Why do women shame men for chasing "barely legal" women?

[Deserter]

There's no such thing, you're legal or you're not

[inhua]

because we live in a feminized society that shames and stigmatizes men for their choices and preferences. people have always wanted to control men in what they think and do. just be good little soldiers to the gynocentric social order and be disposable upon command and don't think for yourself or having any dreams and desires of your own such that men receive negative traits for every positive trait women receive

gamer girls are seen as cute and awesome. gamer guys are seen as childish losers

extreme sporty girls are seen as badass. extreme sporty guys are seen as toxic

girls who don't want to fight in pointless wars are seen as normal. guys who don't want to fight in pointless wars are seen as cowards

in terms of dating yes it's always a problem whenever a guy steps out of "society's comfort zone" whether the guy chooses to date outside of his race, date outside of his culture, outside of his country i. e. passport bros, date outside of his social circle, date outside of his social class, date outside of his "league" and age gaps are no different

every time men are told to stop "whining" and meet the unrealistic standards women place on them never mind that women can't reach those unrealistic standards themselves if they were self-applied but the moment men have any standards for women (most of which are within control i. e. weight/body count), all hell breaks loose

the funny part is when these women apply non-existent motives onto men e. g. "oh he must hate his own race/culture" or "he's just manipulating you or grooming you" and a whole host of other stupid shit they project onto the men.

[Anonymous]

Cause they’re usually the ugly ones who no man paid attention to. Or they’re bitter old hags who said they can do anything a man can do then realized they hit a wall, now they’re less desirable. Usually the same women who complain about the things you get women wear in public. Most men don’t give a shit about all these things. It’s ok for women to have standards like 6 ft or taller, making a six figure income but when a man says he wants a younger girl he’s pathetic, he’s a creep, a manipulator, etc, etc, etc.

[4ngelic]

cos they're barely not children physically (and are total kids mentally) and if you're not in the sameish age range it's weird and creepy especially if you're like their dad's age or worse grandpa's age. i turned 22 not that long ago and i could never date an 18yo even though like we got like what 3-4 years appart, and never ever ever younger than that. have no attraction to high school boys. even if they look 21 i know how they are mentally and that turns me off. i could never take anything below 19. i'd feel a little weird if i dated an 18yo, and like a total pedo if i fucked a 16-17yo. so imagine a 30, 40, etc dude wanting that. he must have something weird about him if he wants that. I know 18yos biologically are super hot but is it really moral though if you consider how young and immature they are? just take girls in their early 20s if you want it young

[Deserter]

Lol nah they can drink, smoke, drive, open a bank account, move out, and they're at their peak physical height

[Haha456]

@deserter

some guys like dating kids... as long as they got tits and asss

[Deserter]

18 is adult

[Haha456]

@deserter

they're still kids mentally.

[Deserter]

They can drink, drive, serve in the army, move out, get a job, they're adults. By this logic anyone that isn't at least 25 is a kid

[Haha456]

@deserter

most 18 yr olds have never even worked a job and not moved out. Most 18 yr olds still have their parents feeding and dressing them so they can go out and hang out with their friends.

lets be honest... if the legal age was 16, you would date a 16 yr old.

as long as they got tits and ass... you would date them

[Deserter]

Doesn't matter, most people aren't moving out nowadays until like 25, my point still stands.

I think 18 is the age of consent because everyone develops at a different rate. But by 18 you stop growing (height) and are developed.

At 16 some are overdeveloped and some are underdeveloped

[Haha456]

@deserter

you said that you would date them as long as they can drink.
since when is it ok for an 18 yr old to drink?

18 yr olds are immature as hell. perfect fit for you cuz you're also an immature teenager. but not a 40 yr old man.

[Haha456]

[At 16 some are overdeveloped and some are underdeveloped]

by this... im pretty sure you're just talking about how developed their tits and ass is.

[Deserter]

Oh right, they can't. 25 year olds aren't immature as hell too?

[Haha456]

@deserter

No 40 yr old man would date an 18 yr old kid, unless he's a perv.

trust me on this. if the legal age was 14, you would date a 14 yr old too. As long as she's got tits and ass, you would date her.

[Deserter]

No, 18 is reasonable, 14 isn't

How do you feel about people that are say 30 but in the body of a child?

You need to use some sort of criteria.

[Haha456]

@deserter

18 is suitable for ONLY you because you're also an immature teenager. You're an 18 yr old trapped in a 27 yr old's body.

But 18 is not suitable for a 40 yr old man. Because realistically , no decent sane mature 40 yr old man would have anything in common with an 18 yr old kid

[Deserter]

Goofy take lol

[Haha456]

@deserter

just being honest , dude.

if a 40 yr old man is dating an 18 yr old girl, either he is a perv chasing young pussy or there's something wrong with him mentally. Such as a 40 yr old with a mind of a 16 yr old.

[Deserter]

Legal and developed dude

[Haha456]

@deserter

you know very well yourself that "legal" means nothing to you. you don't care if she's legal or not. the only thing you care about is if she's got tits and ass.

[Haha456]

"legal" is just your excuse on seeing how low you can go without getting arrested. Trust me if a 15 yr old looked hot enough, you would date her.

[Deserter]

I would not, stop it

[Anonymous]

Depends on the age gap but being legal doesn’t mean it’s not inappropriate or creepy. Men who date much younger women aren’t looking for an equal partner. The relationships are often predatory with the man looking to take advantage of the maturity gap. Young girls are easier to manipulate and control. That’s usually the name of the game it’s worthy of shame. Legal doesn’t mean right.

[Deserter]

Why not? Anyone can be manipulated, 18 is an adult

[Opinion Owner]

The human brain doesn’t fully develop until the mid-20’s, so 18 is several years away from maturity. Older men know this and look to take advantage. It’s why these relationships never work in the long run. She eventually matures and realizes she’s getting used. Slapping the word “adult” on a situation doesn’t wipe out all the underlying factors and motivations. You’re making an extremely lazy argument.

[inhua]

non-existent motives. the people who worry the most about being manipulated are those who are most guilty of wanting to manipulate.

[Deserter]

No, 18 just hotter usually

[Opinion Owner]

@inhua Of course there are motives and they usually aren’t even concealed that well. Your BS won’t fly here.

[Deserter]

18 hot 🥵 30 not 🤮🤢

[inhua]

yeah motives that you've projected onto people who know nothing about except your own prejudice and personal biases hey let's all just judge people by their age or their name or the color of their skin, not their personality or content of their character right?

[Opinion Owner]

@inhua There are observable patterns of behavior in these types of relationships. We’re not all too ignorant to see them, even if you’d like us to be. Save your nonsense for someone who doesn’t know any better. A barely legal girl perhaps?

[Deserter]

No there isn't

[Paradox316]

Legality is waaaaaay different than morality, dating 18-19 year olds after 20 is just gross to me they are still very immature, and inexperienced. The power dynamics between an 18-19 year old, and someone older than 20 is too uneven for me to be okay with, even if it is legal. If I had a daughter at those ages, she wouldn't be dating people older than 20.

[NaultD]

It's when you don't treat people as people that it's scummy as fuck. I'm not saying life happens in mysterious ways and people make it work.

Im judging the buy, rinse, repeat, faster then cell phone releases dating people.

[Anonymous]

Because women judge... it's just what they do. They wouldn't be women if they didn't. You ever met a woman that didn't have SOMETHING to complain about?😆😆😆

[Googlemyahoo]

I know a girl two years younger then me broke up the marriage of a 70+ year old with children almost the same age as her and married the guy. 🤮

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the intent. If it’s just for sex it’s weird. Id it’s not then whatever

[Sharkstealth]

I'm sorry but most sexual answers on here are if he's hot. It seems that being hot is the priority to have intimacy with men. I would say that barely legal would be a much broader priority. And if that's the only way men can have intimacy?

[Haha456]

why do men shame women for chasing rich men?

[Deserter]

Cause y'all are materialistic

[Haha456]

@deserter

cuz y'all are perverts.

[Deserter]

Chasing of age women is not perversionz tf?

[Haha456]

@deserter

because a 40 yr old man have nothing in common with a teenage kid.

[Deserter]

18 is an adult, cry about it

[Haha456]

@deserter

18 yr old girls don't tend to go for old aging men. just a fact. go cry about it.

[Deserter]

Actually they do, most right swiped men on Tinder are 38 stats show, most right swiped women are 23.

[Haha456]

@deserter

take a look at marriage data. women tend to marry men less than 10 years older than them.

[Deserter]

Jason Mamoa, Henry Cavill, etc. Worshipped by women regardless of age

[Haha456]

as you can see according to the data here... 95% of women marry men less than 10 years older than them.

en.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships

[Deserter]

Yes, and what age do most women marry? Mid to late 20s? You proved my point

[Haha456]

In 2021, the median age for the first wedding among women in the United States stood at 28.6 years. For men, the median age was 30.6 years.

www.statista.com/.../

[Haha456]

I would have to agree that 30 yr old men are significantly attractive than 40 yr old men.

[Deserter]

30s, prime for men

[Haha456]

@deserter

30s is not prime for all men. A lot of men go bald by mid 30s

[Deserter]

Yeah but like if you take care of yourself it is for most men

[Haha456]

@deserter

aging has little to do with how well you take care of yourself. The biggest part of aging has to do with genes.

[Deserter]

I mean generally

[Haha456]

@deserter

your genes determine 2/3rds of how you age

[Deserter]

I'm aware, I get told I look younger than I am lol

[Haha456]

@deserter

a guy's prime is 25-35. Then he goes downhill from there. By 40, a lot of guys already look like shit.

[Deserter]

Agreed

[Haha456]

@deserter

you're the first one to agree to that. The rest of the old balding fat men on here do not agree.

[Deserter]

I'm smart, that's why lol

[Haha456]

@deserter

nahh... you're not smart. i can tell you're not.

[Deserter]

I'm a genius, you're jealous

[Haha456]

see? thats why I said you don't sound smart. smart people don't say that kinda stuff. they don't think or talk the way you do. you sound like an immature teenager.

[Deserter]

Smart people curse a lot studies show, dumb bitch

[Haha456]

sorry i hurt your feelings

[Deserter]

You didn't, why so cranky, your husband didn't screw you good?

[Haha456]

just cuz you're not smart, it doesn't mean other people are cranky

[Deserter]

You are cranky tho and dumb

[Haha456]

ok immature teenager.

[Deserter]

Mmm salty

[Haha456]

i think you're salty

[Deserter]

First i'm a pervert, now I'm a teenager, #womanlogic

[Haha456]

@deserter

what makes you think you can't be both a pervert and a teenager? #menlogic

[Deserter]

Cause both are teenagers of age...
?

[Haha456]

@deserter

I'm pretty sure you're not a teenager.

[Deserter]

You called me one

[Nikki1989]

Any excuse for being a creep, huh?

[Deserter]

It's legal, try again roastie

[Anonymous]

Jealousy, Nothing more.

[Degenerate]

Prolly cause their old and undesirable