I did hurt him emotionally but not on purpose. That’s why he told me he needed some space and a break but I’m sick of waiting on him. It’s been two weeks and he won’t let me in all the way yet. I understand he’s hurt.
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@Flower7 It’s the anonymous girl, here’s some more information from night for you.
Does he sound hurt, angry, mad, disappointed? I’m not sure how to take the responses?
He seems very confused, like he doesn’t know what he wants.
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His whole diameter changed when I told him that I was gonna move on because I didn’t wanna wait for him anymore and that’s the way he acted (through the texts) He told me that he doesn’t know if he’s over me but he clearly he isn’t if he’s acting that way when I mentioned moving on and going on dates with other dudes. Not even so much sex. Just chilling out hanging out with other dudes with no intentions of sex.
The whole situation is confusing me to me. He told me he still has feelings and never lost them even though he was trying to. He keeps telling me to wear his clothes and it doesn’t bother him and he doesn’t mind but IF I’m just a friend, why? He’s told me time and time again there isn’t anybody and he isn’t trying to stick his dick in anybody but that was after my friends told me they don’t think he’d cheated on me. He’s a very quiet guy, keeps to himself, doesn’t try and start conversations with people. Very anti-social, he lives with a couple of roommates and that’s it. Those are basically his friends. He gets really bad social anxiety in a big crowded group.
The comment where he said, “Having sex with people means you’re over it too” Over what? Like I’m not trying to have sex with anybody right now.
@Flower7 that's funny bc reading those texts it sounds like Asker is the one who is confused.
"Hey I broke up with you. I won't wear the clothes you gave me, I don't want to hurt you. I want to be in a relationship with you. I want it to be real. I want to be like we were. We're just friends now."
Unless I'm confused? And if so, I can understand how he's confused, since she seems confusing.
