Do you think he might still have any feelings even if he is angry? Why isn't he willing to talk?

[pink_lover]

I am a 22 years old girl, met a guy around 30(i like older guys) in May, we really clicked & things got pretty serious. We're frm south east asia, so it was more romantic and commitment thing than dating. I felt so much in love and I really felt his love for me. He gave me most beautiful names and stuff. Things were getting very intense and romantic, But i felt that i was getting overly emotional and should distance, we also had a few fights, so i decided to cut contact with him, without informing him or breaking up. I just stopped talking and blocked him from everywhere, with the intention that I will see him somewhere, sometime, and we will get married and things will work out but at that time I didn't want to bother. I missed him every day and never deleted his pictures and his songs from my mobile and laptop. Recently, I decided to contact him again... and he is EXTREMELY angry with me, he is not ready to talk. The moment I send him a message, he replies 'leave me alone', 'i don't want to talk to you', 'i don't trust you' he is very angry and rude and mean and doesn't want to talk to me at all. He even said that if I try to message or call him again, he will block my number. Its been four months since i stopped talking to him, and now as far as I know, he doesn't have any relationship. He is not ready to talk to me.

Can anyone give me insight on whether or not he has moved on? Can I have a chance with him? Does his anger indicate that he might have any feelings for me still?

He still has feelings

He has moved on completely

[theville]

U DAMAGED HIM AND THEN U DID NOT EVEN HAVE THE DECENCY TO TELL HIM thats REALLY BAD and it probably was severely HURT!!! Currently my bf/fiance and i are not speaking and i HOPE he would NOT consider this a break up!!! I WOULD be so UPSET that he would NOT TALK TO ME about the situation - and YES i think u hurt him BAD and he may have REALLY LIKED U and for him to say he does not TRUST u he means he was falling for and THEN nO CONTACT and u ignored him do u know how IGNORANT AND MEAN that is and especially if u felt u were all in love he may hve thought that also THEN U JUST SHUT HIM DOWN!!! NOT GOOD he SHOULD move on if u THOUGHT That would be OK TO JUST CUT A HUMAN BEING OFF -- WOW i did not think females did that just MEN!!! GOOD LUCK but live and learn NEVER just to that to someone VERY MEAN AND CALLOUS!!! LIKE u are BETTER than HE and he doesn't deserve and explanation VERY WRONG!!! HE probably HAD a lot of FEELINGS!!!

[acka72]

He has feelings, but you hurt him so bad its unlikely he'll want you back. Sometimes, we are so hurt its hard to trust the other person again. Learn not to do this: overreact to your emotions when things are tough. You can ignore a person for a short while, but don't make it months, that is just plain cruel. Im not telling you, Im better tan you or anything, but I did something similar a few years ago and I still regret it. Suppose it will help you mature and learn that guys have feelings too and that they are way way more vulnerable than us, cause they dont have who to talk about their feelings the way we do.

[wommi881]

You dump him, give no explanation and then want him back? For God's sake. You hurt him. You hurt his feelings, his ego and his dignity. Yes, when he's angry for so long he has feelins for you but after this experience I doubt he'd do anything with you.

[president97]

You shouldn't have a chance with him because you are the actual mean one here and dont try to look innocent please because you are not. You simply destroyed a beautiful love due to your fears so congratulations.

[Anonymous]

The fact he is so angry with you shows that he still has feelings for you.

If he didn't have feelings for you, he wouldn't be angry with you four months on and I can understand why he's angry with you.

I'd be angry if a girl did what you did to me, it wasn't good behavior was it? I think you should listen to what he says and move on because you've really hurt this guy and the chances are he probably won't ever forget what has happened, even if he says he 'forgives' you.

[Anonymous]

The arrogance of some women! i'll just dump the guy here with no explanation, and pick him up again later when I think it's time to get married...

On behalf of men everywhere, fuck you you entitled bitch.

[megmasweg]

If his mad, it doesn't mean he doesn't care, by the way what made you distance yourself from him? he might have been heartbroken when you left.

[pinkZeta]

just arrange a meet up, if he agrees to see you it means he still wants something to do with you and tell him you're sorry and you want him back and etc... if not, you should just try to move on.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you should reflect on the reason why you backed away when you became too emotionally attached and work on that part of yourself. The guy likely wants to see a change in you before letting you back only to be hurt by you.

[Daddyissues]

You hurt his ego. Unless you find a way to boost his ego don't expect him to give you the time of day.