Questions: Guy's Behavior

I'm more of a lone wolf and don't go out much. I study workout and go on an occasional date. I keep these dudes take selfies on their facebook and IG. 10+ selfies. Honestly it looks so fcking weird guys stop it. You look like you are socially awkward and have self image issues. Am I the only one that sees this stuff? I think if you don't have a lot of friends and go out a lot like me you are best just not havig social media.

Im not gay by the way. I like girls but the fabric of womens underwear is so soft and feels so good on my jewels! I dont like wearing the lace or anything to girly but i like the color and designs too cause its colorful unlike guys boring colors and makes me feel so sexy. I wear boyshorts, and bikini breifs. I dont want to come across as weird or gay for wearing it though! If i wore panties that looks more guyish like calvin kleins boyshorts for women. Is it ok for a guy to wear it and would you judge if i didn't know you and told you i was wearing panties but its kinda hard to notice since it has a appearence of guys underwear.