Is he grooming her?

[Anonymous]

I went through my little sisters phone (23). I saw messages from a guy calling her a goddess and her sending heart face emojis like 🥰😍😛 and 💋. He talked about cooking for her and how she’s perfect.
Should I be disturbed

[Anonymous]

She is 23. Thats old enough. Besides, girls do like getting complimented. Specially if they dont usually get such attention.

Talk to her. Just as big brother. Tell her to be careful and how bad the guys really are.

[spartan55]

How old is the guy? Your sister? You? How long have they been together? Why did you feel the need to snoop through her phone to begin with?

[Asker]

She’s 23. I don't know his age. I don’t like him talking to her. I don't know if they’re toggle but he said they’d make a perfect baby and she responded with 🥰

[spartan55]

Dude, she's an adult, not much you can do except watch him. Why were you looking through her phone in the first place?

[Asker]

Protecting her

[spartan55]

Protecting her? Bullshit. So a 23 year old woman is so stupid and helpless that she needs you to look through her phone? Did she appreciate that btw? Let me guess, she doesn't know. You're a dick, mind your own business.

[wankiam]

at 23 she should be the one who is disturbed... disturbed by the fact you think its ok to go through her phone. not only is it none of your business but you seem to think she is a kid

[Asker]

I don’t like him talking to her

[wankiam]

thats clear but its not your choice to make. if you aren't careful you will push her away from you and right into his arms at the same time

[phildonious]

Have you ever told a girl any of these things? If so why not? He may be coming on too strong which is a red flag but a bigger one is that she has no privacy.

[iluvthai]

It kind of depends on her age and his age I guess if he's much older possibly grooming her.

[Asker]

She’s 23

[Thatsamazing]

Depends-- in a tragically relevant related query, are you retarded?

[Asker]

No. I just don’t like him talking to her. He sent a text saying their baby would be perfect and she said 🥰. I’m protecting her

[Asker]

He’s creepy

[Thatsamazing]

So, there's no such thing as "grooming" someone. There is simply "talking." He is talking to her. She apparently likes it. It's not your row to hoe.

[Asker]

Pedos groom their victims. He might be sexually harassing her

[Thatsamazing]

No, people talk to people. And unless your sister is prepubescent, then this guy isn't a "pedo." Get your head out of your ass.

[bangyourhead]

She's 23. She can make up her own mind on him.