Polls: Guy's Behavior

I'm a powerlifter (not pro or anything). I have been doing it for 2 years.
My body type is very toned with good arms and abs. But I also take pride in my curves (waist, hips, ass and boobs lol). Overall I'm not very muscular compared to other female powerlifters.

Sadly I only get approached by guys at the gym or extremely muscular guys.

I'm not interested in the kind of guys I meet at the gym and I want to know if regular guys are intimidated by girls who lift?

Also, why do you think guys may find it manly or intimidating?

If the poll is too restrictive, feel free to elaborate.

Why do the ugliest guys with absolutely nothing have the highest standards? Why do they keep on hitting on me when I obviously will reject the shit out of them? I'm a nine and I don't wanna date a ugly guy or average joe who has no wealth and power. When will they look in the mirror and relieze they should stay in their own league?

How can I put them in their place?

if you don't look like this or have all of this
then you will never have a pretty girl. Stfu its always been about what women want!

I was talking to this guy and it was literally perfect. He was so into me and I realize now that after I brought up a relationship, he was pulling the slow fade (for three months). he ended up telling me to forget him because he doesn't have the same feelings I have for him. I got really clingy towards the end because I wasn't sure what was happening.

Personally I am edgy but I would like to see what u guys like!

There's this guy I'm kinda interested in. He's a lot older than me though, 8 years older. He never seems to want to push things with me though, I think because he is older. He comments on his age a lot when we're talking. I like to think that we're both good people, but at the same time we both get high and drink. (Just cannabis, relax. And I don't even drink a lot. Last time I drank was new years.)
The other night though I had gotten high by myself, and he was buzzed he said. We weren't together, we were just texting. We started asking each other REALLY personal questions. Like he asked what kind of underwear I wore, then I asked how many girls he'd been with, he asked my bra size, and I asked his dick size. I also told him I'm a virgin. The next morning we were both kind of awkward about it but just brushed it off.

Now though he's promised that he could invite me over to smoke with him when our schedules are cleared up. We're also kinda planning to drink, only that's a loose sketch at this point because I'd end up having to stay over if we get drunk. And I'm just not sure like he wants, or what he's expecting. out of this, is he expecting sex?