Questions: Guy's Behavior

With lots of simps and some cuckolds out there i think it may give women the impression, that us normal men out there have a lower perceived value (dating wise) than we actually are. Thus it effectively feeds into the hypergamy idea 💡 or it may give them the idea, that they may screw us over and get away with it because of the vast amounts of simps out there wishing to kiss their 6.

of course not all women fall for this but it's really embarrassing, that simps and cuckolds exist and devalue men in general.
personally I'm not dealing with that with the women i encounter in the real world. How serendipitous.

The reason they are chasing is because they are desperate for that validation right?

I’ll speak from my own personal experience here. Back when I was desperate for women, I had a very low self esteem. So much so to the point where I couldn’t even approach them, because I felt I was beneath them. And part of the contributor was the fact that I hadn’t yet convinced myself of my own self worth, which meant that I was then dependent on the word of somebody else.

In the time since I’ve re-examined myself and my behaviors which has fundamentally transformed me as a person. Beforehand I was too focused on how society didn’t match my standards, instead of learning to work with what we had in common. I also had no understanding of how my social behaviors isolated me from other people. I’ve since learned to focus my attention on the one person I can change: Myself 😄

As a result of the above I’ve become a much happier person, and I am tempted to believe that I am a much higher value man than I was before, considering how I’ve been getting results. 👍

Kind of a follow up question to this one Why don't women compliment men as often as men compliment women? ↗