[For anyone unaware hypergamy means women will only consider you a mate if you are better than them. They will jump ship and go for an even better mate if they believe said person wants a relationship with them despite the many years they've invested with a previous partner]
I can even give an example of this in real life. When i was in medical school there was a girl in year 1 who had a boyfriend and he was a cool dude who treated her well. Come year 2, she quickly dumps his ass to get with another guy who just graduated and became a doctor. Now, she appears to be a good, christian girl with morals and most people would perceive her as a GOOD GIRL.
Society in fact would see nothing wrong with her behavior and many attribute it that a woman should strive for the best and not settle for mediocrity but this type of behavior is very unsettling to me. I don't look at this as a woman not wanting to settle with a loser as her previous boyfriend is not exactly wasting his life. He is studying to become a doctor right now and he is working to improve his life.
Now onto my main question. I find it strange that many men congratulate and pat themselves on the back for stealing another man's girl and don't seem to realize the red flag of getting into a relationship with her. It's one thing if u just want to fool around with a woman like this for just sex and kick her to the curb but when you actively start getting invested and going for on BF/GF mode with her is where i become perplexed.
Why don't these guys realize this is a total red flag? If a girl like this can dump her boyfriend at the drop of a hat for someone she perceive to be better then don't they realize that she can do this same thing to you?
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