Polls: Guy's Behavior

I’ve been talking to this guy for sometime now and he’s told me that whenever I need money to ask him and he was really adamant about it. I’ve asked but only ever small amounts. Anyways there are these periods of time where he just lags on me so much and to reassure myself i ask the question ‘would he send money to a girl just because?’ and usually it helps but I want to make sure.

This down syndrome man who was always asking me out on dates put his hand on my bum. After he did it I called him a down syndrome bastard. It was just pure frustration

Silly question, I guess, but the age of all the social media insanity is a little beyond my bandwidth. A guy goes dead quiet but starts stalking a gal he was texting daily on all social media. What for? I don't get it.

I know gals will stalk a guy's social media bc they're cycling through a million thoughts, but gals also tend to be more chatty about their "why" as opposed to guys.

So... what's a guy's top reason for stalking a gal's social media?

We all know if a man is behind you, then he's staring at your butt. However, research has shown that even a picture of a pair of eyes makes people feel uncomfortable, it's why you see them used as shoplifting deterrents. We even know a pair of fake eyes scares birds.

So would a pair of fake eyes on my arse stop men staring at it?

Just for fun

I live in a very crowded house and I went to numerous friends sleepovers at hotels for birthdays and stuff. Now im just wondering if a guy will automatically think I mean sex? there's one guy we love talking and movies and I’ll love to order room service and hang out without my mom yelling at me or dogs barking but I don’t know if he’ll want sex as soon as we step foot into the hotel

He was nice to you in the past and complimented you and stood up for you then later on kind of discarded me lol I see he followed those around me but not me

Here’s a tightened, cleaner version at exactly 2,000 characters:

We met on a dating app—no, not Tinder—and he messaged me first. We talked for a few days and clicked fast. We’re both artists learning tattooing, traded art, hyped each other up, then moved to texting. He kept asking for selfies, calling me beautiful, and sending his back. He was cute, fit, tall enough without being towering, and covered in tattoos like me.

He wanted to hang out and hook up, but I needed childcare, so we planned for him to come over while my six-month-old napped and I monitored the baby the whole time. He even offered Starbucks and gas-station snacks, which I declined. When he arrived he hugged me, took off his shoes without being asked, admired my gaming setup, and cuddled with me on the couch. He complimented my hair, touched it gently, then kissed me. We hooked up and the chemistry was real—he was attentive, no awkwardness, very compatible.

Afterward we talked, and he said he’d probably come over again the next day. Before he came over I’d warned him my ex’s belongings were still there in trash bags by the door. When he noticed them at the end of the night he tensed and said I should get rid of them. I agreed, and he relaxed. He hugged and kissed me goodbye. I noticed dimples I’d never seen in photos, told him they were cute, and he abruptly said goodnight.

The next day he barely replied. Then out of nowhere he texted, “I think I’m gay lmao.” I couldn't tell if he was kidding. He said he was serious and had been thinking about it. I noticed he’d unmatched me on the app. I respected it but asked if this was just him disappearing after sex. He said it wasn’t about me, just stuff in his head. I told him if he ever figured things out he could text me. He promised he would and sent a black heart. We haven’t spoken since.

I’m 25, he’s 27, and I’d just left an abusive relationship. I wasn’t naïve—just enjoying my freedom. Still, the whole thing doesn’t make sense.