Is he losing interest or just busy?

[Anonymous]

This guy I've been talking to, I've noticed since last week he has been distance, he hasn't talked much or initate too much conversation. He said he has exams which I understand. Whenever I post a snap story or Instagram story he sometimes would comment on the story. Before I asked him if he wanted to meet in a week or two last week and he said sure sounds good, then I wanted to confirm with him a few days ago and he said can I let you know by_____ ? He has been on an app we talk on. We talk on two apps and one of the apps you can see when the person is online and he sometimes is on it frequently.

Not interested

Interested but busy

Other (please explain)

Updates

+1 y

We're friends who kind of flirt with each other, he has said things that made me think otherwise

[buck_ya_fitch]

You not dating... you not giving me pussy... but you stalking him on apps.. get him interested.

[Coconutpie]

I am not sure but are you guys dating?

[Asker]

No we aren't

[Coconutpie]

So you are friends? Or acquantaines?

[Asker]

We're friends and we kind of flirt with each other but haven't met yet

[Coconutpie]

I wouldn't text him anymore, just let it be. Wait until his exams are done, if he still talks like this to you, than he is losing interest indeed. But if he talks normal again, than he was just busy. But stop asking him why he behaves like that, that will annoy him even more and drift him away.

Do you always intiate? If you do, than stop doing that. If he doesn't intiate himself, than you know enough.

[Asker]

It's in the middle, we go back and forth

[99Sid]

You're both dating?

[Asker]

We're friends that sometimes flirt with each other

[99Sid]

Dear it does not mean he is not interested. He has his exams as you said, so he could be busy with those.

[Asker]

That's what I thought, and if he still does the same thing and not talk often then I'll say something , I'm just worried a little bit and thank you

[99Sid]

Yeah just ask him politely and he will respond, don't worry about it. 👍😉