Polls: Guy's Behavior

Is my roommate tryng to turn me on?
he keeps trying to interrupt my showers & he came into the hallway this morning to walk to the bathroom…in HIS BOXERS. We made brief eye contact. I'm starting to think he's doing this purposefully.

He has done double takes of me at times (randomly) and he will look at me (MY FACE, perverts) when we accidentally meet in the kitchen. Not stare, its a quick look, but its looking to the point where im thinking its not an accidental glance.

I started talking to this guy a few months ago, but ghosted him cause I wasn’t interested (bad, I know). Anyway, we started talking again mid last month and we were both quite into each other, but we’re both stuck in lockdown so can’t meet.

He’s stopped putting in effort out of nowhere, and barely texts me throughout the day now. He says it’s cause he isn’t using snapchat much, but I dunno. Everyone’s different, and I wanna believe him, but when I do that to guys, it’s cause I’m losing interest.

We get along really well and have stuff in common, and if we meet it’d be incredible, but I don’t wanna waste time or get hurt. And cause we haven’t met, I feel like I can’t ask him where I stand. Should I keep making an effort? Or just leave it? I really do wanna meet him, but that probably won’t happen for at least another month or a little less.

So im 15, I was at a table with my boyfriend and his male friend, His friend is a hunk, I literally get so aroused looking at his friend in a tanktop or when they are hanging out shirtless around the house he is a hottie, I sometimes Fantasize what sleeping with him , But i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend with his friend, if his friend made a move on me i would slap him, But i would still lust for him deep down, does this make me a hoe? to have thoughts but to never act on it?

Nope this isn't a sex question (sorry) I'm talking about the kind of things you feel you should be naturally capable of doing since you're a man but can't quite manage.

For example
You need a new headlight bulb or windscreen wiper for your car. You know you'll struggle to fit it so you'll send your wife to the shop because it's ok for a woman to ask them to fit it.

Or you need a spare part at a DIY.. store but don't know it's real name. Much easier to send her in to ask for one of these thingamajigs that fits on a wotyamacallit.

So as mentioned before my coworker said I talk about you so my son wants to meet you take you to lunch. He likes to know people who are in my life can I give him your number? It's just lunch nothing else. Anyways , I initially said ," cool it's football season it would be cool to have a guy friend tag along and bar hop." After she had already given my number she says," no he doesn't want to watch football with you he wants to have lunch with you. He's going back to college and he has a good job he's just below a lawyer. Do you like husky guys?" That put me off because that sounds like she's trying to play matchmaker. I'm not interested in a coworker son and he doesn't sound appealing at all. I told her I'm not interested in that right now. Anyways the son text me. Once I figured out what they were up to such as matchmaker I ignored. Then he message again.

Would it be weird to ask for a hug? Sounds a bit stupid to be asking this but as a girl I have never come across a man that initiates hugs or anything affectionate other than sex. Do they prefer us to initiate a hug instead? Do you guys find it awkward?