


thanks once again for taking the time to answer :)

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+1 y

Looks like it is as I expected. There are not many women out there interested in this type of relationship. It really puzzles me...

[HoneySpiceSugar]

So it sounds like you like and want to be treated badly, like you get a kick out of being walked all over...this is not a healthy relationship and certainly is not fun as sooner or later all parties involved would get hurt and catch feelings...a very messy situation.

This is not something I would even class as a relationship as you are not exclusively seeing one another and there would be no point in calling it one as you're are not truly being fathful and loyal to one another and the trust would be exploited. Without trust there can be no love. This is a sick and twisted notion of a so called relationship and people who engage in such things have major issues and I really wish you well and that you get to be happy with yourself and find the right girl one day, be in a great monogamous relationship and get married:)! Have a good day! x

[dancompeller]

No not treated badly as I would be encouraging her to take on other lovers and helping her find them. If it is with my encouragement and knowledge I don't see how this is treated badly.

Her lovers would have to be one off with strangers to ensure there are no emotions other than pure lust for a bloke she finds damn sexy.

Cheers for you reply :)

[rudy37lee]

People that are in these relationships have a different set of ideals in a relationship so just because you wouldn't be this way doesn't make them wrong or what they have any less valid or real. They are in a committed relationship because they are emotionally faithful to each other and physically faithful because the physical relations are agreed upon by both parties. They are each others primary partner and emotional attachment to another person is still considered unfaithful

[rudy37lee]

Some people are completely fine with this type of relationship, but they are definitely a minority. I like it that my guy wants me all to himself, I don't think I could feel loved in the right way if he was OK, and in fact, encouraged me to sleep with other men. Women feel most loved and intimate when they share intimacy with ONE MAN. Sleeping with someone you don't love doesn't hold a candle to it. Even if it was encouraged I would feel unloyal, to him and to myself I guess because it would be about my morals. Now, if I was dating someone for fun and I didn't love him, then it would be something I would consider. There are women out there that would love this, you'll just have a difficult time finding them.

[dancompeller]

I tend to find most women think like you. For me this is a shame. thanks for the reply :)

[dancompeller]

I think at the top you have summarised a cuckold relationship perfectly. Emotional attachment to the lovers would be considered cheating

[AndiArthropod]

I would be very into that. It's obviously taboo but it seems VERY exciting. I'd love to do that!

[dancompeller]

why oh why were you not born in the UK?

[AndiArthropod]

Haha I don't know.

[dancompeller]

I would have you up the aisle in a second and you could have all the taboo you wanted :)

Let me know if you ever visit the uk!

[AndiArthropod]

Lol! Thanks :)

[09snake22]

I love in the usa :)

[SavageNick87]

It is a super hot idea

[Jimmydeano]

I'd love to find a woman that wants this as well

[dillon1977]

I dated a girl in college for 2 years and she cuckolded me. It was the most exciting thing ever. To watch the girl you love getting pleased by another guy - like watching a porn with your girlfriend starring in it, but only better. I'd totally be into it again!

[Fully_Fashioned]

I'd love this kind of a relationship. Emotional monogamy but she had the freedom to go with whoever she wants. The problem is though as another commentator wrote, it' can be had to separate love and sex.

[Anonymous]

What compels you to want this kind of relationship if I may ask? It honestly seems like it would be my worst nightmare.

[dancompeller]

I love the idea of it. Watching the woman I love, having even more pleasure and seeing the excitement on her face. I would also enjoy the whole build up itwould be fantastic.

Obviously I would only want her to love me and she would only be with the other men for pure sexual satisfaction and pleasure. However bewteen us we would have love and make love.

[Opinion Owner]

So, you would watch her with other men- as in having sex with them? But you wouldn't participate. I'm guessing part of the thrill is watching the sex. Am I wrong?

[mia456]

That's definitely different but it actually sounds kinda fun its not cheating its just fun flirting.

[dancompeller]

Mia, I wish there more open minded women like you in the UK. :)

[mia456]

lol thanks

[dancompeller]

However just to clarify, it would go a bit further than flirting. But is still would not be cheating as I would be encouraging it and be fully aware.

[mia456]

well its not cheating its fun for her and you know about it

[mia456]

my point exactly I just don't know if I would do it maybe I would but maybe its unfaithful if its more than flirting so I would just flirt

[Tonguethegoddess]

Would you interracially cuckold?

[Tshane36]

The whole concept is based around full honesty, you are upfront and honest with your man, show him all text or convos that are with the interested party, and depending on comfort level, you have him there to watch, or Skype it, video it, or maybe he is fine with you coming home after and tell him about it. Just comes down to full honesty between the couple.

[IdontWantToBeMe]

i think to each their own

but personally it's not for me, I have to love someone to want to sleep with them, I would like it to be something between my boyfriend and I.

not my boyfriend, myself and some random guy

[dancompeller]

Yes I would definitely not want my partner loving any of the other guys in this scenario. Love would have to be saved for us and the sex between her and the other men would have to be pure carnal lust not love

[IdontWantToBeMe]

well for "some" women that is difficult because when we associate sex with love, so that may be part of your problem finding women who are into this even though I'm sure there would be some that would like it

[Anonymous]

It sounds very appealing and exciting. I'd love to be in this role.

[Jimmydeano]

message me lol

[Sweet_toes30]

I really love to be in this kind of relationship... its not my fantasy its my idealogy :) I wish I had somone who share me everytime and enjoy it

[Fully_Fashioned]

Wonderful ideology :-)

[Fully_Fashioned]

I wish you were near me Sweet_toes! I'm all for female liberation...

[HornyPerv]

This is the type of relationship I want to have also.

[Macho_Pretty_Cuddles]

I am from Coffs Harbour, Australia would like it. Or use a penis sleeve sometimes so I could give my partner a bigger penis.

[RachelleDraws]

So, basically, you want to date a slut?

[Fully_Fashioned]

Yes but "slut" as a term of endearment

[RachelleDraws]

@Fully_Fashioned How exactly is that a term of endearment?

[Fully_Fashioned]

Because she's idolised, empowered and free to embrace her sexuality

[RachelleDraws]

@Fully_Fashioned A slut, by definition, is a woman who has many casual sexual partners.
This spreads STDs. You wanting to be in a 'cuckold' relationship is not healthy and wouldn't last long. Genetically, women are likely to catch feelings through sex due to something called dopamine. If she has awesome sex with someone, the dopamine released from that experience will make her feel that experience again. What's more, there's something called "Oxytocin". Oxytocin is released during sex, but it’s also released by physical contact such as cuddling, kissing or hugging. Both men and women release Oxytocin, however, women release a lot more. Even if she has sex with someone she doesn't particularly like, she will naturally become attached to him. Everyone is at mercy to their genetics and hormones. Due to this, the kind of relationship you seek is biologically doomed.

[Fully_Fashioned]

You're right about STIs Rachelle, however she could have another regular lover. That's a different scenario entirely. Sometimes guys struggle to satisfy a woman for a plethora of reasons; then it's time to bring in an expert 😋 I wouldn't want my partner to feel unfulfilled like that. However, this does not mean I don't love her, rather this would be an expression of love and trust

[RachelleDraws]

@Fully_Fashioned Did you not listen to my essay on oxytocin? It won't work.

[Tshane36]

No, someone you absolutely care for, but want to make sure that she is always satisfied in every way.

[Anonymous]

Hell yeah

[dancompeller]

Hi Anonymous

You say that and that is the answer I would expect. However when it gets down to the nitty gritty and actually doing it most girls say they just want the normal relationship and can't undertand why I would be happy for them to do it.

Where are you from, if you don't mind me asking?

Dan

[Handyman03]

Great lol

[Heisman459]

I want a girl who wants this

[CuriousEddie]

Is there a bisexual aspect to it at all?

[Honeybaby]

No couldn't do that.

[dancompeller]

That is the most popular reply Honeybaby.

But I don't understand why when it would actually be me asking you to do it. So you would not be cheating. Pls you get to have a bit of extra fun.

[Honeybaby]

My reason is simply that I'd be foolish to not dedicate my full time and attention to the one person who loves me, soils me and treats me like a princess. I would want to do the same for him.

[Tshane36]

You would be, if that's what he wanted, just because you get to have any guy you want, does not mean that your man doesn't love you, take care of you, and is completely there for you. Maybe he just wants you to have complete free will over your own body and thatis something that he enjoys.

[Couple4BBCuk]

Yes we already have one it's so hot x

[Couple4BBCuk]

We already have one both love it x