I mean you can risk it and not treat her like a friend and ask her out.
Otherwise if you know for sure she just sees you as a friend, just distance yourself from her and talk less to her.
Also dude, don't beat yourself down. You gotta have confidence in yourself man. Rejection will happen a lot in your life, but how you react to these situations and having a positive outlook will make you happy. Don't feel sorry for yourself, otherwise it will be a self fulfilling prophecy where you won't go anywhere.
Focus on being a better you.. Believe in yourself, keep yourself busy and productive and work on your personal and professional life.. AS well as being physically and mentally healthy
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Honestly, I'd say that if you like her talk to her about it, and if she doesn't feel the same way I'd say just leave. I wouldn't be able to stand being around her, too painful. If you choose not to say anything I'd still say leave unless you get rid of those feelings being around her will just eat you alive and drive you nuts.
Fucking. Tell. How. You. Feel.
I'm not talking about"shooting your shoot". I'm talking about not being afraid of expressing your feelings.
If you are afraid of people rejecting your feelings with hostility, the issue it's on them and not on you.
You confess and you gain healthy communication, reciprocal confessions or if you are ghosted and rejected, the confirmation that it wasn't a good friend for you.
People around you needs your passion. Not someone else afraid to bother them or too coward to hear the word "no".
I live with my best friend, he is a man and I do have feelings for him but he doesn't for me. He is still my best friend though, there is a reason we were friends in the first place and I never want to lose that, loving him as friend is more important than being romantically involved with him. And yes it does hurt when they talk. about dating but go. out a find a date or two of your own and you will. feel. a bit better about the situation. I would say stay friends 🤷 it's better than losing her completely
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If it is going to be torture to see her dating other guys, it would probably be best to move on. If you can keep your feelings under control, you may be able to enjoy the friendship. I had many female friends that I secretly had a crush on. Usually they were in a relationship. Some of those friendships were really awesome. But every now and then there is one person who you need to either be in a relationship with or remove them from your life. You won't find a healthy relationship with someone else if you are constantly feeling sorry for yourself because you can't be with that one person.
Story of my life. If you're an adult, you can either talk about it or ignore it. I wouldn't ghost because that's how bad rumors get started.
Dude, I got rejected by many girls, and I'm friends with them. Sometimes they might even like you for not getting mad. Just act like you don't care about them anymore, date other women, get rich, and be their friend but don't always hang around her. She will sleep with you.
Make your intentions clear to her that you are interested in her romantically and if she doesn't reciprocate, announce your decision to withdraw from the relationship. Being in the "friendzone" exclusively benefits the woman, while the man gets nothing. So dont be in such situations.
The best relationships are based on friendship. Your partner should also be your best friend, so it's kind of sad this is a question and the only answers you put as options lol. Now if she doesn't feel the same is it a risk to the friendship, sure, and if that's the case then yes you have to decide if you can just be friends with her, or if your feelings won't let that happen?
Yes, it would be better to leave.
Nothing good will come of it and it might actually ruin the relationship.
Just let her know, "hey, you are fantastic. And seeing you with other dudes is not so much. I need to take a time away to cool off.
Maybe we can hang again in the future, when we get boring and old."Yes, ditch the bitch. Once one person develops feelings, romantic or sexual, the friendship is over. You cannot go back. You either get together and become a couple or you go your separate ways. Or you become a simp and live a live of misery, loneliness, and shame, knowing no woman or man will ever respect you again.
He should tell her how he feels and set some boundaries. If the relationship cannot work out in a way where both individuals feel comfortable, then he should leave.
Unless she has led you on it doesn't sound like it is her fault. This shit just happens sometimes.
However i recon just move on and cut ties as it will be easier for u to move on and find someone elseEither leave or figure out if she feels the same way as him.
Getting friendzoned isn't that hard to get over.He needs to do what makes him feel better. Some people can't remain friends after a rejection. And the other person should understand that. If they don't they're not really your friend anyhow.
If a girl makes him feel this way, he deserves better and should move on. AND work on his self worth...
Just tell your feelings and then leave
Yes, he should.
prob.
She should leave him
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