Why do women shame men for disqualifying them if they have red flags, while constantly looking for red flags in men?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because most females are attracted to masculine energy , a guys confidence , she wants a guy that she can look up to , to make her feel safe and secure and protected , most girls’ don’t consider men to have emotional feelings , because most guys don’t express emotional feelings like girls do , so she is attracted to his confidence and masculine energy his ego, the way he presents himself , and little does she realize, he is talking out his ass for the most part just to impress her and get her into bed , so if he lacks in masculine energy and expresses a lot of emotional feelings she tends to get turned off by it and starts to feel her man is weak and insecure , that he doesn’t trust her and girls’ tend to get turned off by a guy that has a hard time trusting her and sadly in most cases she is wrong, cuz he is just trying to get her to respect him but that’s a different topic , but most female want to be submissive to her man , she loves being dominated by him , when we are having sex with a girl she is allowing us to dominate her , unless she is the type that likes to be dominate to her man , why it’s best to find a girl that likes both in my opinion , makes things fair lol sadly for us men to keep a girl by our side, we have to balance between good and bad to keep her interest , if we are completely good to her she will eventually be drawn to bad, if we are completely bad to her , she is going to eventually want good , Most girl’s are selfish that way, Now I said most girls not all lol ad yes guys can be selfish as well but this is what makes guys and girls different with each other , Bottom line a girl is drawn to his masculine energy whether he is a bad boy or a good boy in her eyes , I have slept with married women that I didn’t know were married to find out her husband either was a complete asshole or to find out he was to much of a pansy and insecure to her , when you learn how to become both guys you become a chick magnet, whether you are attractive or handsome or average chubby , it doesn’t really matter as long as you are confident within yourself , girls are attracted to that where guys are more attracted to beauty we are more visual then a girl is, you aren’t going to land every girl but your chances will definitely increase , Why a lot of younger girls like older guys , she is drawn to his confidence and wisdom his maturity , how he understands her and listens to her where most girls her age are just thinking with their dicks and not really listening to her , when you find a girl that looks up to you keep her at all costs and balance between good and so you can keep her by your side lol

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Hypocrisy
Men are fairly new to the privilege of choice. Women have had the privilege for generations. Most people with privilege fight the relinquishment of it. This is due almost entirely to the myth of scarcity disseminated by the “haves”.
Ignorant women don’t want men to have options. Ignorant women are far more common than the much more valuable open-minded and intelligent women with whom they compete.

HelpMe06 · Accepted Answer

If a woman shames a man for noticing red flags then that’s surely a red flag in itself

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well maybe people get overly paranoid? I’m not sure.

Guy13 · Answer

That's women... looking and making up problems that do not exist !!! Adam went through it with Eve and it has only gotten worse.

Dіldорhоbe · Answer

Women may shame men for disqualifying them if they have red flags because they want to feel like they are in control of the situation and want to feel respected. Often times, when women look for red flags in men, it is because they are looking out for themselves and trying to protect themselves from potential harm. Women may also be looking for red flags to ensure that the relationship is a healthy one, and that the man is someone who is trustworthy and has good intentions.

It is widely believed that estrogen has an effect on mood and emotional sensitivity in women, although research on the topic is inconclusive. Some studies have suggested that higher levels of estrogen may be associated with increased emotional sensitivity, while others have found no significant link. Ultimately, there is a connection between women's higher estrogen levels and women being more emotionally sensitive and fragile.

ZackBan · Answer

It's a little instinctive.
99% of the time if things turn violent a woman is at a disadvantage which means she has an instinctive need to ensure she's not with a person that might harm her.

That being said it is hypocritical to shame men that themselves look for red flags and have higher standards

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

That right there is a red flag itself. It means she thinks she has the right to control your ass and turn you into the person she wants you to be. It should of been #9 in this list

RagnarRedbeard · Answer

People, both men and women, very often try to shame the opposite sex into acting in a way that benefits themselves. They don’t care about fairness, they want what they want and they don’t care about anything else.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I think that we need to make distinctions.

Apparently, women from last century and those from this one aren't of the same make.

Personally, I'm not at all feeling ''attacked'' with any of these ''new'' (self-made?) ... errm... problems.

My own impression: the newest generations - also of men - are a little on the sissy side of life.

Criticism is a healthy thing - and an adult (from last century at least :D ) will be capable to handle it.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's one of the many double standards in modern society that favor women lol

jshm2 · Answer

Because that is the true game of dating. Hide your red flags... find all theirs!

Anonymous · Answer

You're just now learning that women are hypocrites that hold men to a standard that they will not keep themselves? It's arrogance that comes from being told your s*** don't stink from puberty on. The good news man is it typically backfires on these types of women long run. You can't have a healthy relationship if you don't respect t him as well. And some of these women never learn that. So they never find lasting happiness.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I don’t know. Sometimes I can’t even figure out our own gender 🤷‍♀️

DarkLegacy · Answer

Because they are hypocrites, with feminism to blame. They think because they are women they can do what like but men are not allowed to. They think they are holy than art.

genericname85 · Answer

well don't let them shame you for having standards. that's just women being women. that's how they work. they try to mentally beat you up. not physically.

Babygirl_S · Answer

No, I don't look for an aggressive man who has had casual sex. I also don't look for someone with a high body count.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Nah I think either gender can do this. This goes both ways.

JosyJosy · Answer

That's what red flags do, they do red flag things.

Agape93 · Answer

No idea, it's asinine.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Because they’re hypocritical

magiusX26 · Answer

double standards that are skewed in women's favor.

ronaldo75 · Answer

The female mind is one massive glass house.

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