Question about showing off your boobs?

[Anonymous]

I guess this question is more for the guys. Obviously i know that guys looking at girls boobs, cleavage, all that, so i know guys aren't going to say they dislike the way girls dress, BUT, even though you like what you see, do you still have the same amount of respect for the girl who wears the super low cut shirts, rather than the girl who is more modest and leaves more up to the imagination?

[Theguyoverthere]

I saw a woman's dating profile and she was wearing all these revealing clothes. At the bottom of the profile she wrote that she doesn't want pervs messaging her. So I messaged her with a comment about how she doesn't want pervs messaging her but she's wearing all these revealing clothes... go figure. She replied back calling me a fuckface ranting about how she can wear whatever she wants.

Honestly, if a girl is showing off cleavage she wants the attention. I can understand "wanting to feel sexy for a day" but if that's going to be a first impression, I'd only exchange numbers intending to hook up if we somehow started talking.

[Asker]

If i could pick more than one most helpful answer i'd pick this one too, right on.

[FreeLunch]

I don't have the same amount of respect. Sure, tits are nice. But they are a lot more special if I'm the only one that gets to see them. It's not so much about the imagination then it is about exclusivity.

I also don't really take a woman like that seriously. Do you have to wear a super low cut shirt for me to pay attention to you? It's probably because you have very little else to offer.

I know it's flawed logic, but that's what I instinctively feel.

[Asker]

I totally agree with this!

[Anonymous]

I think whether or not they realize it, guys are generally going to judge a girl based on her first impression, like you said. If she's dressed like a slut, they're going to assume she's good for a fuck and that's it. Granted, there are exceptions, but rarely.

[Asker]

Yes ma'am

[godfatherfan]

The imagination is over-rated.
I don't think of woman as "slutty" or any other kind of negative term if they show off the goods.
I am more apt to thing of a woman as a prude, snobbish or something of that ilk for dressing like an amish person.
If you have it, flaunt it.

[Asker]

I'm talking about girls who dress like hookers. Not just showing a little cleavage i mean like, dressing in the tiniest outfit you can find. You still think she's going to be the relationship type if she's going out in public looking for that kind of male attention?

[godfatherfan]

no, the kind that look whoreish just look foolish. there is a saying that is very true:
A man wants a women that acts like a whore in bed and a lady everywhere else.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Respect does not correlate to appearance. Respect correlates to behavior. You can be as conservative as you want, if you're grinding on everything in the room then you'll have the respect of a slut, and if you're dressed to kill but act as though you have a higher standard in your men you'll be seen as such.

[Asker]

The sluttier you dress, the sluttier it makes you seem. Im not going to leave my house looking like a hooker if i hold myself to high standards, and guys pick up on that. They think if you dress like a slut, you want to be treated like a slut because thats the image you've created for yourself. A guy isn't even going to take the time to get to know you if he thinks all you're good for is a good fuck. So actually it has everything to do with appearance.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Am I to argue with you? You asked a question yet you know the answer? Then why ask?

Whatever the case we'll have to agree to disagree. Some of the most grandiose "sluts" I've had the fortune to hear of were in church clothing and some of the most upstanding women I've ever seen where in dresses that exemplified their shapes to the point where you might pass out if you stared at them too long.

[BoundByCuriosity]

purely on parameters youve spoken about, i dont think there is enough to go to start making respect calls.

a girl can wear a really low cut, super cleavage formal dress, or she could be wearing a far too small trashy sleeveless t-shirt, and one is definitely going to seem trashier than the other.

but really it comes down to what is being worn, by whom, and of course their behavior. (the behavior really seals the deal in my opinion)

[Anonymous]

I my private life I like looking at pictures of girls showing off their boobs, but in public if I notice any women showing them off in real life I try not to look for fear of being called a sexist pig or pervert.This can be quite embarrassing especially when other women hear it and then give you a filthy look.Women do this because they want to attract the attention from the right men, the good looking men, the rich men, but if you are the wrong kind of man she wishes to attract she'll be pretty angry at you.

[funkipunk]

Same respect.

I only lose respect for a girl by her actions or the way she speaks. Those two things give me a much better indication of what she's like.

[TadCurious]

Unless it's like a job interview, or something like that, I don't respect women who show boob/cleavage any less. And you're right, guys can't help but look. It's a very primal thing.

[Helpful]

The way one dresses isn't the same as attitude. A lady can dress provocatively but have a classy attitude

[Asker]

Yeah but if you look like a slut, a guy is going to assume you probably are a slut and not even bother taking the time to get to know you. Most guys anyway.

[Metal189]

girls generally dress for their best asset. if you're fine with showing off your best asset (boobs) in that sort of way, then do it. it's up to him how he reacts around it.

[JSmuve]

Respect her the same? Probably not. I like it when I have to use my imagination. I tend to think of those girls as more girlfriend material and the girl's who reveal more as hook-up material.

[BryanM]

I respect both equally, but when a girl dresses modestly it is more tantalising... more of a forbidden fruit situation.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure on what you mean with "respect"? Like you mean I would treat a girl worse if she wore a shorter skirt?

[Asker]

I'm mean the sluttier you dress, the sluttier people think you are. So generally guys will hook up with the slutty girl and then not want anything more with her after that, because he doesn't respect her as much as the modest girl who is more relationship material.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay. My experience is that the personality mostly overlaps with the "look" in the way that when you talk to the girl, you'll know in seconds how slutty she actually is. So yeah I guess I have some respect for the girls that like to "show off". Also, If they want to have fun and I want to have fun, I'm not going to judge.

[RealityCheckTime]

Just be yourself. Everything else will work out if you do.

[Anonymous]

It's not that big of a deal. We lose respect if that's done often

[zagor]

Don't care.