I accidentally cheated on my girlfriend, what should I do?

Question

So my girlfriend and I got in a fight as I don’t like her ‘friend’ that is a male. They always spend time together and it makes me feel jealous. I left our house as I wanted some fresh air and drove to our local city for some drinks.

I wasn’t thinking and ended up hooking up with a woman that I met there.

My girlfriend found out when she saw our joint credit card statement, it had the hotel booking on there. I haven’t admitted I cheated but I came back home on that day after hooking up with the girl so she can put it together and guess what I did.

Anyway, what would you guys do in my situation? It was a total accident.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

An accident would be that you are walking down the sidewalk, totally naked, and a totally naked girl is approaching you. A sudden gust of wind pushes you toward her and you both fall to the ground with you on top of her. Somehow, your dick ended up in her pussy and because she is so tight, you have a hard time pulling out and you must keep trying many times before you cum, your dick shrinks, and then it falls out. That is an accident.

When you go to a motel room with a girl and you stck your dick in her pussy, you aredoing xexactly what you want to do. That's not an accident.

I suspect that you are just another TROLL! Similar posts appear several times a year in which someone claims to have accidentally cheated. You should be embarrassed for being so unoriginal.

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

There's no such thing as "accidentally" cheating. You didn't trip, and land on her vagina dick first. That's a bullshit excuse.

You cheated. Period. There are no moral/ethical justifications for it. If you can't control yourself while drinking, then don't fucking drink. You made that decision, and you are responsible for the consequences.

Not only that, but you didn't even tell her. She found out on her own. The only reasonable thing for you to do is break up with her, so she can find someone that's not a piece of shit, because she deserves better than you.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

You can't "accidentally" cheat my guy. That's a conscience decision you made out of jealousy. There's really nothing you can do, you can try to explain why you did it but it's really up to her and how she handles it. I think what you should of did was have sit down with her and express how her always hanging out with her male friend is making you feel jealousy/insecure before all this went down. I don't know if you feel like the guy friend was too much in the way and nothings going to change, then you can choose to end the relationship.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

"Accidentally" my fucking a**.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

"A lot of you are taking her side automatically and victim blaming me."... Wait, are you claiming to be the 'victim" here? ... You're the one that chose to cheat and then think you can excuse it by calling it an accident.. So if your girl was hooking up with her male friend you're jealous of, could she claim it was an accident and then you'd be okay with it? ... Cheating is cheating, whatever the reason (excuse) and is a bad decision but definitely no accident...

TheorionMage · Answer

It wasn't an 'accident'... it was egotistical "I deserve to hook-up too" to soothe your fragile self-image of attractiveness and allure.

It WASN'T an 'accident', You weren't 'date raped' or even 'seduced'; you WENT actively LOOKING FOR IT!
At ANY POINT, you COULD HAVE halted this 'side piece' trist. You DIDN'T.

OWN UP to your wayward behavior and ASK HER straight-up... if SHE feels your relationship can move beyond YOUR immature 'indiscretion'.

NOBODY WANTS to perpetually atone for their past.

420Rachel · Answer

My guy... This was no accident. You trying to say you slipped and fell into her vagina or some shit? 😭🤣 Get outta here with that. Use your brain, which is exactly what you did when you made the DECISION to hook up with this girl. You cheated, you made a CHOICE. End of story.

yucychan · Answer

BS. You cheated, there's no accident.

The other woman didn't force you at gunpoint/knifepoint to bang her, you did so out of your own free will. So, cut the crap and just admit it.

Let your girlfriend dump your sorry ass so she could find a better guy than you.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Was going out for some alcoholic drinks an accident?
Was driving to the hotel an accident?
Was going inside the horel an accident?
Was going to the front desk and paying for a room an accident?
Was going into the room with the other woman an accident?
Was having sexual relations with the other woman an accident?

All five questions have the same answer. 🤔💭💡 The answer is no. Everything you did was on purpose.

In a response to what NottyNatty said you reied by saying "I was drinking and she was at a minimum a 9/10 bro. I had to". That proves you knew what you were doing but still want to claim qhat you did was an accident.

Your girlfriend should leave you for the bettermeant of herself.

Snsl153 · Answer

'Accidentally cheated'. Oh sure, and you 'accidentally' had fun with her, 'accidentally' had sex, 'accidentally' got drunk too (probably). You're a very funny boy! :D

hrxy_ishere · Answer

Cheating is nothing you can do that wasen't on purpose. This is the most stupid question I've seen! "I accidentelly cheated on my girlfriend." Shut up. Hope that girls leaves your nasty butt and finds someone who is way better then you. She deserves better.

Remember, cheating is not an accident, it's what you do on purpose. You cannot even by accident hook up with another women. Absolutly nasty.

I don't understand why cheating is even an option.

I wish the best for that girl!

Melinara · Answer

From the girl's perspective, you seem overprotective, jealous and impulsive. If you don't admit what you did, you'll end up adding even more negative traits in the list. Tell her the truth. Tell her you couldn't control yourself cuz you felt vulnerable. If she really loves you, she'll appreciate your honesty. But be prepared that at first she'll be very mad and will need her space. And also don't forget to reassure her that this will not happen again...

Danielle93 · Answer

So every single time you have an argument with any girlfriend, your solution is going to clubs or bars for a couple of drinks and a hook-up?

If that's the case either don't be in a relationship or find someone that's into open relationships, that you won't have arguments. Lastly nope, it's not an accident to go to a place where you know you're going to get drunk and do the deed. You still chose to put yourself in that situation and cheat. Not an accident.

drakethibault1 · Answer

I might not be a lot of help, but DUDE just forget her, that's it, you spilled the milk. I mean even if you get back well together, she s not going to forgive you and think about being even with you. But according to your story you shoudve ended that relationship a while ago

TonyV · Answer

You don't " accidently" cheat.

You can't fix this, you let your insecurity and jealousy, which you can't blame on her... take over.

You should break up with her, it's cowardly to make her dump you, you fucked up, did the worst thing possible, and you don't deserve her anymore.

Your fucking trash, break up, and stay single till you get your ridiculous jealousy under control.

MaKa_newbie · Answer

You can't say it was an accident. You can't cheat on "accident". It is NOT just one silly mistake! To cheat on someone takes a lot of continues mistakes that you CHOSE to do! You talk to them, buy them drinks, invite them over, take your clothes off, take their clothes off, kiss, have sex... IT IS NOT ONE MISTAKE!!! Don't try to justify yourself. You screwed up and you have to admit it to yourself first. So yes, ofc everyone will take her side...

musicbrain5 · Answer

Accident? Did you trip and your dick slipped inside her vagina? You knew what you were doing, either be honest with your girlfriend since she’s already suspecting it, or dump her before she dumps you.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Don't you love it when men say "accidentally cheated."

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have had that accident too. I accidently tripped and fell on top of a woman and my dick just happened to go into her. Total accident. I could have happened to anyone.

KatherineJ · Answer

Congratulations Blue Anonymous! This is one of the dumbest questions I’ve ever read! You do not “accidentally” cheat! You do not “accidentally” have sex. Personally, I hope she leaves your pathetic ***! And I hope she lets everyone know what you did to all of your friends, and any female you ever meet in your life.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

You're both sabotaged the relationship. You're an idiot if you believe you cheated on accident. You been wanting to do that.
Although that male friend of hers may have been there before you, there is no reason she should be spending so much time with him.
The both of you got a joint bank account and you paid for the hotel room with that account
... idiot. You're an idiot

Light909090 · Answer

An accident yeah cause sticking your dick in a Girl is a total accident it’s just like Falling down the stairs because you didn’t pay attention when going down the stairs.
Tell your girlfriend I’m
Sure she will understand how Getting down and dirty is a complete accident because people are so Forgiving look at church for example People at church won’t judge you they will support Your Atheism.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I wouldn't presume that she thinks you cheated. Honestly, unless she accuses you of something, you're better off just sweeping that under the rug and making sure to never do it again.

I think your first step here is to acknowledge to yourself that the reason you suspected she and her friend of cheating is because... well... you ARE the kind of person who cheats. Identify why that is, do whatever self work you need to do to resolve it.

Andrew2128 · Answer

How do you accidentally cheat on your girlfriend anyways? I had a girlfriend once 12 years ago and I cheated on her quite regularly it wasn't by accident I know what I was doing just like any other man knows what he's doing when he's cheating on his girlfriend

TheoPfeifle · Answer

How do you accidentally cheat? Did you trip and fall with your genitalia out and accidentally slip inside a woman laying with her genitalia out? Pretty ridiculous idea, isn't it?

Simple... You made a choice... And it was wrong. Confess... Get dumped... Move on.

Accidentally cheated... You're an idiot.

JSmuve · Answer

LMAO, "accidentally". Well, you've already dug your relationship grave. Might as well make it as nice of a grave as possible so go ahead and cheat some more. You're already an inch in so just go balls deep. What's the worst that could happen? Or who knows, maybe she's the forgiving type and will take you back? I don't know. Do keep us updated.

Xylem1992 · Answer

come on. there are several opportunities between your fight in another city to a bar, and then a hotel room for you to stop. You didn't. How can this be an accident?

Seems to me that she's figured it out. So, either let it go or beg for her forgiveness, its your call.

Jenny-Marie · Answer

An accident? No, an accident is tripping over or dropping something. Deliberately taking another girl to a hotel and cheating is not accidental, you were deliberately cheating. You should call of your relationship with your girlfriend. You obviously don't trust her because you are judging her by your own sleazy standards. She deserves much better.

petitedollbabee · Answer

No such thing as “accidentally” cheating. You knew what you were doing.

Agape93 · Answer

You chose to cheat, there is no such thing as accidentally cheating

EllaNella · Answer

you're not one for taking accountability for your actions, are you?

Paul09 · Answer

Opps my penis fell right in her repeatedly.. said no one ever. Break it up with her. Not cool. Will power isn't strong in you. How do you know you'll not continue accidentally cheating? And jealous is a form of not trusting her. Leave the poor girl.

Guardian45 · Answer

STOP lying to yourself and insulting everyone's intelligence. An accident is LOSING your balance, tripping and falling down.

You drove to a bar, probably got drunk, picked up some random stranger, booked a hotel and had a ONS. THAT was NOT an accident!

IF she DOESN'T kick your ass to the curb, then you have some serious explaining to do.

maximumpower · Answer

"Accidentally?"
Never heard that used before.
Great thing about your situation is that she's not your wife, so there's no legalities to consider.
Believe this, tho - no matter how many years go by, she will NEVER forget it and WILL bring it up.
Don't get married or this will be thrown back in your face AND cost you at least half of everything you own.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

Oh there was nothing ‘accidental’ about what you did, cheater!!!

AviatorTom · Answer

You tell her exactly how you feel, why you did what you did, beg for forgiveness, and commit to her that it will never happen again... and if it does, she has every right to leave and take everything of value with her.

Anonymous · Answer

Idiot This is an accident

Elter · Answer

Wdym "accidentally"? That's not how it works even if you were in a worse headspace at that moment it was still intentional, the only way you could say it was an accident would be if someone else did it while you were sleeping without your consent, but then that's not really cheating that's just rape.

bubblegunnn · Answer

U wasn't thinking and ended up fucking..  Pretty obvious it wasn't accident

supercutebutt · Answer

Did u slip and fall with your erect penis accidentally falling inside an orifice of a stranger?

linka_pat307 · Answer

Accident happens buh admitting that and solving the misunderstanding first and then find solutions to the problems together... And maybe also actually telling her what you expected of each other...

fonduegirl · Answer

Tell her to go to a bar, drink and bang the hottest guy there. Tit for tat.

Massageman · Answer

Accident, schmaccident.  Admit that you messed up.

Sarahplus2 · Answer

Maybe your girlfriend is accidently blowing her friend

Amy10223 · Answer

If you didn't "mean" to have sex with someone else, you wouldn't have. It was a choice you made, not an accident.

Missgingles · Answer

How was it an accident? Did she rape you or where you unconsious?

goodgirlsteven · Answer

oooouuuuu! u fuk'd up Bad! I really don't see a way out of this one! If you admit she's going to hold it against u for a long time and your going to hurt her! If you deny it she will just find out later! and its going to hurt her more!

YollyM · Answer

Did you slip then your d*ck ended up inside the girl. If not you lost me at "accidentally" 😅

HighValue · Answer

Things like that are NOT accidents. It was a choice. There is no fixing something like that.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I’m sorry I accidentally booked a hotel room then accidentally stuck my penis in her ! Yea tell her that I’m sure she’ll take you back.

Summeroflove · Answer

That’s not a accident. Tell her. She deserves better. All she had was a friend. You cheated

J2ohhhhh · Answer

I don't get why so many people are victim blaming. It sounds like a genuine accident. Bro I'm sorry it happened to you, it ain't your fault.

NottaNatty · Answer

I would never be in this situation in the first place but. This doesn't sound like an accident bro.

annabananna · Answer

Whoops! I fell and it slipped in

Part2603 · Answer

Start describing how banging her body was and suggest your girlfriend get a gym membership.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her, "Cheat on me with your male friend, and we'll call it even."

Makeushiver · Answer

Try to go with the accidental part of the explanation. Not sure how it could be a total accident

Juxtapose · Answer

This is pathetic! You're an adult, you are 100% responsible for your own actions. Stop making excuses like a child.

888theGreat · Answer

Hard ons are not by accident and putting your penis in her was no accident or does your penis have a mind of its own?

Surely · Answer

You cheated on your girlfriend. Now be a man and own up to your actions!  Let this be a lesson to you and learn from your mistakes!

Ironic_Method · Answer

I accidentally slept with someone! Oops. Bruh.

legalboxers · Answer

accidentally? what the fuck is wrong with you. There is no such thing. You knowingly and willingly did it. You fucked up - man up about it

Deedee35Gee · Answer

There's no way anyone could "accidentally" cheat. You got jealous now learn from your mistake and move on. leave the girl you cheated on alone. She can never trust you again!

AndrésC64 · Answer

So your hard dick "accidentally" got put into her vagina? I don't think so.

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