I'm afraid my boyfriend is losing interest in me. Any advice?

[gurlfriend121]

OK, so for the first two months I had been with (let's call him Tyler here) Tyler, everything has been perfect. He texted me every day, called me baby, sweety, honey, ect. He used to tell me I was beautiful randomly and get worried when I didn't text him back. But since then, we've had a few fights and disagreements. Now, he doesn't text me unless I text him first, usually. He doesn't call me baby or any of those things anymore, either. I ask him if he still loves me, he says yes. I ask him if he still thinks I am "the one", he says yes. But I just don't believe him, because he doesn't sound like he means it. And he won't even text me while watching a movie anymore. I don't know what I did but it seems like we are just falling apart. I love him with all my heart and he says he loves me like that too, but I'm not sure because he isn't exciting or anything anymore. Breaking up would just make my situation worse. Please help?

[RandE_Guy]

A relationship high last about 2-6 months. After that you stop doing all the thing that you mention and your partner become part of you family. You will eventually treat them as such. The true test of a relationship is the argument. If you guys and over come it by talking to each other and understanding each other, then you have a chance. Burying your feeling with only end up in a huge release of anger.

Everybody have a life, he will stop giving you his full attention. This isn't a sign that he is losing interesting, it a stage in all relationship. It usually mean that they are so much a part of your life that you become used to them.

You are still young, after a few more relationship you will see a clear pattern, assuming you are paying attention. Some people never figure this out.

[InAmberClad117]

It's called acclimation. You're getting used to being with each other. Chances are, he's still completely in love with you, but has grown used to the idea that you are there for him and he doesn't feel the need to check and make sure 24/7. =P Yeah, it can get stressful, any relationship can. Just keep communicating with him and let HIM know how you're feeling, and things should work out fine. ^-^

[Janeeeeeeeey]

Just stick with him, if he truly loves you for you then he won't ever lose interest. Like lolz23 said... He might just need some space, you could possibly give him a week? After a week with no response ask him what's up.

[cavmanier]

Relationships have ups and downs as well as the initial honeymoon period that dies. The bigger issue to me is why your so concerned with finding the "one" at 16? Either way just try and be nice to him and hopefully it works out. If he loses interest I don't see many alternatives.

[lolz23]

He could be depressed. Tell him what you like about him, specifically, that other guys lack.

He also could feel like you're being clingy. Give him some space and see what he does.