Girls, do you think guys are too desperate?

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I see so many guys in here usually guys in their upper 20s mid 30s, all they do worship women on here and if a girl post a pic they all call the girls even when she isn’t pretty a 10. They just give out compliments to every girl no matter what. I find it embarrassing

HomoFuge · Accepted Answer

I get a lot of pms from dudes on here because of my profile picture. However, I wanted to see how guys would react if I posted a unflattering picture of myself on anon.

The same gag users who would act friendly with me on pms started insulting me and negging me. If I hadn’t posted on anon they wouldn’t have reacted the same way and would certainly have been full of sweet talk.

So, to answer your question yes a lot of men are desperate on G@G. That’s why I ignore most pms from dudes now. Most of them are full of shit.

allele1127 · Accepted Answer

Yes. All my DMs on this site prove it. Men from their 20s to 50s message me asking me sexual questions or if I have a boyfriend or if I'll send them nude pictures. It's digusting. You can say "not all guys are like that," and sure, that's factually true, but based on my experiences, it's appalling how little effort guys will make just to get themselves off. Perpetuating male stereotypes like this isn't a good look.

mrpt1986 · Accepted Answer

As you said "compliment" coz we should have sense and be careful of hurting someone's feelings

If you are in your shittiest day and asked do i look good i would say yes you are amazing and bla bla bla

On the other hand people shouldn't compliment someone on a mistake or a bad behavior...

DiscomfortZone · Accepted Answer

Just like you said, desperate pathetic losers come here and get so excited over female filth giving them a little attention. It is on fact sad and pathetic, especially when they deny it. Then again, let them have their fun, they'll never get talked to by real live women.

Secret6620 · Answer

Not all guys. But definitely some. Loneliness can make people do strange things. 😖😭

sapphireruby · Answer

Some guys are. A lot of guys just don't know how to interact with women let alone flirt, they don't know how to dress or be romantic, so their go to move is just call their crush pretty or beautiful.

jesskrs101 · Answer

I had a pic of myself with sunglasses from a good distance and I still had guys telling me that I looked beautiful.. like okay? I quickly changed it bc it was creepy af.
Like I did not think I was on a dating app, why don't they just talk to someone face to face to a girl instead... that would probably be more effective lmao

xyz94 · Answer

I don't think this is strictly true - most men on here will not call a woman 'beautiful' or a '10' when she isn't pretty. A few guys do, sure, but I wouldn't say most.

lifelearner011 · Answer

I think deep down we all thrive for feeling loved, safe and desired, that might be enacted in different ways. If you asked me, I find it lovely and attractive when the guys takes initiative. In my early 20s I used to think the opposite, maybe because I didn't understood that takes some courage and confidence to do this move in a respectful way. Now I don't think guys are too desperate.

yoganshB · Answer

Yeah there are some but as you stated that giving compliments to everyone is wrong then I want to ask you why?
Everyone is beautiful so why not. Spreading love gets you love in return. I can agree with you if you meant it for the reason behind it. I appreciate everyone without any intension to get anything but yeah their are some fools around here.

morrowlow · Answer

i've seen some of those guys here. the sad thing is they get the least attention because they're so obvious but what are they supposed to do? if they say that they need women they're called desperate and if they say they don't need them they'll be called woman haters

John_Doesnt · Answer

All men on the Internet are desperate. Chris Hemsworth never uses social media.  What website does Chris use to meet women? iamchrishemsworth. com

Estaroze · Answer

Hmmm honestly, I don't know,, Guys are always a bit filrty, Aren't they?  I think they are just having that attitude for fun, in most cases, not that they are desperate or something.

yassyay · Answer

The fact that the question was for girls and there’s more guy comments than girls really answers this question for itself🤷🏽‍♀️

mateynine · Answer

I think guys are way too desperate. It's understandable why since so many of us are kinda left out with dating and what not, but that still doesn't change the fact that too many of us are thirsty asf.

englisc · Answer

Definitely. Check out the guys in this video:

sindicated · Answer

Im naturally flirtatious and if I feel like flirting with a cute woman I will. I am not going to DM them, thats sleazy. No I keep my sleeze public, which is much better than private sleez.

I am not desperate but watching some of my dudes is hilarious. Really gotta appreciate that the nice guy / good guy hasn't died off. I'd hate to see that tired trope die off.

arabgoddess · Answer

Funnily enough they wouldn't do it in real life lololol

BrotherFrost · Answer

Yep, but not only those which shower them in compliments. The "womenizers" are desperate as well, they are just trying to hide it.

Vick2727 · Answer

Women are desperate. They show it in their actions, and guys are desperate by showing it with their words.

lernulo · Answer

I see most people say yes, I think this must be a reflexion.
Not just to how men are, but how they are educated too.
Desperation comes from education on this case, and it shows men need other type of guide.

UglyestGuyEver · Answer

yeah, some are like that,, i never call a ugly gurl beautiful or a 10, im honest,
but still i dont think u should call em desperate... jus normal men,.,,, its natural to have sexual needs... no need to shame em for it

CausticHippy · Answer

Hell yeah these dudes are desperate. All an average looking girl has to do is cake on make up to seem like a super model. Ugly dudes know that average girls won't even look at them twice and make up is usually out of the question for guys.

girly2019 · Answer

It depends on the age I say🤔 if it's between they age gap or a bit under that's fine as u can't help if you find them attractive but if it's a ridiculous age like under 20 that's is being a bit desperate

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