Questions: Guy's Behavior

No, this isn't a post about gender identity. It's not a post about gender equality. It's a question about an experience and what it means to be male

Personally, I dont think it's great to be a guy as I hear it so often said. Everything surrounding it in this society usually comes with heavy expectations and misunderstanding. To be fair, a lot of this comes from our own gender. I feel we hold each other to higher expectations than we do ourselves. Our misdeeds are heavily criticized, our customs are expected and our behavior is moderated.

From birth, we are often told not to cry, but the we are criticized for not being able to open up. We are told to ask for help if we need it, but always told to man up when it's not there. Our insecurities are heavily guarded because, acknowledging them goes against our code. Be perfect, never fail, provide then... die?

I would go so far to say that there is an undertone of male disposability. 99% of work place accidents are male. We are 3.54 times as likely to commit suicide. And on average, live a whole decade less. However, suck it up buttercup.

In an odd way, it is rewarding to be a good man. To place others first. To protect. To be dependable and to support the ones you love at all costs.

But sometimes I wonder, is it really great to be a guy?

Leave a vote and ladies, feel free to chime in! Take care folks.

Guys, would you marry a girl/woman with no job? Why?

I'm an excellent cook and it turns my girlfriend on to watch me do my thing, concentrate and make amazing tasting food 🤷🏽‍♂️

I need to check if she's weird...

Fyi, I'm a kickboxer and I cook shirtless too.

You could keep your testicles.

As we are almost a week into November and I am generally curious what the opposite gender or other guys thinks about No Nut November (NNN). I'm told some people think it's a good idea to teach self control others thinks its a stupid idea that is harmful to the body.

What do you think?

I see so many guys in here usually guys in their upper 20s mid 30s, all they do worship women on here and if a girl post a pic they all call the girls even when she isn’t pretty a 10. They just give out compliments to every girl no matter what. I find it embarrassing

Yeah