I'm not understanding something with men today. We have quality guys who basically busted their ass off to become a high status male going for basic bitches in our society. (Example)
I'm talking about guys who are making 6 figures, good looking, have a nice place, car and basically their life is on point going for girls who are average in looks. And it's not even about the looks i'm getting at but these girls aren't even that hard to snag, meaning that even college athletes, good looking guy in college, or an ugly guy if she is drunk enough can get her for a night or push to get a relationship.
So there is like no exclusivity there that would make her really desirable to a man if you know what i'm saying. If a lot of guys in college can get her, then she's pretty easy. You'd think then maybe they have a wonderful personality but from the girl's i know who are in relationships with guys outside of school, they have pretty shitty personality.
I'm talking bitchy behavior, princess complex, gold digger attributes of wanting their man to always please her and carry her to expensive places. Basically a near one sided relationship where a man spoils the shit out of a her and she reciprocates by acting all lovey dovey to him and giving him sex. And a lot of these girls don't even have jobs yet or if they do it's shitty jobs that pay poorly. I'm talking like college girls who still live with their parent, in a dorm or working a job that makes 40k/year. What I'm getting at is why are guys who basically busted their ass to reach at this point in their life settling for girl like this when much better quality women are available in this world?
A reverse gender role to this would be like a Victoria Secret model deciding to date a good looking/above average college guy, who is broke, and still living in a dorm.
Why are more and more quality guys settling for basic bitches these day?
It’s simple: they don’t view them as “basic bitches”. They don’t share the same overly critical, judgmental, slightly condescending viewpoint that you have on women. Sometimes sex is the main reason they stay around. Other times, they may recognize those flaws or unbecoming traits, yet choose to accept them and work with them regardless because they have intense chemistry or they share a really fun, interesting connection that they genuinely enjoy exploring. Some guys view “bitchy behavior” as a woman who’s been hurt and has a complex past story. Some guys don’t mind princess complexes because they’ve always enjoyed spoiling a woman anyway. Some guys aren’t going to care if she’s making a lower salary because deep down, they’d prefer to be the breadwinner anyway. Some guys come from cultures where they appreciate a woman who lives at home with her parents.
You can’t just assume that every other guy is going to think like you or do what you would do if you were in their position.
Because God forbid they actually meet a woman that they love for her. And the same for men. It's really not this difficult. My husband is a lot hotter than me in my opinion, and he even is better educated and makes more money. I can admit that. I also am not telling him to sprinkle me with glitter and give me the world. We just honestly love one another. He's hilarious, he's defiant, he's dedicated. We don't agree on everything and we challenge eachother, but we love hard for eachother too. And I don't know what he sees in me, but whatever it was it kept him around. This is more of a rant I guess, but I just don't think it's that complicated. Live life, fall in love, and be genuinely happy.
They might be rich or good looking but it doesn't mean they have a great personality and also I don't think they actually care about having more than a sex partner. I never liked girls that claim that kind of treatment but unfortunately they are always getting the guys, no matter if they are successful or not.
I wonder that too, it makes no sense. Then you see them in court cause the girl wants a divorce and will get 20M bucks (I'm looking and you, Johnny Depp >.> ). It feels like the effort they put in becoming successful, is the opposite of the effort they put into finding good women. Maybe so much time working made them feel lonely and ended up desperate for affection and settling for the first girl they see.
It's sad, cause then you see these women, who will end up fat as fuck, at Walmart, with $20M in their bank account.
your reverse example is not reverse bc a victoria secret model didn't bust her ass to get where she is. unless she is using the vs money to pay for med school.
but why do you mind. you dont have to date them, so why do you mind if somoene else does?
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Models don't all start off making millions. Many of them started off with shit salaries and photoshoots that payed 250, worked shitty jobs in between. Even runways sometime don't pay and the girls are given clothes are compensation.
Similar with hollywood actresses they don't all start off with amazing careers. And the reason i'm asking this question because i find it confusing and would like to discuss about it.
Women consumes interest. Lower women consume less interest and gives more. It is efficiency dude. Women can't love someone they adore. So, finding a lower women makes your relationship stronger. And those misandrist feminists or self claimed strong women live and die alone. It is the modern society's summation.
I don't think we're clear here on what a basic bitch is man. A basic bitch is a girl that's basic and average af but acts like a bitch as if they are hot and can expect a lot.
LITERALLY EVERYWHERE ON GAG lol
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And that is exactly what i said.
Look at personality traits: bitchy attitude yet wants her man to treat her like a princess and carry her to expensive places.
And you'd think if they are throwing out all this cash the girl would be at least a model tier in looks but it's usually an average looking girl you'd see at college bars.
These men are still insecure on the inside and don't know what they're missing out on so they settle for the kind of woman that they fantasized about when they were young and not getting female attention.
It's funny how you pick a shitty picture of him for the first pic but one of her dolled up in makeup for the second point to try and even things out but i'll move on from that.
So you see Caville is "at least goodlooking". Hence, we have a couple where the man is of higher status, wealth, has more things going for him in life with a girl who has less things going for her in life.
It's funny how you picked a shitty picture for her, too, but I "moved on from that" a long time ago lmao
"Hence, we have a couple where the man is of higher status, wealth, has more things going for him in life with a girl who has less things going for her in life."
Yeah, right, because she's how old again? Oh, right! 19! How much exactly had you achieved at 19 if you don't mind me asking?
"It's funny how you picked a shitty picture for her, too, but I "moved on from that" a long time ago lmao"
I picked one where she wore reasonable amount of makeup that she would wear out in a public setting. You picked pictures where she had professional makeup artist do work on her face for an award show.
That's not the point of how much she's achieved but what each partner brings to table. Caville is worth millions of dollars, is good looking, high social status, comes from a well off family, respected in his trade and he's with a girl right now who isn't even that and still in college.
There is very much a clear imbalance in the partners. Women today often preach about equality and how relationships should be 50/50 and each partner should bring equal worth in relationship. And a lot of you girls use this sentiment as to why you shouldn't date a guy who makes less than you, shouldn't have to settle for a guy who is in a job that's of less status than you.
"That's not the point of how much she's achieved but what each partner brings to table. Caville is worth millions of dollars, is good looking, high social status, comes from a well off family, respected in his trade and he's with a girl right now who isn't even that and still in college."
Instead of criticising a 19 year old for what she has or hasn't achieved you should probably ask yourself why a 33 year old chooses to be with such a young partner in the first place? But apparently that's not an issue at all and she's the gold digger while he's the poor guy being used by this evil bitch lmao yeah.. right..
The more prettier the girl the less effort she thinks she has to make in relationship. She thinks being pretty, being arm candy and boosting a man's status in dating world is already doing him a huge favor. So many of these girls are lazy when it comes to sex. The more shit they want you to put up with because they can find another guy like you. So at the start many men are dazzed by their beauty and put up with her shit. As we stay with a person long enough how "HOT" they are really doesn't cloud our judgement, meaning you get accustom to their looks and start picking up all the red flags you excused.
So guys stop putting up with their shit and the relationship dies and/or she drops him for another person when he no longer wants to treat her like a princess.
A relationship dynamic like this you aren't even with a hot girl. You are with a 5-6/10 female who you could probably fine at a bar and get yourself.
Who basically doesn't have anything amazing about her personality and who wants you to give waaaaaayyy more towards her than she is giving towards you.
I don't see how any guy would be able to stick to that kind of relationship for a very long time. I mean even if the girl realize she's scored gold and giving the best pussy game this guy has ever had in his life, i don't think spending 1000's of dollars on a girl is worth it all just for sex.
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