Questions: Guy's Behavior

Women like STRONG DOMINANT MEN. You can never be emotional or show weakness or insecurity to your partner.
It’s science. Otherwise women will start looking for other men if she sees any weakness in you.

Obviously never cry in front of your partner, never talk about what troubles you deeply. Find a therapist instead.

Why do you think women like to use ‘man up’ and other derogatory words to shame you?

A plot twist perhaps? 🤔
Perhaps being emotional is normal and men deviate away from it (in the name of "toxic masculinity") and convert most emotions into rage or whatever is "socially acceptable", thus men are the crazy ones, not the women.

i always prefer a stall with toilet since there's more privacy and less splash back then peeing in a urinal.

wbu guys?

I ask this because it seems like all the assholes get the girls and the guys that are nice don't. Do you guys think that assholes (people who are clearly after one thing from the beginning, dont call back, pretty much dont care at all), the nice guys (people who try to be considered the perfect guy in every aspect, overly delivering), or the laid back guy (people who are pretty quiet but pretty fun to be around but sort of nonchalant "chilling personality") have the best chances of attracting women.

As for myself, im laid back. Im considered very funny but i dont really let women know i like them. I just chill with them, have a good time, flirt back a bit if she does first and leave it like that. If it get hot, i reciprocate whatever she does pretty much, but im to myself mostly. I tend to attract women but at a slower pace.

My older brother is the asshole. He starts off hinting at sex and how he likes freaky shit, seems to work wonders lmao. I dont get it.

If sex and dating was completely not an option/impossible among all those involved and everyone just treated each other platonically, do you think boys and men would get along better with girls and women? I use "males and females" because I'm talking about both boys and girls, among men and women.

I'm a teacher and although I notice boys and girls almost always sit apart from each other (usually, all the boys on the left of the class, and all the girls on the right side), they still generally get along with each other and don't have any animosity or issues that modern adult men and women have. I've taught in three different academies here in Korea over the course of two years, and this remains consistent throughout every class, unless it's all boys or all girls. Although I think some subconscious things keep the boys and girls separated, they still can peacefully co-exist with each other in a way that modern men and women don't seem to do.

In short, boys and girls under the age of 14 seem to get along MUCH better than adult men and women do.

So it's really fascinating. I think sex and post-puberty changes how males and females interact with each other, and causes the sexes to find even less in common with each other and harder to relate. I myself certainly don't understand why women behave the way they do (often, negatively).

But what do you think?