Girls , would you like to control/dominate your crush?

[Anonymous]

I’m doing research. Please help girls. ?

Tell me which of the following ideas is hot or not:

1. tell her I’m in love with her.

2. tell her she's so beautiful that I want to obey her.

3. tell her she can control me if she wants because I’m in love with her.

4. tell her that I would be very happy to see her/talk on phone with her.

5.tell her that I want to marry her and give her all my money and let her spend it on whatever she wants because I love her like crazy.

6.tell her she can cheat on me if that makes her more sexually happy. Tell her that I would be jealous but would accept because her happiness is more important than my jealousy.

7. tell her she so beautiful that I want to worship her and be her love slave.

8. tell her I would do whatever she wants because I love her(doing household chores and so on).

[Anonymous]

1. Yes only if you mean it.

2. Tell me I'm beautiful all the time, just leave out the obey part unless we're in bed.

3. I would probably take advantage of that after a while and spend all his money but not really respect him. No one should be controlling anyone, it's just not right!

4. That's nice to hear.

5. You can say that as pillow talk but I wouldn't want an actual relationship like that.

6. No, I would think of him as a little punk bitch.

7. Maybe in bed but not seriously.

8. Um, I prefer a more traditional guy. Simple tasks like picking up after yourself is ok but wearing an apron and staying at home? Nooo

I like for a man to be a man and if he was taking the submissive thing to that level I wouldn't be able to respect him and I would be disgusted by him.

[sassygal4]

This is an interesting question...

1. Very hot, if you really are and if you've known each other or have been dating for a while

2. Not hot, unless it's some sort of kinky sex thing and she likes that sort of thing, but I wouldn't want a man to just say that to me.

3. Not hot, again, same as #2. Also, these both come off as desperate if just said like that.

4. I don't know if I would say this is hot, but I'd like to hear that. It's very sweet.

5. Not so hot. Screams desperate.

6. Not hot.

7. Hot, but only if done in the heat of the moment and talking about sex.

8. Not hot.

[jdrake4360]

Ok, from the dominant woman point of view-the only one that I would not really want to hear is the first half of question 5 the second half is fine! The rest of the questions turn me on! Realize that I am a rare find though. Good luck on the research.

[voodoochild]

None of them will get her to like you believe me.

You're just displaying major clingy, doormat behaviour which is a total turn off to women.

They want a man who just as good or better then them not a some loser who's always on his knees for her.

[sassygal4]

Perfect answer, right here!

[Asker]

strange though, on the flip side, I would love to do this to girls, fantasy-wise at least. lol.

[Bombshell13]

1. Hot if you've been dating awhile, Not if you've only hung out a couple times

2.Not, just creepy

3.Not

4.Hot

5. ... Hot if it's in a joking way, Not if it's serious

6.The thought (your happiness is extremely important to me) is Hot, that sentance specifically is actually rather Not.

7.Not

8.Hot

[Anonymous]

tell her that you love her as much as you can kill yourself for her .. llol seriously !

tell her that you're crazy about her and you will be for her until death and tell her that she's an angle and when she smiles all the world smile for her tell her that you see the happiness when you just look at her ,

i think this is more romantic then 3,4,5,6,8 haha because you were talking rude sorry ... but look at what I said then choose but I think what I wrote is better ,

[Plug-in-Baby]

have a bit of back bone, personally I i were the girl I'd lose any interest cause the chase would be over.

If your already with her though, I'd go with 1 and 4, they're nice, all the rest are too strong and creepy

[Anonymous]

1. hot

2. not...morelike creepy.

3. turn off.

4. hot

5.. um..maybe?

6. Weird. not hot. you should want her to be only yours and you should want to be able to be the only one who can make her more "sexually happy" than some other dude.

7. Creepy.

8. Maybe.. you might just...do it. and not say anything like that.

[makaila]

1. Aww...

2. Hell no

3. NO!

4. I guess...

5. Dnt do that. PLEEEZE

6. WTF Dude?

7. Uuuh, no

8. Okay, Okay

Hey, dude I'm just being honest with you here =] No, hard feelings, but this sh*t would be like a total sign of a -->[[[STALKER]]]<--- but this is just my opinion.

[Anonymous]

only 1 and 4 are any kind of okay. telling a girl that you want to be her little slave/puppy dog is not a turn on...unless you're already in bed and you can tell she's feeling a little dominant. girls want a man that can take care of her and make her feel like a woman not someone she can walk all over. not hot.

[Hippy]

If she loves you back she wouldn't want to control if you really want it to work it has to be equally balanced and look after each other.

[LanaArtist]

1. hot

2. hot

3. not

4. not

5. not

6. not

7. not

8. hot

[xtine21]

1. hot and not

2. hot and not

3. not

4. not

5. hot

6. not

7. hot

8. not

[Anonymous]

1. hot

2. not

3. not

4. hot

5. not

6. not at all

7. not

8. okay

[Anonymous]

i like number 1, 2 and 3