Polls: Guy's Behavior

Can you really tell if a guy likes you or not by the amount of texts he replies you? And how long you have to wait? Online “experts” and articles say you can do that, I feel it’s very stupid and immature?

He was being good to me and things were really good for a while. We had loads of sex etc.

He went and did a photoshop of a band playing and of the crowd and stuff. Since then he’s been weird with me. There’s been no sex.

It has only been two days. But literally everything I say annoys him.

He’s done this before when he thought he had a chance with another girl. But he’s promised tbis would never ever happen again. This was a year ago. The girl had beyond 0 interest in him.

I’ve asked if we’re good today and he said yeah and I joked about how he only starts sex when I’ve not showered and he’s being so short with me.

Does he want to be single for these events he does? Or am I paranoid. I don’t even have the energy for this.

Why would someone lead someone else on? What is his gain he if he is just treating me nasty until he knows for sure if someone else wants him? Is this just me being paranoid. The most annoying thing is I’m always told how attractive I am and have people messaging me wanting me and I know I’m better than the girls he’s doing these things for. This shouldn’t be happening.

I’ve outright asked him if this is going horrible again - but I already know if I say is this so you can be single at your events he will laugh say no, shout and then a horrendous mood for the next week or so. But he won’t ever end it.

He said yes they are neat.
They are a B cup. Then said they suit you if they were bigger wouldn’t look like you and he liked my nipple and said a few times he likes there neat (he’s said that before often)

I thought this was a good idea bc that way he doesn’t have to show up if it’s a bad tone dnd since I’m always in the sane spot sane tine after swimming it seemed simple.

but now im really uncomfortable bc I’ll never know if he’s going to show up and what if he thinks I meant every day that I swim and what if the 1 day he chooses I will not be there last minute emergency or I’ll be tired. I don’t want to limit my work out bc I don’t want to be tired later.

I think this was a terrible idea 🤦🏻‍♀️ but I feel funny switching it after the fact. Wouk’s you be bothered if I switched things to a more specific plan, after we agreed to a flexible plan? Obviously he can say no so it shouldn’t be a finer deal but I still am uncomfortable. Do I ask him if he wants to make a plan or do I suggest it?

Here is my first post

I got a lot of different replies so i did a poll.

Basically he is everything I've ever wanted but he's very close to his best friend. She has an amazing body angelic face and great personality. She makes me insecure.

1. Before we started going out she basically lived with him. They both have there own penthouses but she would cuddle with him in bed while wearing his shirt every night (They stopped this after we stated going out)

2. He greets her by calling her Babygirl, Kitten, Princess while back hugging her. He gives her piggyback rides and randomly picks her up sometimes.

3. When he is drunk she is usually all he talks about or he call/text her

4. When he goes back home to visit his parents she comes along. She is basically a part of his family

5. He has her period schedule on his calendar. He says he keeps track for her because she always forgets to write it on her calendar. He also does it so he can prepare snacks and ice cream, movies to watch, and music to listen to. He makes sure she has pads and tampons and if she has run out he will buy some for her. He is really organized and she is kind of go with the flow and doesn’t prepare for things, so he does it for her. He sometimes even builds a blanket fort for them to watch movies. He does all of this to distract her from the pain. When it’s really bad he plays with her hair and sings her to sleep. He also buys her “period prizes”. Apparently her mother used to buy her gifts when she wasn’t feeling good, so he took over and started buying her a present whenever she doesn’t feel good.)

6. I walked in on him moaning and her straddling his bare back as she massaged him in his bed. (She saw me and offered to do me next)

7. He has also canceled some of our dates when she wasn’t feeling well or was upset. She never asks him to do anything for her but he always runs. And he will do literally anything to put a smile on her face when she is upset, no matter how stupid it makes him look.

Literally have all these negative bitter guys saying women can’t get a man in their 30s/40s because women are expired by then 😂. Not even going to get into how delusional that is. But let us say so many of you guys hairlines are almost completely gone or many of y’all are bald by 25 and it’s Unattractive there is a problem. These same guys cry. What’s up with the huge hypocrisy?

He wrote in black-

I wrote in blue -

We already fucked and something like friends with benefits who don’t mind hanging out and drinking together.

are they attractive on women? would they look good on my belly? I wear a lot of bikinis , so probably my belly is going to be exposed for the most part.

What is the meaning behind that?

• Is that being a friendly and platonic genuine gesture?
• Would you say that to just any woman you know or to a female friend
• or because you are attracted to them and want to get to know them more or because you wanna be more than a shoulder to cry on for her?

I just wanted to see if men are into funny women because I hardly hear them mention if whether they are into them or not?

Creating this poll to show my husband.

Backstory: we just got evicted. Our landlord sold the property and the new owners gave us a 7 day notice to quit. We have until Friday to be out of here and we have absolutely nowhere to go. This came out of left field, as the landlord said we still had at least 6 months. So yes, we had been searching but we were only just told about him trying to sell not even 2 weeks ago so we haven't found shit.

We currently have one vehicle. A caravan with stow and go seating. We have 3 kids and almost $8k to spend on either a down payment for a new home OR a camper, which at this point seems more likely (we already have family who told us we can park a camper there and run electric until we find permanent housing).

My husband however, thinks that buying a truck right now that he found online for $2500 would be better because then we could "move all our shit in one go versus multiple trips" and has claimed that it would help us in the long run because then we would have two vehicles. We don't currently need two vehicles. We need a place to stay and I believe if he pays that much on a freaking truck that would cost $130 to fill right now is an absolutely stupid decision. School starts in 3 days. We need to figure out where we are going to enroll the kids in school, not worry about a truck.

I’m gonna make this simple or try to do you can understand the entire situation.

-When they moved in I called cops cause their music was disturbing the peace at night.

- On a later date I explained why I called cops instead of going to their door cause I’m a single mom. They invited me in for breakfast and we talked for an hour.

- Days later loud noises started to happen which was disturbing the peace in my house. I went to their door nicely and they said it’s their 2 year old.

- A week or two later I went to their door complaining about noise again, this time the husband was alone. He said it’s his kid which sounded like bullshit to me. He then offers me in his house (cause my toddler was playing with his toddler) and then he says “maybe we can go to the park together” we meaning as in him, me and our toddlers as his wife is at work and his teen is at home. He also says “I cook sometimes and you are free to stop by to get food”

- I didn’t take him up on any of his offers and the noise has increased now I noticed. Like after I went to his door when he was home alone the noise stopped because he had MY attention (I’m assuming my attention is what he wants) and now that I’m just kinda minding my business it’s an issue. He’s mentally ill I’m convinced. What do you think?

The guy I’m into , hangout with, talk to a lot always likes this other girls photos all of the time that he works with , he never likes mine !!!
he did before we ever slept together , but not now 🤦🏻‍♀️