Showering at guy friends house?

[Anonymous]

I can't sleep unless I take a shower. and I don't want him to get the wrong idea... Would taking a shower be bad? I feel kinda awkward asking him

Yes

No

They won't cate

Updates

+1 y

Ok. He USED have a crush on me. Now he has a gf. And I don't wanna cause drama. The only reason why I'm sleeping over is cuz I'm having trouble with my parents and he lives close to me

Updates

+1 y

Also for guys that say it's bad, why would it be bad? O? or just curious wheat you guys are thinking.

[Nik1hil]

It will be awkward if you are two good for him and think about you sexually. If just friends then its fine. But if you want to give a shot to that part of your relationship then its a really nice time. Actually perfect time.

[Asker]

Errr he USED to like me. He has a gf now. And I don't like him like that. The reason is because i don't wanna deal with my parents and he lives close to me.

[Nik1hil]

If he has a gf then it is fine he is totally over you , and you were friends not a trouble , just by mistake do not turn him on by doing something. And if his gf is around ask her permission too.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

if you need to wait to he's at work to shower there, his gf gets wind of it than wow
but it's you and his decision i think you have feelings for this guy even thou he's
got gf

[Asker]

(if you need to wait he's at work to shower there) <Er could you rephrase it? Couldnt understand sorry. And it's possible. I considered if I like him or not because he's really sweet. But I never once thought about dating him. (If that makes sense)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, i don't know to say?

[Asker]

Wellll first start with what you were trying to say here. XD I got confused. (if you need to wait he's at work to shower there) why would I wait? ._. I think im understanding it differently.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Just keep this mutual friendship if this guy
has girlfriend cause. Maybe try working things
out with your parents so you can go back home

[Asker]

Nope. Me with parents? Not gonna happen.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, how this guys girlfriend feel about you
unless he doesn't tell her? I'm just saying
another thing is too someone is going get
hurt here so you got think this one over
I sure wouldn't be shower at some girls
house who had husband/ boyfriend
unless he permitted it to happen
i wouldn't care if the girl had crush
or i had crush on her

[lumos]

It's no big deal imo. Just bring your own towel, and lock the door. Also, you should probably change your clothes in there while you're at it.

[CommieDearest]

I don't see the big deal. Just ask if you can use the shower. Same as you would anyone else's house.

[Iron_Man]

can't you wash your face and sleep after? dont shower at a friends house they might have web cames set up then the next thing you know your on one of those sites

[Asker]

Would guys actually go to that's extreme?

[Iron_Man]

Yeah and big time in this in this day and age. Its a big hit on the net, I would in no way do it.

[Iron_Man]

You will never see those little Cams then when you go home the guy is getting it already to go and calling his friends as well

[Iron_Man]

They love to burn there x girlfriends and there is even sites on those names

[SatanClaus]

Dont do it, don't do it... his gf will get the wrong impression and things will go south from there. I say whatever trouble you have with your parents face the consequences of whatever you did rather than ruining the life of your friend.

[AlexCab]

No, I don't think so unless you're either weird or too sexy about it.

[cagefighter1568]

If you ask first then he might be ok with it. But don't just do it.

[gtrain]

why are you sleeping at your guy friends house anyway? thats kinda random

[Asker]

In trouble with parents, he lives really close to me.

[gtrain]

sorry just saw the update now, i may have missed that before. This is a really easy one. You straight up say to his face "hey I'm so glad things are working out between you and your gf, i hope she doesn't mind I'm staying? then when he says nah its totally find just say oh good because obviously we are just friends and nothing would ever happen" or something like that to set him straight that your not interested but not in a rude way

[rUinSAYAN]

just be sure that the door is closed

[Jahnnavi]

First ask him about taking a shower