Should I put up with my girlfriend's male 'friend' or should I ask her to cut off this guy if she still wants to be with me?

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He cooks for her, he texts her, he asked her out (not specifically on a date) and he comments on her social media posts. She didn't tell him about our relationship because she said she would feel awkward telling him that if he wasn't actually interested in her. I told her that he only wants to sleep with her and he is not her friend and I would appreciate if she cut all contact with him. I am feeling so confused now, because a part of me tells me that it's toxic possessive behaviour, but another part of me tells me that it's the right thing, because she is not that faithful. Seriously, almost all men imagine sleeping with almost all women, how can he only be her friend? I know he is straight because he probably still is in a relationship with another girl.

Should I put up with my girlfriend's male 'friend' or should I ask her to cut off this guy if she still wants to be with me?
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