Girls, do you think guys are too desperate?

[Anonymous]

I see so many guys in here usually guys in their upper 20s mid 30s, all they do worship women on here and if a girl post a pic they all call the girls even when she isn’t pretty a 10. They just give out compliments to every girl no matter what. I find it embarrassing

Yes

No

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+1 y

Alright guys spread the word to any desperate guy on here

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+1 y

I like how more guys think they aren’t. That tell you they are. I have noticed it is mostly guys age 29-40. Probably do desperate that it creepy just oozes off of them

[HomoFuge]

I get a lot of pms from dudes on here because of my profile picture. However, I wanted to see how guys would react if I posted a unflattering picture of myself on anon.

The same gag users who would act friendly with me on pms started insulting me and negging me. If I hadn’t posted on anon they wouldn’t have reacted the same way and would certainly have been full of sweet talk.

So, to answer your question yes a lot of men are desperate on G@G. That’s why I ignore most pms from dudes now. Most of them are full of shit.

[allele1127]

Yes. All my DMs on this site prove it. Men from their 20s to 50s message me asking me sexual questions or if I have a boyfriend or if I'll send them nude pictures. It's digusting. You can say "not all guys are like that," and sure, that's factually true, but based on my experiences, it's appalling how little effort guys will make just to get themselves off. Perpetuating male stereotypes like this isn't a good look.

[Asker]

I agree check out my other post. Also is that behavior just on the internet or do guys in real life behave that way towards you also?
The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys? ↗

[sindicated]

What is gag?

[Emily132]

I do agree, it does get really uncomfortable when guys do this... I was on this site a while back and use to post a lot, and got rid on my account as I got toi many messages like this that I felt really uncomfortable...

[Asker]

Pathetic desperate men of gag PART 2? ↗

[sindicated]

Just realized gag is girls ask guys. Holy f**k am i dense

[mrpt1986]

As you said "compliment" coz we should have sense and be careful of hurting someone's feelings

If you are in your shittiest day and asked do i look good i would say yes you are amazing and bla bla bla

On the other hand people shouldn't compliment someone on a mistake or a bad behavior...

[DiscomfortZone]

Just like you said, desperate pathetic losers come here and get so excited over female filth giving them a little attention. It is on fact sad and pathetic, especially when they deny it. Then again, let them have their fun, they'll never get talked to by real live women.

[Secret6620]

Not all guys. But definitely some. Loneliness can make people do strange things. 😖😭

[Asker]

Do you find it creepy?

[Secret6620]

Depends 👌

[Asker]

I just made another question:The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys?

You should look for it and comment I have examples from comments guys have posted on here

[Secret6620]

I don't look for questions. Sorry 😊

[Asker]

Okay do you know how I can tag

[Secret6620]

Copy and paste url. 😊

[Asker]

The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys? ↗

[Asker]

He it worked thanks I learned something

[Secret6620]

Haha 😆

[sapphireruby]

Some guys are. A lot of guys just don't know how to interact with women let alone flirt, they don't know how to dress or be romantic, so their go to move is just call their crush pretty or beautiful.

[caleb1141]

When has pretty and beautiful been wrong to say

[Asker]

@caleb1141 when it comes out of nowhere for no reason it is random and desperate as fuck. Why would you go up to random girls and put them in a pedestal for no reason

[caleb1141]

Bruh I dont want a comment from you you have no good point on any part of this. And yes i know how to interact with a female quoting a bible verse is not one of the ways now it's all context and where you are at that sets the situation like if I'm at the bar and something happens I typically say something with sweetheart now yes I do say hi beautiful if they are dressed nice but I dont walk up to a girl half naked and talk to them they are not in my league

[Asker]

@caleb1141 you sound creepy as fuck and you are the reason why women think guys are desperate. The votes speak for themselves. Why don’t you listen to women? They clearly don’t want you to approach them with your bible verses

[caleb1141]

I dont do bible viruses that was you on the other post as I stated dumbass I'm atheist now its pritty creepy a guy has to be anonymous to speak and honestly I dont give a fuck about half of these skanks now adays probably got STDs from every relationship

[Asker]

@caleb1141 hey now you got it. Now you just have to quit putting women on pedestals and not call random women beautiful and pretty for no reason cause it is desperate as fuck. You are half way there to not being a creep

[caleb1141]

Yah and guys hidden are kinda creepy too fuck boy lol

[caleb1141]

Your just a pussy just like your god

[sapphireruby]

@caleb1141 It's not wrong to call a women beautiful or pretty, far from it. The problem is when all you do is complement someone, that doesn't give them a good idea of who you are or what a date with you is going to look like.

[MooSooBe]

So you would rather not hear that a guy finds you pretty or beautiful?
I know those particular 2 words are horribly generic, but as a guy I know that I miss my ex calling me sexy or saying how much she loves different things about me and my personality or how I made her feel when I was thinking about her and let her know just how much I liked the way she looked at times or the way she made me feel when I was down etc...

Anyway please help me out with some secret ideas on how to maybe approach a girl who is attractive to me without being weird and or creepy?

[sapphireruby]

@MooSooBe No no, I think most most girls love to be complimented for their appearance we often spend a lot of time on it. I'm saying if your trying to approach a girl try to lead with your best food forward like a joke or something, to make you stand out. Start a conversation with them, giving a complement is rarely the wrong thing to do. The problem is some guys all they do is give out complements and most girls want more substance.

[MooSooBe]

I gotcha, I guess I misunderstood and I should be just fine if that's the case! :-) thanks for the little boost to my mood and confidence that helps ;-P

[xyz94]

It sounds as though the asker just wants to bring women down and ruin their confidence, as some bizarre method of increasing his dating chances. Making a woman insecure will not make her want to date you - just a tip for your real life!

[Screenwriter]

Yeah, I don't get the "what celebrity do I look like" person... some young chick who doesn't look like anybody and is also DESPERATE to be somebody else... It's not healthy. But the answers for her are quite honest. I asked her why she was always asking these questions.

[jesskrs101]

I had a pic of myself with sunglasses from a good distance and I still had guys telling me that I looked beautiful.. like okay? I quickly changed it bc it was creepy af.
Like I did not think I was on a dating app, why don't they just talk to someone face to face to a girl instead... that would probably be more effective lmao

[The6ix]

Because guys could get kicked in the nuts acting creepy with a girl face to face

[jesskrs101]

Well then they need to look up on YouTube or something on how to approach a female without being creepy ha

[The6ix]

Yea those YouTube videos are fucking pointless... Men and guys online offering advice are saying stuff to fuck as many girls as possible and women who go based on their female input are usually going by how they approach things.

[xyz94]

I don't think this is strictly true - most men on here will not call a woman 'beautiful' or a '10' when she isn't pretty. A few guys do, sure, but I wouldn't say most.

[elite665]

Yea I will never tell a unattractive girl she’s pretty but I will also never say they are ugly and tbh most of the time they are not ugly anyway I just don’t like them because they don’t fit my preferences

[Asker]

@elite665 why say anything at all? Why put women higher on a pedestal? These women who post half naked pics are seeking attention. Why would you give it to them? Desperate men who keep giving women free validation is why women are so picky. Men complain women won’t give normal guys chances well it’s because guys keep telling every women she is a damn perfect 10. Whenever a girl asks for a rate give her a 6 no matter what. Guys are so stupid sometimes and desperate it’s pathetic

[elite665]

Because I don’t want anyone to feel hopeless but I’m not telling g them they are 10s or even 7s so I don’t think it would be a confidence boost as much as giving some girls hope

[xyz94]

Why not just give a girl what you honestly think when you rate, instead of just giving every a girl a 6, just to try and bring her confidence down?

[Alex_988_2]

It's called getting into pants psychology...
Most men have said you attractive that's the reason

[lifelearner011]

I think deep down we all thrive for feeling loved, safe and desired, that might be enacted in different ways. If you asked me, I find it lovely and attractive when the guys takes initiative. In my early 20s I used to think the opposite, maybe because I didn't understood that takes some courage and confidence to do this move in a respectful way. Now I don't think guys are too desperate.

[yoganshB]

Yeah there are some but as you stated that giving compliments to everyone is wrong then I want to ask you why?
Everyone is beautiful so why not. Spreading love gets you love in return. I can agree with you if you meant it for the reason behind it. I appreciate everyone without any intension to get anything but yeah their are some fools around here.

[Asker]

Look at the votes and look at the female replies. They find it creepy, but desperate men like you don’t seem to realize it for some reason. Also putting women on pedestals hurts men. That’s how women get crazy high egos and have this entitled attitude so many girls have nowadays.

[yoganshB]

Hey! Wait... did you just say I'm a desperate lol! You Don't know me so please leave that in your head for once. secondly if you want to be in a relationship what would you do. remember I'm single ( my age may be the answer). If you find your love someday what would you do. I don't know what would I do because I'm a single right. If your answer is you'll talk to her or be friends with her or anything like that then you should know that , that can also be creepy or desperate. You just don't understand that women don't want anyone to get any closer when they're not ready. If I say you're beautiful to anyone whom I don't know and on any fuckin situation then it's obvious I'll either intimidated them or make them wish to block me. Bro I'm not a fool to do that. I told you that if someone does that then he's surely a creep but if I talked to any girl even once then I can definitely compliment her at the right moment. You can't deny that. I complimented A girl in my institute and she proposed me the very next day. I don't know if she was impressed by a creep or what but that was creepy to me so I simply said no.

[yoganshB]

Men too have attitude and it's bad when unnecessary but within limit it's a part of one's personality.

[morrowlow]

i've seen some of those guys here. the sad thing is they get the least attention because they're so obvious but what are they supposed to do? if they say that they need women they're called desperate and if they say they don't need them they'll be called woman haters

[John_Doesnt]

All men on the Internet are desperate. Chris Hemsworth never uses social media.

What website does Chris use to meet women? iamchrishemsworth. com

[Estaroze]

Hmmm honestly, I don't know,, Guys are always a bit filrty, Aren't they?
I think they are just having that attitude for fun, in most cases, not that they are desperate or something.

[Estaroze]

*Many of guys are

[yassyay]

The fact that the question was for girls and there’s more guy comments than girls really answers this question for itself🤷🏽‍♀️

[mateynine]

I think guys are way too desperate.

It's understandable why since so many of us are kinda left out with dating and what not, but that still doesn't change the fact that too many of us are thirsty asf.

[englisc]

Definitely. Check out the guys in this video:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdLcLXXwAi8

[Screenwriter]

Disturbing cache of desperados on tinder.

[sindicated]

Im naturally flirtatious and if I feel like flirting with a cute woman I will. I am not going to DM them, thats sleazy. No I keep my sleeze public, which is much better than private sleez.

I am not desperate but watching some of my dudes is hilarious. Really gotta appreciate that the nice guy / good guy hasn't died off. I'd hate to see that tired trope die off.

[arabgoddess]

Funnily enough they wouldn't do it in real life lololol

[BrotherFrost]

Yep, but not only those which shower them in compliments. The "womenizers" are desperate as well, they are just trying to hide it.

[Asker]

I made another question check it out
The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys? ↗

[Vick2727]

Women are desperate. They show it in their actions, and guys are desperate by showing it with their words.

[xyz94]

Not everyone is desperate

[Anonymous]

If guys were desperate I would have been in a relationship already.

[Unit1]

Funny that it's coming from you. I could kind of say the same but in reverse (instead of desperate however it would be wanting love)

[Opinion Owner]

Why's it funny?

[Mamamialetmego]

Guys desperate on internet they too scared in real life.

[Alex_988_2]

You ugly?

[Alex_988_2]

Or maybe you friend zoned them..
Women complain for their own dumb faults

[Opinion Owner]

No guy talks to me.

[Alex_988_2]

Well I could PM you if that could make you feel better... I'm kinda experienced in that domain.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't want you to know who I am.

[mateynine]

Says the pink anon who's literally trying to avoid confrontation with men

[Opinion Owner]

How so?

[Unit1]

1) Pink - Which means female. And men love women (at least I do very much)
2) Anon - not willing to be talked to by good men online at least. This raises the question - does that reflect you in reality too?

[Opinion Owner]

No, it doesn't.

[lernulo]

I see most people say yes, I think this must be a reflexion.
Not just to how men are, but how they are educated too.
Desperation comes from education on this case, and it shows men need other type of guide.

[Screenwriter]

nah ah... Desperation comes from lack of education and experience with women... Lack of self esteem and comfort with them. Got to practice practice.

[lernulo]

And what brings all of it?

[lernulo]

About practice, practice... It isn't as easy as you think I had a client doing it and he made more of 100 tries and it was just the same, there are more things involved which people must be teached on, but they aren't

[Screenwriter]

I agree. There are other factors. The most important thing I learned about interacting with dating prospects came from a British match making encounter. There were about 20 people involved. They all met each other face to face. There were African-Anglos, Indian-anglos, white-anglos in numbers that reflected the population. All of the people were relatively attractive and age appropriate to match. Who the people chose by "looks" lined up with their regular choices. However, the tables turned considerably when they did "blind" matches. They spoke to each other not knowing who was on the other end and chose by personality and interest profiles. The matches crossed races, culture etc and everyone was surprised. Then they went off with their new matches. The point being, you might be choosing incorrect matches if your "looks" partner is chosen first. I found that myself when selecting someone to email and converse with. The conversation was a much stronger indicator of anything possible than looks. I advertised myself as average looking, described myself appropriately and they did too. After 40 online conversations, I met the last three and eliminated two after meeting them. Of course you have to be physically attracted, but that gets in the way of verbal interaction with less prejudice. Converse for a few weeks. If we ONLY read the profile and see what that says to us... I bet covering the face up and reading the profile ONLY brings different results. Men would swipe right 70% fewer times at best. I think women swipe right about 20% of the time, but they're under the same illusion. The concrete evidence is in solid factors about a person. WHO ARE THEY?

[UglyestGuyEver]

yeah, some are like that,, i never call a ugly gurl beautiful or a 10, im honest,
but still i dont think u should call em desperate... jus normal men,.,,, its natural to have sexual needs... no need to shame em for it

[CausticHippy]

Hell yeah these dudes are desperate. All an average looking girl has to do is cake on make up to seem like a super model. Ugly dudes know that average girls won't even look at them twice and make up is usually out of the question for guys.

[girly2019]

It depends on the age I say🤔 if it's between they age gap or a bit under that's fine as u can't help if you find them attractive but if it's a ridiculous age like under 20 that's is being a bit desperate

[WarDaddy1969]

No wonder they are all single probably but it might be hard to find a women in today's time since 1/3 of women are lesbians,1/3 are you know Strong Independent women don't need me man lol, and a 1/3 have been raped probably aren't many ladies to hook up with

[xyz94]

Sorry but that is all rubbish and no evidence supports that.

[Screenwriter]

Strong independent women may not need a man, but they want one!

[SissyFrenchMaid]

But I like to think that I'm an exception to the rule

[Asker]

I hope you are right

[praj2001]

Yes they are pretty desperate. See I m a guy too but I totally understand that guys these days are really fuckin desperate. Lonliness is one thing but they should understand it bother others. I m too sick of hearing my friends complaining about guys that send weird stuff on their accounts and I m like oh Jesus how low they can go

[RachelleDraws]

Yes. It's bloody creepy and gross.

[Soporific-san]

Love that Sylveon human version. Looks lovely.

[Asker]

@Soporific-san you are the desperate creepy people I’m talking about.

[Soporific-san]

Well, I like anime/manga. Its something I enjoy watching. I only came into comment section to see what was posted. Now what makes you say that asker?

[Asker]

@Soporific-san you comment telling a random girl her picture looks lovely. Why even do that? Only guys comment randomly on people posts

[Soporific-san]

Yes, I was bored and wanted to post something stupid to see if I can get a ruse out of it. Turns out posting on a Q like this, defiantly will draw in OP. Why do that you say. Well, no reason. Just wanted to say I like the art, I suppose. Why be judgmental, seems like posting is against the law. Anyways OP, rather not blow the notification box. So peace. Enjoy yourself faggot.

[Browneye57]

AFC's. Average frustrated chumps. They ain't gettin' any. Period. No game, no talent, no looks, nuthin'.

[Unit1]

No money 💵

[Browneye57]

@Unit1 - That too. ;)

[LuWe22]

Yes I do think so. The desire for a girlfriend/hook up is high

[KATALINV]

The desire for boyfriend it's not...

[Screenwriter]

@KATALINV We too desire boyfriends and hookups. Just not so FAST!

[Liam_Hayden]

There are so many beggars on her that they should call themselves the SIMPsons.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Only some guys I've never encountered Many guys that are too desperate though maybe only a few

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Maybe on here I need to observant who knows they probably do it to me too 😂

[Unit1]

AKA putting the women on a pedestal? Yeah, i think that's one reason women can get spoiled.

[Anonymous]

no they are not

you are just to stupid to realize reality

[Asker]

Dude literally look at the replies to any photo a girl posts on here. 20 desperate men will call her perfect and a 10/10. Guys are still on dating apps even though stats show how horrible they are for men

[Opinion Owner]

I know but you seem to missed the one problem with society

MEN AT A YOUNG AGE ARE TOLD TO HIT ON WOMEN?
I want you to think about what I just said

MEN ARE TOLD TO HIT ON WOMEN
from childhood

( IT'S CALLED CONDITIONING)

most are not desperate they are conditioned
like GOD said

2 Corinthians 4:4
In whom the god of this world (satan) hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them

[Asker]

A lot of guys don’t believe in god and if you pay attention to the media guys are told not to approach anymore cause it is creepy, yet guys are so desperate they keep doing it even after women have clearly said to stop and it is creepy

[caleb1141]

Bro you wanna bring god into this you better learn the bible or an atheist is going to drop a bombshells on your ass

[Opinion Owner]

you actually believe the media lol
HAHAHAHAH

nothing but lies
go on pornhub

that is the truth of women
selling themselves for money

LOVE OF MONEY ROOT OF ALL EVIL

[Opinion Owner]

@caleb1141

and dude please stop the atheist on this site are stupid and believe in fairy tales
GOD is above the waters and there is nothing they can do to stop that

[caleb1141]

Yah so your going to quote something that said all women should do is stay in the kitchen and take care of the kids right. And fairy tales yah like one person split the red seas correct that Disney took over and made a movie from please the whole bible is fake christianity is a fucking joke but nice to see your cool with takeing peoples money for them to believe while the pastor fucks there kids

[Asker]

@caleb1141 yep creepy. Do you read what you type? You are a sad desperate man. Where did I say women should stay in the kitchen? Don’t take it out on me that women find you creepy and don’t want your weird approaches. Can’t you just focus on yourself and leave women alone or must you always put women on pedestals

[caleb1141]

And yah where is god for all the little kids with cancer huh. Better yet for my grampa who was a big catholic that had lung cancer and died where was he at for him. Your god dont give a fuck that's why people like me exist cause you cowards are too fucking weak

[caleb1141]

Actually women dont find me creepy they actually like me now come out of anonymous pussy and talk that shit

[caleb1141]

Big man gotta be hidden dont worry your pussy ass god should save you from me correct

[Asker]

@caleb1141 bro what are you talking about lol. You either a troll or a freak of course you could be both

[Opinion Owner]

@caleb1141



the herbs are for the healing of the nation



Hosea 4:6
my children are destroyed for lack of knowledge

[Opinion Owner]

@caleb1141

you are a retard lol

[caleb1141]

Too bad he did that so again where was your fucking god to protect him

[caleb1141]

Bet you won't meet up and say that to my face pussy

[Jltakk]

Is correct

[ManOnFire]

Yeah maybe. When chicks do it we never call them being desperate though.

[latinabutterfly96]

On G@G? Absofuckinglutely.

[KATALINV]

Nooo it's not true 😁

[Asker]

@KATALINV she is talking about you dude pathetic always commenting on random girls posts

[KATALINV]

Ignore me

[Asker]

The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys? ↗

[TheAceholeSupreme666]

I think it's more of a "case by case" individual basis. It depends on the person.

[Anonymous]

Yes but our society isn’t helping Boys are not being taught what women REALLY want. Also a boy or man who has been single for a long time will get labeled weird, gay or creepy. That impact their self esteem and can make them act for desperate.

[Slim57]

Yeah they are, they should take pride in picking women carefully and having standards instead of going for ANY random girl on the internet

[AlexEfron]

Yes they are XD.
And so are the girls. Everyone's an attention whore (or maybe not everyone... But a lot of them are)

[IamAboyXD]

Well, for me I "worship" women because I love the idea of having a beautiful being to worship who have control over you
Other than that, I am not desprete
So people are VIRGINS AF

[Kitty46]

I haven’t seen no desperate guys

[gautamdelhi]

I am

[Kitty46]

I only seen desperate guys on dating sites

[gautamdelhi]

If someone has no girl friend then he could be desperate, like me

[Asker]

@gautamdelhi and that is why you are single

[gautamdelhi]

@Asker So what is the key for girls friend

[BestUserName100]

K that’s good for you. Who cares.

[Asker]

I do. I think guys are too desperate and hurt other men cause all these men I’m guessing you, put women on pedestals and then women’s ego skyrocket

[BestUserName100]

Yeah probably oh well. Don’t be a player hater.

[BestUserName100]

Stop trying to change me.

[Asker]

Guys like you don’t change, but can’t you tell from the women voted and replies they don’t like creep us like you

[BestUserName100]

I don’t care what they do. I’m not desperate. Only for some of them. Hell yeah.. I don’t got no problem with that..

[BestUserName100]

Don’t like me I don’t care what you do.

[BestUserName100]

I guess I’m fcking creepy then ohh well.

[_SOARER_]

A lot of guys here are desperate tbh.
I am usually very straight-forward here.

[xyz94]

I think there are also lots of guys on here who are just honest though. I think I can discern who's who!

[_SOARER_]

@xyz94 yes discernment is crucial. 😊
Many good genuine guys here too.

[whiteslavee]

Thats just this site not real life. This site is for insecure beta people

[Screenwriter]

Lotsa folk on this site neither insecure nor beta... Alpha female here. Rarely insecure... Maybe in a lifesaving class a few times... But it was hard.

[red324]

Guys aren't desperate, plenty of guys out there shaming the fat girls.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Hornier, in general yes but that doesn't mean we are desperate.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also a lot of girls are desperate for your information. It's not addressed as much because single girls aren't seen as creeps even if they are. It's not a gendered thing so if you ask them, they'd also say no so that means yes? Maybe in your world.

[ToastyTimothy1828]

Find a few people you can get along with and gravitate toward them. Can't be friends with everybody all the time, so do what's realistic.

[douride2]

Some most definitely are.

[Asker]

The desperate and pathetic men of gag, anyone else cringe at these guys? ↗

[slurreyboy]

Girls are the desperate ones and they are giving their shit away for free making the stock drop

[Anonymous]

Guys are just as desperate for sex as girls are for attention and validation.

[Hamsteroids]

In short, yes

[KieranByrne]

I'm short 😀👍

[Asker]

@KieranByrne that’s not what she meant you desperate fuck. You are exactly what we are talking about.

[KieranByrne]

Thank you; why do you think I commented? 🤷‍♂️

[pigoat]

Unfortunately they are a growing brred

[Agem123]

Yeah, some of them, but not all the guys.

[KatoMagnus]

I agree. This shit is getting sad.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't think most guys do this...

[amberEsa]

You get it too?

[Asker]

I see it and cringe. You girls need to shame these simps. It doesn’t work when guys shame them but if women do it maybe they will learn.

[Anonymous]

The ones on gag are

[Asker]

What about in real life?

[Opinion Owner]

No..

[the_imperfectionist]

some are

[TheFlak38]

m glad that Im not the only one who sees this.

[yourfavperson]

Yes. But not for ur reason

[bush123]

these days YES.

[Anonymous]

Yea we are
Nothing we can do about it tho