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I’m losing interest in my boyfriend because he barely puts in effort and I barely see him. What do I do?

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I see my boyfriend about once a week, since we’ve both moved home, which is hard. We’re a 30 min drive from each other. He’s busy the rest of the week with sports, personal studies, hanging with parents. He occasionally asks how I’m doing, but has no idea what’s going on in my life other than that and he hardly ever texts me (works for a big tech startup during the day).

He’s an introvert and likes games so I tend to leave him alone. But I don’t even know if he’s playing or not.

im just tired of putting effort; I know texting only is bad but he doesn’t call. I always ask how his day is, but he takes so long to respond and doesn’t even answer my questions. He does stuff alone a lot without inviting me and I think he likes the new alone time. It’s like he’s not interested at all in seeing me during the week. He will occasionally check in and he’ll plan a date night, which is super sweet and gentlemanly. but then the next day he goes right back to being himself and it will be 4-8 hrs between texts and no goodnight. I always fall asleep. I text him goodnight with a heart usually every night but no response.

What are some dates nights I could plan? I still like this guy but getting annoyed. is there anything we could start doing together during the week? I understand it’s hard living at home; I meet him at coffee shops a lot but feel like that’s getting boring.

im just losing interest rapidly and should probably tell him or fix?

I’m losing interest in my boyfriend because he barely puts in effort and I barely see him. What do I do?
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