Polls: Guy's Behavior

Okay so I’ve known this guy online for the last few years from a dating website. He lives in England whereas I live in the USA. At first, we were online dating but ended it after a few months because he said he couldn’t handle distance plus his mental health was crazy (he was super rude to me all the time for no reason). After this, we talked on and off throughout the years and we connected more often recently since we’re at the same points in our lives academically.

This past month though, he disclosed that he has liked me the last couple of months since he realized that no other girl had made him feel the way I made him feel among other things, stating his liking for me. I was taken aback but was happy he told me. The very next day, he apologized for disclosing that information to me for whatever reason and disappeared essentially. He said he’d talk to me after a couple of weeks to sort things out mentally since he was going through it during that time. But, he didn’t contact me whatsoever until today he requested to follow me on social media. I didn’t even know he blocked me on there because it shows that I don’t follow him either even though I never unfollowed him.

he also changed his profile picture to his face I think to entice me to accepting it since he rarely shows his face (he’s not a selfie guy). Should I accept his request or decline it?

Please help a little lady like myself understand the obsession.

Or is that just most men that I know? 🤔😂

Recently I got to see a bunch of my friends quite um... drank. Most of them start talking about their deep feelings and problems they usually don't like to discuss. There was a boy at my prom who wanted to dance with me like 4 or 5 times lol. And we hardly ever talked when we were at school. He asked me out that night and of course I knew he was drank.
Once my crush and I were at a night bar and he took my glasses off my head and said that he takes them with him so to be sure we're going to meet again.
My question is: Do you think people say things that they really mean when drank but are afraid to tell you when in a sober state?

My boyfriend and I got into a fight (we had lived together). He told me that I should go stay with my parents for a few days and think about who I am as a person. (Long story short i am going to move back in with my parents because it'll hopefully improve my mental health). While I've been at my parents he's been distant and just seems like he doenst care even though he says he does. The second night I was at my parents, he was on snapchat on the phone with someone the entire night and even fell asleep on the phone together. I had asked him about it and he said it was a guy friend that he made off of an app. Honestly I feel like there's someone else and he's not being honest about it. Don't know what to do.

So I met this guy in our batch party and we really hit it off I got his number and we talked on text for a while and then planned to meet. We had a great time and even almost kissed. I met him in farewell after that and he was really sweet to me. We continued talking and I told him that I liked him and he said we should be friends and I agreed and everything was good after that. We continued talking for a bit and the conversations were good when he suddenly stopped replying. It's been a month he hasn't replied and he ignored me during exams. Should I call him and find out what happened or let it be? Why did he suddenly stop texting? And also just for the backstory, his best friend and i used to talk and his best friend always wanted to makeout with me but i kept denying he even asked if things didn't workout between me and that guy would i makeout with him? Does any of this make sense?

Boyfriend has money, work, family problems as well as spiritual struggles. He was very emotional and poured out everything to me and was crying in my arms. He got a bit funny after.

So, I told him I believed in him, was here for him and that I knew he could beat this.

He said thank you for everything.

After that, he had bit of a crisis for a few days and was distant but available. Then today he is back a bit to normal and says to me I'm the best [thing] in his life.

I'm a distrustful and suspicious woman but I gracefully accepted the compliment. We chatted a bit more and said goodbye.

So should I relax and be trusting or is this just a line he's feeding me?

To other races of women there is this one user (who I won't name) who makes posts about how attractive a certain woman may be especially women of other races. Black women were rated the least attractive and the white girls agreed but looking at her profile picture she's not attractive just slightly. Do these type of white girls think they are superior lookwise compared to other races? White men also agreed bw were the least attractive but ofc they had no pics so I'm assuming they're unattractive white males. I never knew that race could make you less attractive. Do these white women think they're superior than other races they tend to treat me like that

I can't post more races so let's go with it for now. Mixed race is also a option

Hey look I will not judge you if you are a SIMP, I SIMPED too for some men, Any guy here who is going to admit that they are a SIMP has Guts!

By definition A simp is a guy who puts women on a pedestal especially if they find that women attractive, these guys literally go above and beyond for that woman, they would do anything for them especially when the woman that they so love or like is not really going above and beyond for them.

The symptoms of a simp are:-
💣Always doing the most for a female that doesn’t like them.
💣Always trying to impress females.
💣Puts females before themselves.
💣Will defend a female just for a drop of *😼*.
💣Hates slander of any female.
💣Lets females walk over them.

So are you a SIMP?