I'm not sure if I'm the only girl - and I don't think I am -
But I friend zone every guy on purpose.
Why?
As a female, I can specify the traits in my male friends, their likes, dislkes - what makes them feel good / bad - what their family life is like - how they treat others - what their goals in life are - do we get along really well - is there legit chemistry for even thinking about a romantic relationship - does he have a girlfriend - is he just interested in sex - does he really know me for who I am - can I learn from him - can he learn from me - do we have a good connection - similar beliefs - the list goes on and on.
Men dread the friend zone...but it's there for a reason...
Being put in it - doesn't automatically mean your not an option 100% of the time.
I constantly hear over and over on here, with friends, hell personal experience - about girls falling for one of our guy friends.
Hmm...interesting no?
So I dont' think guys should give up hope completely if you happen to be put there.
Sometimes a guy is friended without romantic interest - but other times he's befriended simply due to her interest in him...
When I originally thought friend zone - I was thinking of the scenario in which a guy has a crush, and just happens to become friends with that crush. There's no asking out or rejection - just a mutual friendship is established - I say that's more positive because it allows the two of you to get to know more about each other before taking a romantic leap.
The other friend zone was when the guy gets rejected
Yea - bad noodles there.
So I was referring to the first circumstance which happens just as often; girl / guy starts talking to each other - too shy to express deeper interest, just become friends - things develop later maybe...
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