



It's arduous to support one argument against the other but considering this I would still say there is a lot of Grey area or room for improvement by women side. I have recently witnessed a trend according to which women are eyeing for way too much control over their male counterparts.
I know the culprit what would say enacted this change in woman behaviour, that goes by the name TOXIC FEMINITY and I would try to bring clarity to statement with example.
I would start by cheating where woman if caught usually try to put it on men but some accept their fault and ask for forgiveness BUT now the problem starts,
in their mind now he is supposed to have zero remorse and forgive them immediately like we are their slave, their act of owning it up automatically clarifies the situation and now we are supposed to forget everything like Sentient. If you don't OHHHHHH he is "Cold-Hearted" bastard... Come ON "its his life his choice"
Now on the other side of spectrum and more on general or what I call "SOFT-CONTROL" they try to dictate a lot of things like what you should wear, eat, house decoration, life style and even what your intention were while hugging female partner.
I think in woman mind they built scenarios what a relationship would look like and you are just a PAWN inside it, which is supposed to follow them like MIND-LESS fool and if you deviate from it/use your brain and things end-up our way... then it's a problem.
The evidence in support for my argument is woman definition is their preference of STABLE-MEN or Person that is settled cuz it fits in their formula of calculation of possible future and hence see herself with him... and majority of them are like this but some intelligent ones understand this and let men have its final say in matter.
It's my Pro-Tip to men...(to make her concede to your demands) ... let her feel like She is in control and that would make her very predicable in relationship, but woman tend to pick up on pattern so you have to allude towards it for long time. Now woman are emotional fools so rattle her a little bit or in her mind threaten her control, Bitch will get in relationship preservation mode.
NOW fall back or concede to her terms a little bit (She would think She is winning) BUT NOW YOU CAN GET ANYTHING OUT OF HER and YOU can ask for anything (apart from outrageous stuff) and She would agree to it.
I loved the first image you used! Great and actually quite relatable for a number of guys.
I would say that while not every girl would think this way, a lot would think it because they can't understand a guys emotions just like guys don't process a girls emotions the same.
You have different personalities in people and while other guys may consider each of us to be very different, there is still a link being that we do still not see things the same ways that girls do, guys could think we are each being a little more open by saying a little more or by being a little more friendly than the other, but to a girl that could be their opinion description of thinking the guy is faking it or that he is not being honest etc.
So by nature a lot of girls will fall into the category of thinking guys are less emotional, when in actuality it is not the case, it is because we are told by a young age from society, parents, siblings, friends and everything around us that we are not supposed to be the ones showing our emotional problems, when we do others complain that are doing that and when we don't they say we are emotionless, it is a loss loss.
You need to find the right person who can accept you when you show your emotions, but for the most part guys stick to showing their emotions rarely and if they do they only show them to other guys that they are close with inside a friendship that they know won't result in being belittled.
It is when girls compare their gender to guys, that is the problem, girls are more open to show emotions than guys and for some reason they expect guys to be exactly the same, it can't work like that, not unless the guy is in a close friendship with a girl for a long time, our emotional situation is very different from girls and it is actually even more painful when they describe our silent suffering as emotionless.
I think some men are horn dogs now a days and forgot how to treat women. I still believe thereās a good man out there somewhere
Not cold but like very very clueless so it is easy to end up being seen as insensitive, and thus cold.
Clueless as in unempathetic?
Kind of. You have to understand first to be able to empathize right?
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I like to see the kind ones, they are more in numbers than the heartless onesā¤ļø Believe me i met some women who have no heart at all
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I think some do and to be honest some men are. If we look at some men, they can be uncaring and emotionless. They are out there. But I think it's a place to assume that all men are heartless at the start though
ngl I don't blame those who do, in a patriarchal society men can be ruthless.
In a way yeah. They have the mentality of having ADHD/ADD.
I havenāt had good experiences with men starting with my own father. My granddad is the only good guy I personally know. Otherwise I have yet to meet a caring guy.
I don't know maybe itās just a thing where I live that the guys are assholes. Itās kinda coincidental cus today my town is mourning the 8th anniversary of a local girl who was pregnant and her boyfriend stabbed her in the stomach and set her on fire so yeah... canāt say thereās any decent men where I live and I havenāt had an experience with a man that would suggest they care. I know itās not like it for all men but ya know
I mean I dunno what I must have been doing as a newborn that made my father beat the shit out of me but yeah thatās also a possibility šš
I get what you mean though lol
I donāt hate men tho I just feel incredibly nervous around men I donāt know.
Yup me neither. Most guys here are more interested in getting in your pants just for bragging rights. Itās sad and kinda scary.
I havenāt been on one date with a guy Iām 32. I deleted all of my dating apps and donāt meet men online. The closest thing to my love life is Nicholas Sparks movies and books. I have given up on dating entirety. I still have men chase me for sex and send me nasty pictures of themselves. I block them and keep moving forward. š
@ct1243 How are you my age and still haven't dated?
I have lots of money and teo other learning disabilities & I had my first girlfriend at age 15.
Definitely the guys you are attracted to or you are just so picky it makes it impossible. Try going to a library and chatting up a nerd.
Every man is different, there are some with a good heart.
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