Do you personally find divorced single moms less attractive?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In a way of speaking. Do you find poorer men less attractive? Of course you do. But that does mean you completely discount them? No. It just means they have to work a little harder. Make up for it in other areas. Well the same goes for a divorced woman. If she comes at you with a chip on her shoulder about it she's probably not going to get much traction with a quality guy. But if she's an adult about it and owns the part she played in it and is positive about moving forward with her life and potentially the guy she's meeting then it becomes less of an issue.

GOOD women do not take marriage lightly. So a GOOD woman is going to do the work to properly vet a man before making such a commitment to him. So the knee-jerk assumption of a man when a woman tells him she's divorced is, 1. Either she's not a GOOD woman. Or 2. She doesn't make very good decisions. Either one is a cause for concern to a good man. And it just means he's going to look at her harder than a woman who has NOT been divorced.

Keyboardkat · Accepted Answer

The drawbacks may be that, 1), they're jaded. They've already been hurt by one bad marriage or relationship or they wouldn't be single; and 2), they are very busy, because they usually have to work full time as well as be mothers to their kids. It also depends how many children they have and how old the kids are. And if the kid is like high school age, they may have opinions about their mom's relationships, which could include really disliking you! That could break up the relationship if the mom isn't strong enough to stand up to her kids!

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

No, not at all. Only a real moron would have that mindset.

Master_Debator · Answer

I voted yes because I'm looking at it from a relationship standpoint. Don't get me wrong tho... I like MILF's. For fucking, not for commitments.

Anonymous · Answer

Less attractive as far as damn she’s hot, no. I mean assuming she’s cute and all. But as far as for a relationship, yes there’s a lot more resistance there on my part to get into a relationship w. Single mom. A lot of dudes for would nail a single, hot mom. But the relationship sort, as far as taking her serious, a lot of men won’t. For most men it’s a loss to date a single mom. Not worth it in almost all cases.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Depends what sort of attraction you're talking about. Obviously being a single mom doesn't necessarily affect a woman's physical appearance. But it does affect her appeal from an economic standpoint and her ability to devote time to a man.

Theunfadeable · Answer

Do I find a woman with children and baggage from another relationship less attractive. Of course. If I can Find a relationship that keeps me from having to deal with extra challenges distractions and drama then obviously I’m going to.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not an easy yes or no question. There are many divorced single moms who are wonderful.

But let's keep in mind the reality that half of marriages end in divorce, women file 80% of divorces, and women have made it clear they see fathers as optional and unnecessary. So certainly you can see why men might be cynical or at least cautious about divorced single moms.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

When I was 25, it was clearly not attractive to me, that is, on paper. Now that I'm 45 and everyone is divorced, well single moms and single dads are just usual Monday lol

slatyb · Answer

physically, or to date? If I were single and in my twenties I would be leery of dating a single mother, but as a divorced father in my thirties I had no problem dating divorced mothers.

genericname85 · Answer

To be specific: I may not find them less attractive purely superficially. But if I had a choice between a divorced single mom and just a single woman without children or an ex husband both being decently hot, i'll go for the latter every time.

molonski2 · Answer

Depends on the single mother. Obviously now for me , it would mean little , but I went out with plenty in my 20s , they were all good.

strateguy632 · Answer

Of course not! She is attractive but knowing about her kid impacts the decision too.

Likes2drive · Answer

It does make it harder for them to find single guys with no kids especially if they have very young children, at my age it doesn’t matter but to young guys it will

RavVid · Answer

No, having filled their biological role they are often more feminine.

Spencer10 · Answer

I judge all women as individuals. I try to avoid making any generalizations.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

The answer to this is obvious. Not in the sense of physical looks, but in the sense of being relationship material, of course. Physical looks attraction and relationship attraction are very separate things

Jersey2 · Answer

No. Just problematic and complicated. No guy wants to take care of someone else's family.

MrChinaski · Answer

I figure a divorcee having low expectations can only work in my favour. 😊

Anonymous · Answer

When I was younger and dating, single moms played far fewer games, were easy to be with, and were eager to be a pleasing partner in bed.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, but they tend to have unattractive children.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally yes 😜😜  That's not to say some men won't find them hot or find them easy - stress relief / short term fling

CaptainSmartass · Answer

It would depend on the woman and her circumstances. Simples...

Staximus · Answer

I'm not in my teens or twenties anymore, most women my age already have kids

Jerre · Answer

I find them just as attractive as any other woman

Nahid1707 · Answer

What made you ask this? Single moms do exist in dating world yes.

Daytoday79 · Answer

No way, tons of people get divorced for good reasons.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes they’re probably problems

Vegasrunner · Answer

Single moms in general are less attractive

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope I find them more attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on their looks.

Anonymous · Answer

No ,, i already married a single mom.

MidnightRivers · Answer

Not at all

Zionne · Answer

no, not all

Jennz6 · Answer

Do you?

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no they are hot

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