Why Do Men Have Less Red Flags They Avoid In A Relationship?

[anon1903]

Men are so desperate.
If I tell my female friend, my boyfriend is crazy, she'd tell me to run.
If I were a guy and said the same about my girlfriend to my homies, I'd get at least one guy saying something like “crazy chicks are the best! we can work out something”

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Men get abused too. Just saying.

[MisterWack]

“ Men are so desperate.
If I tell my female friend, my boyfriend is crazy, she'd tell me to run.
If I were a guy and said the same about my girlfriend to my homies, I'd get at least one guy saying something like “crazy chicks are the best! we can work out something”

My response: Maybe because we don’t talk about red flags as gender neutral that all genders can fall for / all genders can be capable of…. We only play woman or man and ignore the other side of the table.

With me, I’ve seen so many red flags of women that I would stay away from. I go with the principle “if I wouldn’t want this type of girl as my friend, how the Hell would I want that type of girl as my GF”.

Red flags: Bigoted, narrow minded, bully, doesn’t treat my family/friends with respect, doesn’t lift me up only pushes me down, tells me what to wear, tells me what to do, isn’t nice, isn’t kind, isn’t compassionate, isn’t understanding, is self centered / bigot / narcissist / racist.

[Danny_dan92]

Not long ago I met a girl that I found very attractive. We had a lot in common and for the first time in years I made plans to go on a date.




What happened? (For context) she is a single mom. And she asked me if that bothered me. I told her that I wouldn’t mind dating a single mom UNLESS the father of her kid is still in the picture. I’ve heard too many stories of a person dating someone that has a child/children with another person. And that relationship isn’t 100% over… they still sleep with the other person.




I personally wouldn’t want to devote myself to a woman that cannot relinquish her relationship with her kids dad for good and come to terms that she wants a step father for her child.




That being said, due to my past experiences I’m EXTREMELY picky. One red flag and I leave. On the other hand, a woman will definitely know if I’m in love with her. Through my actions. And yeah, I have heard of women finding it a turn off if a man is obsessed with them, to which it’s counterintuitive tbh. Because then they are ok with dating a man that isn’t that way with them, and then wonder why the guy has affairs and cheat on them lol

[SugarSugarplum]

Because girls all want the top notch guys, and guys just want peace and love. It's not desperate to have simple desires. It's more desperate for 15 girls to all angle for the same guy.

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[CuriousHubby]

Probably cause men are kinda dumb. Also that guy saying stick your dick in crazy has never had crazy just likes crazy anime girls.

Honestly I tell my bros to run. Any red flags she has... She is hiding 6 more.

For a girl it's he shows them right away often.

[Kaneki05]

But that's me...
Also tbf many women also say they can fix him or he'll get better or he's changed etc.

[anon1903]

I can fix him typa women generally don't ask their friends for opinions bc deep down they know it's impossible

[Kaneki05]

I don't know. I think the south park arc with Cartman with Heidi was a perfect example of what happens in a lot of cases.
Others girls and other people call them crazy for wanting to be with the bad guy, they shame her and mock her for been with a jerk so much that she doubles down.
So her friends were actually enabling her 'fix him' thought process by the fact there friends were so against it.
And your right she knew deep down it was impossible but she didn't want to admit it to her friends, because then she would feel like a loser.
To the point she isolates herself from them and becomes awful herself.

So I think they do ask their friends, then there friends tell them they are dumb and it's not going to work which causes her to want it more.

[dragoblack]

All gender/sex does that, and it is horrible to put up with abuse, but, men put up with it because we don't have options, we don't attract others with ease that women do. In terms of dating sites as example, women can have hundres of guys to go through to pick and choose, unless a guy is super attractive, a guy will get a real person once every few months and in other cases every few years.

[Ladsin2]

Because men have a higher drive to mate than women do. Men are always fighting for women so men take what they can get. Mate options are very few and far between for men. This is why only 1:7-1:14 men throughout antiquity were able to procreate as opposed to 4:5 women. These ratios started to even out more in modernity, but history leaves traces.

[zagor]

Guys usually feel less physically endangered by women than vice versa. Their worry about having a bad experience with a woman generally doesn't include getting murdered.

[TallAnon]

Because we are problem solvers and generally in less danger because we are stronger.

[236color]

Men do get abused, at a much lower rate than women. Men also don't have as easy a time finding a partner if they let one go.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Woman are just walking red flags. It's how we raise them. It's how a lot of women raise their sons too.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because what we need from a woman is much simpler. And anyway, it's such a pain in the ass for us to get to the point of even having the possibility of dating a woman that we tend not to think too much about it when we get to that point.

[Xoirwinkan]

A combination of men thinking with their dicks, being told that having selective preferences is sexist, and not being as wary of the other sex as women.

[TurboAnon]

Women's standards are atrociously high. A 'red flag' to them is usually something completely innocuous.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

haha come live in America and you will see all this turn upside down.

[Likes2drive]

I guess because men are quite as picky as women figuring they can work with it

[elaphe]

No one in a relationship should put up with abuse, man or woman.

[shortster]

Why do women have more frivolous red flags? Like taking a date to Cheesecake Factory; or tying your shoes?

[Intheclouds00]

Because we don't have nearly as many opportunities/options as women do

[Jmmmfi4]

YEAH WELL ALL BITCHES ARE CRAZY SO WHAT CAN YOU DO

[paledreams]

Lol that's men for you lol 😆

[LiamJHayden]

As long as she brings me peace I am fine.

[dudegreat91]

Lol talk about stereotyping.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Because men are brave

[nawtee_me]

Men aren’t as picky