Polls: Guy's Behavior

Do you like short fingers or long fingers?

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I love it when my boyfriend goes down on me. And almost every time we have sex he will go down on me first. I enjoy it so much because it's the only way I get to orgasm. Intercourse doesn't do it for me as much (it still feels great and he's very good).

But he's also told me that I'm the only one who benefits from it. But he doesn't mind doing it. I've always thought he liked it bc he does it so much.

So I want to see what you guys think!

I heard it makes her look desperate and is a HUGE turn off.

BUT I have been told it makes him like her more.

So guys, lets be honest here, how would you feel?

Lets say you know this girl likes you but you seem unsure of your feelings for her,

if another guy says "You're beautiful" or something else while you're right there watching him say that, and the girl you like responds 'hahaha' or 'thank you,' will you be annoyed?

If she was your friend and the guy told her that, and she responds 'thank you,' or 'hahaha,' will you still be annoyed or less annoyed?

My crush used to offer hugs all the time but suddenly stopped. He will if I offer and then it's a really tight, intimate hug that lasts till I pull away. Last time he nuzzled his cheek on mine for the first time. I felt like he really wanted to kiss me but we were at school and that's not allowed.

Now he hugs anyone but me, guys, girls, but only quick friend hugs, nothing like what we did. He flirts with me daily, makes food just for me, refers to our "relationship" of three years as "intimate", always sits so we are touching and leans in all the time so I can whisper things to him. We have inside jokes and when we talk he's either holding eye contact or sneaking looks at my boobs.

He remembers everything we've ever talked about and brings up old fights we've had where there was crying (him) and really intense hugging. He says sometimes he thinks I hate him. I've told him quite the opposite. He's told me he has confidence problems and doesn't see how anyone could really love him or want him.

He's made lots of "jokes" about how I sound like a gf. He talks suggestively to me but not really dirty. He asks to use me as a pillow or if I want to sit on his lap and we find ways to touch each other for no reason.

So why is he anti hug all of a sudden? Should I respect this, even though he seems to enjoy it when I hug him? I asked him last week why I had to beg him for hugs now and he said he wasn't sure I liked them. I said I always wanted hugs from him but then the next day no hug but everything else like usual. I also had to ask him for a senior pic because he didn't think I'd want one!

Is he clueless or just that insecure? Should I be bolder about how I feel or will that scare him off? when he's annoying I always say things like he's lucky I love him so much, so he knows I love him. I feel like telling him it's turned ino more but we're both really shy when we are alone and end having a dumb normal convo instead of saying hat we're feeling.

Junior year he would come up behind me every day and throw himself on me until I said he was crushing me. That was last year and now my feelings for him are so strong I would love to hug him at school since it's okay to hug but not kiss.

He refused a hug once and that hurt me and I told him never again. About a week ago we had a long tight hug and he rubbed his cheek on mine while holding me close. I really wanted to kiss him!

Yesterday he hugged a guy friend right in front of me and I asked him why I have to beg for hugs. He said he wasn't sure I liked hugs! I said always!

Today we were at a party and he only danced with me. I drove him home but was too nervous to say anything serious about us.

He took pics of us at the party with his phone and randomly puts the phone in my face to take a pic. He cooks food for me and brings it in just for me and him and sometimes feeds me with a spoon or puts candy right in my mouth with his fingers.

From stuff I've read on here, he seems to be painfully shy. He's told me he's an open book to me and he's told me tons of personal stuff and vice versa.

I really want the physical contact with him since as friends that's the only acceptable thing to do. How do I get him to offer hugs or not refuse mine? I don't want to seem clingy or needy.

I know he likes contact with me. We're always sitting close, brushing hands or fingers or playing footsie under the table. We block each other's way a lot so we have a reason to brush past each other and put our hands on each other.

He finds me all the time at school just to hang out. We talk or just sit and make eyes at each other quietly. I've heard that he's had a least three people drive him past my house and he's threatened to ring my doorbell if he's jogging by (he lives four streets away).

Did he stop hugging me because he has feelings for me too and knows the tension between us is making things awkward? The last hug felt like it was leading somewhere else.

I am a 22 years old girl, met a guy around 30(i like older guys) in May, we really clicked & things got pretty serious. We're frm south east asia, so it was more romantic and commitment thing than dating. I felt so much in love and I really felt his love for me. He gave me most beautiful names and stuff. Things were getting very intense and romantic, But i felt that i was getting overly emotional and should distance, we also had a few fights, so i decided to cut contact with him, without informing him or breaking up. I just stopped talking and blocked him from everywhere, with the intention that I will see him somewhere, sometime, and we will get married and things will work out but at that time I didn't want to bother. I missed him every day and never deleted his pictures and his songs from my mobile and laptop. Recently, I decided to contact him again... and he is EXTREMELY angry with me, he is not ready to talk. The moment I send him a message, he replies 'leave me alone', 'i don't want to talk to you', 'i don't trust you' he is very angry and rude and mean and doesn't want to talk to me at all. He even said that if I try to message or call him again, he will block my number. Its been four months since i stopped talking to him, and now as far as I know, he doesn't have any relationship. He is not ready to talk to me.

Can anyone give me insight on whether or not he has moved on? Can I have a chance with him? Does his anger indicate that he might have any feelings for me still?

There is this guy I know who is funny and pretty loud but around me he is very shy and nervous. He never texts me first, I always have to text him first (I don't text him a lot by the way, maybe once a week) and he usually responds pretty quickly.

But in person, he use to approach me first, now he acts very quiet and calm towards me yet still shy.

What do you guys think?

There's a guy who I've recently met, and whenever we talk, he always looks at my eyes. I mean, it's really nice for a change, but does that mean he's not into me physically? I find my self looking at his lips, his body and his eyes when I talk to him, but his eyes are always locked on mine. Does that mean he's not into me physically. I'm pretty attracted to him, so I want to know what this means :)
Thanks loves.

I don't mean sexually, in sexual situations, I mean generally.
Why do you touch females so much, and so often?
I am not a particularly tactile person myself, unless it's family or a really close friend. I'm respectful, in some ways reserved, but very friendly.
I find that on a daily basis, men touch me as if my body is their property.
Some examples are:
Standing in very close proximity.
A client's husband at work putting his hands on my hips from behind, to move me a little bit out of the way.

Touching my waist.
An older man I know who is very respectful, married and a dad, touches my back and shoulders very often, while maintaining eye contact.
A guy similar in age to me at work, who happens to be married, with a baby, touched my stomach, trying to explain something to me, which was work related (he's a physio). Then again, today, he was explaining another scenario to me, and touched me for a second on my upper/side bum, near my hip. I didn't really see it to be necessary at all for him to touch me in those places while explaining these things to me, it took me by surprise actually.
And just general touching.
I am not inviting the touching, at least not that I know of.
I am not positioning myself closely to males either, and if they get too close, I will generally move away a fraction.
I dress nicely, but modestly.
I'm not flirtatious either, at least I hope I don't come across that way.

So what I'd like to know, is the above behaviour normal?
Am I just being over sensitive about something that is very normal and common?
Why do males do this?
Do you do this? And why/why not?

Any insight would be appreciated!

The examples I have given have not been the only incidents, but I thought I'd list just a few, to give a general idea of what I'm talking about.

I often don't say anything, as Im not sure if I'm just thinking too much about something that is actually perfectly normal, and I'm just over-sensitive.

Do guys like seeing what mascara looks like on girl's eyelashes? Other than the length, but the black coat of goo dried up on the eyelashes?

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im not talking about fake lashes, im talking about coats of mascara on lashes.

I DO NOT see anything special about her. She looks 12 and her body looks twelve too. I can see her in a "going back to school commercial" or playing patty cake or hopscotch. She looks like a straight up GIRL. There's nothing hot about her... cute yes, hot no. Most hispanic and Black men tend to agree she isn't shit. Her appearance doesn't exude the phenomenal WOMANLY image. She's a girl physically wise.

I just find it kind of weird. I know he loves me, he tells me he loves me. But he never compliments me. He used to before we started dating. he used to call me beautiful on a daily basis and treat me like a princess. but once we started dating, he's probably only called me beautiful once... and he was drunk. He's never called me cute, hot, or anything along those lines. he only says he loves me when he's saying goodbye to me. If I say "I love you" at any other time, he doesn't say it back. It actually really hurts because he's my boyfriend and i want him to think i'm pretty. I don't have a high confidence level so when i get to thinking about this is really brings me down. I've told him on multiple occasions how i feel about this and he just says that its not the kind of guy he is.. but he used to. I don't know what to do, I need a loving and affectionate boyfriend.. but unless we're having sex, he treats me like a best friend rather than a girlfriend. He got really mad when I told him this. he;s even told me he'll try to be better for me.. but nothings ever changed. I don't know what to do!