My girlfriend cheated on me what should I do?

[Twalli]

Updates

4 mo

To be clear, she told me she cheated. Her words. She had a friend (past tense), and they kissed the other night. She told me right after it happened. So, it wasn't too egregious.

[Anonymous]

Hey dude, as you see my reply to the ai slop, well it can apply to a lot of comments below that are also as generic of ai ai slop, especially that rude italicized musandrist, their ideas are based on hate and inversion of nature.

Yes, the italicized opinion is the most anti nature, more so than even the ai slop. Because they are ignorant of the nature of living beings. The only way to completely eliminate the rates of cheating as we know it, is to choke out life. Become boring dead drones. With exactly ZERO love in our lives. You see a few newer comments here pushing toward "there must have been a reason". First of all, cheating is never reasonable, she should have broken up first. Secondly, if there was some reason and you were to... wait. It pisses me off what that fat misandrist did there. She tried to blame you for it. And make you feel as bad as possible as if it wasn't bad enough as is. What a hateful piece of shit. I should hack this website just to ban her ip address forever...

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Forever. Would be great if she disappeared.

Anyway. The idea that cheating needs to be fixed is dehumanizing to you as well as the cheater.

The other opinions here are all just copy-paste generic cope "compliments" that don't actually help.

The polar opposite action of what the misandrist suggested is also wrong. The "pretend it never happened". That is about just as dehumanizing.

Calling your girlfriend a bitch does not help anyone either.

Now, you saw what i wrote yesterday. But i need your feedback. Let me know if what i said is just like telling a wounded person "SPRINT TO THE NEAREST HOSPITAL AND YOU WILL BE FINE". In clear head space i can tell you that "if your heart hurts then the heart is not big enough", it seems to work for me in preventing feeling hurt, but i don't know how well it works when one already hurts. So you can provide my first data. I obviously don't tell this sort of preachy shit in real life in such direct, bold creative words.

Try to dump her without hating her.

[Opinion Owner]

To the update:
Like i said, don't be a pissed off child. But you should peacefully inquire how many times it happened. Dont keep her if it happened more than once and on top of that she doesn't look like she's just visited an exorcist. There needs to be an impossibly huge change in a cheater to stop cheating.

[Twalli]

Once. I know that much. She's made mistakes, but she knows I give second chances. She doesn't mess up in big ways twice.

[Chazmatazz269]

Dump her and move on. Unless you like that she cheated on you. Then stay with her and stock up on penicillin. She’s going to cheat again and you will get the drips, itches and rashes to prove it. Might even get to raise another man’s baby.

[Nikki1989]

The first thing is to look yourself in the mirror and ask why. Cheating happens for a reason. Happy people in love with satisfying relationships don't cheat on each other.

[queenofcardio]

So sorry. Take some space and figure out your options.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationships and protect your heart, even when it hurts like hell.

She cheated. That’s a massive red flag, not a tiny “mistake.” First step: break up and go no contact. No lovebombing. No “maybe she’ll change.” Work on healing, talk to friends, hit the gym, focus on your goals.

You didn’t lose someone loyal, she did. You just dodged a lifetime of doubt.

[Smart_Monk]

Great bot for not cucking. But it will hurt like hell until he does the omitted part: forgiveness. If your heart hurts, it's because the heart is not big enough.

The logic is still correct. Breaking up is a must.

[capriVib]

Infidelity is common today. Give yourself exactly one day to grieve, and no more. Then, go full no contact and move forward as if your life never skipped a beat. Your daily structure must remain unshakable.

[RobT312]

Uugh. Was there a reason why?

5% chance there was a good enough reason to give her a chance to explain

95% chance its no good. Move on and never look back. Maybe you dodged a bullet?

[NathanDavis]

you should... decide on your own, what to do about that

[LiamS95]

Time to dump her in the cheaters pile to rot from the sexually transmitted diseases she will accumulate as she continues to cheat.

[Anonymous]

She lied. It wasn't actually just kissing, some random fucked her for sure. Won't be the last time.

[Twalli]

Her mom saw it, it was kissing. She lives with me, and I can track the GPS on her phone. Not that I needed to when that happened, I knew where she was.

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/iBtoo4cD0Y8

coke

[msc545]

Just break up with her. If you let her come back to you, she's just gonna cheat again.

[jahaims]

Not be a cuck or simp and break up. Crazy you had to ask lmfao

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Is this the girlfriend who gave you her virginity at 29?

Anyways, get rid of her.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Based on your update, if you stay with her she won't be kissing another guy's lips next time but something else if you know what I mean.

[Ariesman81]

Thank her for making the decision so easy.

[Shy-boy53]

Depends how badly she hurt you i guess

[FunkyMonkee]

Dump her skanky ass!!

[Mike_Hum]

break up and hit the gym.

[Still-alive]

Dump her and block her. No mercy

[Subtle_Luminescence]

dump the trash

[Agape93]

Ditch the bitch