He cooks for her, he texts her, he asked her out (not specifically on a date) and he comments on her social media posts. She didn't tell him about our relationship because she said she would feel awkward telling him that if he wasn't actually interested in her. I told her that he only wants to sleep with her and he is not her friend and I would appreciate if she cut all contact with him. I am feeling so confused now, because a part of me tells me that it's toxic possessive behaviour, but another part of me tells me that it's the right thing, because she is not that faithful. Seriously, almost all men imagine sleeping with almost all women, how can he only be her friend? I know he is straight because he probably still is in a relationship with another girl.
I have a few guy friends. They're straight. But they all know when I'm in a relationship and now married. They nor my husband have an issue with each other. If she's not telling him she's in a relationship, that to me is a red flag. What's the issue of her friend knowing about you? You know about him.. I'd say you have something to worry about
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He's HER friend, not yours so no, YOU don't need to "put up" with him. If your girlfriend is "not that faithful" then get a new one.
It sounds like a bit much. Some male friendship is probably good for her but she might be overdoing it here. Do you think they ever had sex?
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a man and a woman can’t be “just friends.” There will always be some form of sexual tension between the two.
Maybe the girl might not view him sexually but the man will (if given the chance) have sexual relations with her. don’t believe me? Girls, call one of your male friends and tell him you’re feeling horny. I guarantee you he will come running to your door, ready to have some fun.
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