Do you think he is angry?

[Anonymous]

He's my friend with benefits... It's been 4 months since we couldn't see each other... Because of work, university, health problems... He had to go to the dentist... Yesterday I told him that I am going out with a boy from the office (this boy is in love with me) but I told him that we are going to go out and be friends (I am not looking for any type of relationship with someone from the office) I told this to my friend with benefits and he started telling me I'm going to fall in love with that guy... Even I told him I couldn't because he's from the office and he's not my type... So we were able to see us (my friend with benefits and I) to have sex.. "That's what you say now... Trust me, you're going to fall in love with him" "Do you think i'm easy for me to fall in love with someone?" I asked him again and he didn't answer me... Today he published a video of dogs having sex... Sorry hahaha this reminded us and I told him "you should invite me to do that"... And he only saw my message and didn't answer me... Is he angry?

[AnonyWoman4309]

He might be a little jealous yes, that’s what happens when you get something and take it for granted. This guy had something nice (you guys’ friends with benefits relationship). He didn’t do anything to try and commit to you so that others can’t have you, so even if he is upset he can only be mad at himself. He’s scared that the guy is going to steal you away from being friends with benefits with him and is being aloof because he doesn’t want you to be around him. He sounds very spoiled. The worst thing you can do though is bother him when he’s mad. Bothering him when he’s mad will only make him more mad. Instead give him space, lots of it. Then it’s your choice to decide what to do when he does back. In my personal opinion, teach him that’s he’s not entitled to anything by not doing anything sexual with him when he comes back.

[AnonyWoman4309]

Also I’d really hope that this isn’t the case but realize that his pulling away might be a form of manipulation. He’s pulling away so you don’t go with that guy and stop being friends with benefits with him. What you need to do is show him that his pulling away actually convinces you to go with the guy and stop being friends with benefits with him.

[Asker]

Well i don't want a relationship with him...
That's why I accepted to being friends with benefits
Now, I'm not looking for something with someone... Unless the guy I'm looking for appears...
So i don't feel bad if he comes to me and have sex again...

[AnonyWoman4309]

Oh okay that makes sense. But yeah either way he’s scared of losing you, even though he hasn’t even had you for a minute.

[spartan55]

Who knows? He's not your boyfriend, so why does it matter?
Perhaps he's pissed at your attempt to make him jealous. Maybe he's wondering why you are leading a guy on whom you work with that you have no interest in?

[Asker]

But I have to tell him if I'm going to date or being with someone...
That's when we talk if we continue with this or not...
We just going out as a friends... No someone else

[spartan55]

Yeah, but you know the guy likes you (this boy is in love with me) so you going out with him when you don't like him is leading him on. Not cool.

[spartan55]

Thanks for the MHO!