LMAO, "accidentally". Well, you've already dug your relationship grave. Might as well make it as nice of a grave as possible so go ahead and cheat some more. You're already an inch in so just go balls deep. What's the worst that could happen? Or who knows, maybe she's the forgiving type and will take you back? I don't know. Do keep us updated.
You got your wish, she's kicked me out of my own apartment that we pay for and broken up with me. She’s thrown 3 years down the drain when I apologised many times.
come on. there are several opportunities between your fight in another city to a bar, and then a hotel room for you to stop. You didn't. How can this be an accident?
Seems to me that she's figured it out. So, either let it go or beg for her forgiveness, its your call.
An accident? No, an accident is tripping over or dropping something. Deliberately taking another girl to a hotel and cheating is not accidental, you were deliberately cheating. You should call of your relationship with your girlfriend. You obviously don't trust her because you are judging her by your own sleazy standards. She deserves much better.
I was really hoping this anon was going to respond to someone rather than troll in the updates. Apparently, he is the victim for his cheating on his girlfriend.
It wasn't an accident, it was a choice you made. You don't get to complain and you don't get to act like a victim. You're not. So kindly shut the fuck up, do her a favor and break up.
I mean it is one thing to have a reduced mental capacity to think it could be an accident. It is a whole other thing to think you can be the victim when you are the one that cheated.
Opps my penis fell right in her repeatedly.. said no one ever. Break it up with her. Not cool. Will power isn't strong in you. How do you know you'll not continue accidentally cheating? And jealous is a form of not trusting her. Leave the poor girl.
My friend, the overwhelming tsunami of answers should tell you you are WRONG abd out-of-touch with reality! Please seek nental health counselling. If you can't accept this, then Peace Out! Good Luck!
"Accidentally?" Never heard that used before. Great thing about your situation is that she's not your wife, so there's no legalities to consider. Believe this, tho - no matter how many years go by, she will NEVER forget it and WILL bring it up. Don't get married or this will be thrown back in your face AND cost you at least half of everything you own.
You tell her exactly how you feel, why you did what you did, beg for forgiveness, and commit to her that it will never happen again... and if it does, she has every right to leave and take everything of value with her.
Re: your update... She didn't cheat, you did, and you must accept the blame for that. That's the first step in getting her to forgive you for your indiscretion.
Wdym "accidentally"? That's not how it works even if you were in a worse headspace at that moment it was still intentional, the only way you could say it was an accident would be if someone else did it while you were sleeping without your consent, but then that's not really cheating that's just rape.
Accident happens buh admitting that and solving the misunderstanding first and then find solutions to the problems together... And maybe also actually telling her what you expected of each other...
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LMAO, "accidentally". Well, you've already dug your relationship grave. Might as well make it as nice of a grave as possible so go ahead and cheat some more. You're already an inch in so just go balls deep. What's the worst that could happen? Or who knows, maybe she's the forgiving type and will take you back? I don't know. Do keep us updated.
Don't you love it when men say "accidentally cheated."
It was an accident though, I didn’t mean it
@nikki1989
Have you seen the most downright pathetic update that I've read in a very long time?
@EmmaMary Yeah, it's hilarious.
Just trying to understand how it wasn’t an accident
@nikki1989
I do sincerely hope that it is now a case of it being his "Ex Girlfriend".
You got your wish, she's kicked me out of my own apartment that we pay for and broken up with me. She’s thrown 3 years down the drain when I apologised many times.
come on. there are several opportunities between your fight in another city to a bar, and then a hotel room for you to stop. You didn't. How can this be an accident?
Seems to me that she's figured it out. So, either let it go or beg for her forgiveness, its your call.
An accident? No, an accident is tripping over or dropping something. Deliberately taking another girl to a hotel and cheating is not accidental, you were deliberately cheating. You should call of your relationship with your girlfriend. You obviously don't trust her because you are judging her by your own sleazy standards. She deserves much better.
No such thing as “accidentally” cheating. You knew what you were doing.
You chose to cheat, there is no such thing as accidentally cheating
I was really hoping this anon was going to respond to someone rather than troll in the updates. Apparently, he is the victim for his cheating on his girlfriend.
That's because he's a weak bitch
Well everytime I try to say something I get told it wasn’t an accident so what’s the point
It wasn't an accident, it was a choice you made. You don't get to complain and you don't get to act like a victim. You're not. So kindly shut the fuck up, do her a favor and break up.
This is one of the weakest trolling attempts I have ever seen. Claiming to be a victim for cheating on your girlfriend.
It really is
I mean it is one thing to have a reduced mental capacity to think it could be an accident. It is a whole other thing to think you can be the victim when you are the one that cheated.
Okay I’m sorry maybe I was wrong
Scummy shit
No shit you were. Verdammt
you're not one for taking accountability for your actions, are you?
Opps my penis fell right in her repeatedly.. said no one ever. Break it up with her. Not cool. Will power isn't strong in you. How do you know you'll not continue accidentally cheating? And jealous is a form of not trusting her. Leave the poor girl.
STOP lying to yourself and insulting everyone's intelligence. An accident is LOSING your balance, tripping and falling down.
You drove to a bar, probably got drunk, picked up some random stranger, booked a hotel and had a ONS. THAT was NOT an accident!
IF she DOESN'T kick your ass to the curb, then you have some serious explaining to do.
"Not sure why everyone is saying it wasn’t an accident when it clearly was, I didn’t mean to have sex with the woman."
If it were an 'accident', you could/would/should have STOPPED at ANYTIME! You didn't need to COMPLETE the act!
You are an INTENTIONAL CHEATER & LIAR, trying to justify and deny your guilt.
Cut your losses! Throw yourself at her mercy! Beg forgiveness! Promise you'll NEVER do it again! And just MAYBE you can win her back!
IF I were her though, I'd DUMP your sorry ass!
Accident: "an unexpected happening causing loss or injury which is not due to any fault or misconduct on the part of the person injured"
mens rea: "a culpable mental state especially one involving intent or knowledge and forming an element of a criminal offense"
My friend, the overwhelming tsunami of answers should tell you you are WRONG abd out-of-touch with reality! Please seek nental health counselling. If you can't accept this, then Peace Out! Good Luck!
"Accidentally?"
Never heard that used before.
Great thing about your situation is that she's not your wife, so there's no legalities to consider.
Believe this, tho - no matter how many years go by, she will NEVER forget it and WILL bring it up.
Don't get married or this will be thrown back in your face AND cost you at least half of everything you own.
Oh there was nothing ‘accidental’ about what you did, cheater!!!
You tell her exactly how you feel, why you did what you did, beg for forgiveness, and commit to her that it will never happen again... and if it does, she has every right to leave and take everything of value with her.
Re: your update...
She didn't cheat, you did, and you must accept the blame for that. That's the first step in getting her to forgive you for your indiscretion.
Idiot
This is an accident
Wdym "accidentally"? That's not how it works even if you were in a worse headspace at that moment it was still intentional, the only way you could say it was an accident would be if someone else did it while you were sleeping without your consent, but then that's not really cheating that's just rape.
U wasn't thinking and ended up fucking..
Pretty obvious it wasn't accident
Accident happens buh admitting that and solving the misunderstanding first and then find solutions to the problems together... And maybe also actually telling her what you expected of each other...
Did u slip and fall with your erect penis accidentally falling inside an orifice of a stranger?
@supercutebutt. Hey, it happens... just like so many women trip, fall, and land on a rando's cock.
Tell her to go to a bar, drink and bang the hottest guy there. Tit for tat.
No, that would be cheating. I made a mistake, there is a difference.
Yeah, but the relationship balance has been disrupted thanks to your "mistake".
She's allowed to sleep around one time, yeah? Or is it different because she's a woman?
I believe in equality and feminism but she would be cheating if she did that
So what's the alternative here? What'd make things fair for her?
She'd dump you probably once she finds out
I haven’t admitted to her what I did to her so she doesn’t know for sure
But she suspects it. It can wreck your relationship if you don't come clean.
Accident, schmaccident.
Admit that you messed up.
Maybe your girlfriend is accidently blowing her friend
She wouldn’t do that
Why are you worried about it and then run out and cheat