Guys what do you think of a girl that apologizes after an argument? (She was wrong)?

[Anonymous]

If you have more options put it in comment please.

She is mature, self confident and strong. It makes me respect her more.

I dont care, these things happen, i dont m need her to apologize.

It proves she is weak, too emotional and have no personality. I hate it.

It proves she is weak and too emotional but I like it. It makes me feel powerful.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

This poll is a little awkward..

Option A is worded funny, gives off a slight feminazi vibe. I don't think you really meant it that way but still.

Options B and C are just plain ridiculous. Why would I not want her to apologize if she's wrong? Why would I not respect her for apologizing?

Option D is admittedly a little closer to the truth. But I still hesitate to click simply because you make it sound like this incredibly arrogant and egotistic thought process.
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Yes, we do like it.
Yes, it makes us feel powerful.

The problem is that you seem to be confusing it with "BOOM!! LEARN YA PLACE BITCH!!!" In reality, it's not like that at all.

While it is true that a guy will feel a rush of power and security after his girl apologizes to him, it's almost never in that domineering and superiority-complex inducing sense.

See, the powerful feeling comes from the fact that his girl was serious enough about the relationship that she was willing to put aside her pride and own up. After all, would she have done such a thing if she saw him as a weak boyfriend?

When you apologize to a guy after a fight, you're basically saying that you trust him to be able to responsibly make you his. You're saying that the bond you two share is more important to you than, say, having bragging rights for the next time you and your friends have "Bitch Gossip Hour" ((or whatever you call it)).

And in a time when bragging rights over things like that seem to come before everything else, that feeling is sexy as fuck.

[Lynx122]

I apreciate it when girl apologises if she was in the wrong it shows that she cares and that she's mature and doesn't just see things from her own perspective all the time, she's not selfish. But I always said it's fine because I had an amazing girlfriend we didn't really argue much and I knew she cared about me and she was a great girlfriend so I didn't mind, but I still appreciated it though.

The only time she really did something worth apologising for was when I wrote her one time and we were talking and she just got super pissed at me for no reason. But I realised sh was having a bad day and I didn't take it personally and later she apologised it was no big deal. But I definitely respect it more because it shows taking responsiblity for your own actions and not expecting special treatment or something, it's just more adult.

[AriadneSky]

if someone is wrong its rational to apologize, but is she really wrong or just decides she is, for peace.

i dont see why you'd even put weak as an option if she is actually wrong.

people apologize all the time when they are not wrong just for peace. and refuse apologizing when they are wrong.

if you are wrong apologize, but few things are right or wrong, rather a greater or lesser intensity of importance for each respective person.

can you give an example?

[samhradh_leannan]

It's important to be able to admit that you were wrong and apologize. A person who can't do that will be hell to stay in a relationship with.

[alice55]

Depend can be she's mature of can be she's stupid, all depend on the argument.

[Danny_dan92]

I would respect her since that type of behavior translates to maturity. For example little kids are very stubborn and get pouty when their parents tell them they are wrong or doing something wrong. So if a grown woman is apologetic about her actions or what not. That tells me that at the very least she is open to constructive criticism.

[DerSchweinehund]

The ability to admit one's mistake boasts a great deal of maturity. I would appreciate it not only from women, but from my male friends as well, and pray that I would do the same, provided I was on the wrong side of an argument.

So yeah, it definitely shows maturity, security, stability and intellectual integrity, among other things.

[serious]

That means that woman is a very nice woman and she really respects the feelings of others and so she takes the initiative to apologise first, which is always a very good thing to do. It shows that the woman is a very mature woman.

[EpicDweeb]

I think it takes more maturity and courage to admit a fault than it does to stand for that which you believe to be true. All you need to stand for what you believe (true or false) is stubbornness/conviction. To admit you're wrong you need to be willing to learn and to take criticism.

[1988fido]

1- depends on argument
2- she cares about me :)
3- she want us to be together and not fight <3 I like that

[airgrayhawk]

I would respect her more. It's not ready to admit you're wrong. That does show maturity and it would make her look even more attractive to me.

[AleDeEurope]

Mature and confident people realize and accept when they're wrong. I'll have more respect for her for the fact she swallowed her ego and admitted she was wrong.

[Justinaveragedude]

If she was wrong, A. And I appreciate that she was willing to apologize.

If she was right, I think, how big of an ass am I that she is apologizing just to move things on.

[JayCasper777]

it means she's more then your average women. respect due, she just proved her longterm value as a partner. I'd be thinking "you can actually stay with this one"

[OlderAndWiser]

The three little words that can save a relationship: "I was wrong."

[Tdieseler]

Surprise the fuck outta me... cuz apparently women are always right. It takes a big person to apologize... so that garners more respect.

[Dingsbums]

It is a good thing to admit that u did a mistake. Shows that she respects you

[Dingsbums]

Just reading all the guys comments. I did not know it was that rare for girls to act like that. Makes me feel even better about my girlfriend because she does apologize when she did something wrong

[John_Wolf_123]

Thats a very Rare Species, one I hav yet to meet in real.

[nbbn5]

She is mature enough to understand where she was wrong and end the argument

[abhivyakti]

she is wise enough to end the conversation herself.

[lovelyhoneybones]

I'm usually the first one to apologize after an argument.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

She is mature, self confident and strong. It makes me respect her more.

[John_Doesnt]

It means she isn't a woman, because no woman ever admits she's wrong.

[blondfrog]

I'd actually respect someone like that and it shows to me she doesn't have a big ego and she is honest which most people aren't.

[neils]

d most awsm girld I can say... coz none of dem does d same...

[kickme]

I dont think this has ever actually happened, are you drunk?

[StickStickity13]

Wow a woman who admits she is wrong?

[lovelyhoneybones]

I do it all the time.

[Pimop95]

I appreciate her humility in apologizing

[Dred1614returns]

At least she can admit she's wrong.

[Anonymous]

It shows good charachter.

[Lukeyuncut84]

Either wrong or insecure.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

She's a unicorn

[JustCallMeLeon]

"Marry me?"