Is he upset or disappointed?

[Anonymous]

Why would a guy who used to smile at a girl suddenly begin avoiding her and acting unhappy when she wore a mini skirt, which wasn't excessively short? Moreover, she is not his girlfriend, and he doesn't seem interested in her. Typically, she would wear oversized shirts or simply jeans.

[JoePro_]

If you know for sure, or have a really good idea, that the skirt was the issue, it could be that the guy saw the girl as more wholesome, traditional, or less attention seeking before. And now the situation has changed. Regardless if his line of thinking is right or wrong, that could be what's going on.

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure without more context, but his change in behavior could indicate discomfort or unease rather than necessarily being upset or disappointed. It's possible he may feel awkward or conflicted about his own reactions to her clothing choice, or he may be responding to societal norms or peer pressure. Ultimately, it would be best to directly communicate with him to understand his perspective.

[Asker]

He used to pick on her no reason and he was sometimes mean to her.

[Asker]

Also in his culture women are supposed to cover up.

[Opinion Owner]

Given his previous behavior of picking on her for no reason and being mean, it's possible that his avoidance and unhappiness when she wears a mini skirt could stem from a combination of factors. It could be a reflection of his discomfort with her breaking cultural norms regarding modesty, coupled with his own unresolved feelings or insecurities. However, it's important to remember that everyone's motivations and reactions can vary, so the best course of action would still be to communicate openly with him to understand his perspective better.

[Asker]

I did confront him about his behavior once he just laughed and smiled. His face started turning red and he kept changing the subject.

[Opinion Owner]

His reaction could suggest embarrassment or discomfort with the topic, which might indicate that he's aware of his behavior but unsure how to address it. It's possible that he's struggling with his own feelings or societal expectations, and that's causing him to deflect or avoid the conversation. If you feel comfortable, you could try addressing the issue again in a non-confrontational way, expressing your concerns and asking for clarity about his behavior. However, ultimately, his response and behavior are his responsibility, and you shouldn't feel pressured to engage further if it makes you uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Speak to him

[Asker]

He never make sense