Do men find single moms less attractive?

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Rcw720 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the girl. I know a lot of single moms I'd date in a heart beat others I wouldn't.

zagor · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily physically, but overall, yes, because of the additional baggage.

Anonymous · Answer

As far as entering a relationship with, yes, it doesn't work in your favor. Not because you have a child, but what that means and brings with it. For me, it's very close to a deal breaker (I have to give it serious thought to pursue or not). Why?

1) I don't want to be a father figure to a child that isn't mine. Even if that's not the intention, as time goes on, the child (and me) are likely to become attached, and if the relationship doesn't work out...
Yes, that's always a risk, but it's not one I'm going to take lightly or just jump into.

2) A child will take up a tremendous amount of your time and energy and I wonder what's left for me and the relationship? And I kind of want all your attention also lol. As a single guy, I just want to spend time with you, not you and a child you know? It's just not what I'm looking for and want that's all and I think these are how most guys feel? It's my thoughts and why it's very close to a deal breaker for me.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I do know that single women are attracted to me more than women that don’t have kids...

I don't know why lol but it’s true.

And at my age I have no problem dating a single mom... as long as the guy is completely out of the picture.

Cause if she is meeting up with him on the weekends to hand over or pick up the kids. God knows what he uses as leverage against her... if you know what I mean

DLFisherman · Answer

I find single mothers very attractive. A lot of men especally older can't have children and a woman who has a child/ren is very appealing. To me and other men, its a chance to show the mother how much we love her by loving her child/ren and making a positive difference in this crazy world!

Enpassant · Answer

Some do some dont. There are some guys that see a single mom and think... nope! And then they have a thousand one line excuses of why they wouldn't.
As for myself, I think there is nothing sexier than watching a mom dinner thing. It shows how much of a heart she has and how responsible she is. Also, there is something comforting about a ready made family.

Daylight7550 · Answer

I would always be second to her kids. Easily thrown to the curb. That is not worth my time.

I would be have to play a daddy role as time goes by.

The baby daddy could cause issues and or they could get back together.

She would never tell me the real reason theh broke up.

I would be expected to pay for her children. I'm not spending 20 dollars on diapers for a kid that isn't mine. Just for her dump me later saying her kids come first.

No thanks.

DWornock · Answer

Most young single moms are probably more attractive than the average young single gal, because guys found her attractive enough to fuck. However, single moms have a lot of baggage so they are less desirable unless they are exceptionally better looking than single gals the guys can date.

JeremyT · Answer

No, I found single moms attractive. I actually date a few. But be aware that the men will survey you and your relation with your child. The time you spend with the child, the education, manner etc, and the time you have for the relationship. Single mom are usually very sexually intense.

Anonymous · Answer

I find them, more problematic...

Baby dad gone for reason and most likely not that one she will tell me.

Baby daddy will show up to check-up on his kid...

I will not be allowed to be involved it her kids upbringing, disciplining, even after 10 years together.

I will be expected to pay for her kid, even I have nothing to do with him/ her...

It is easier to avoid them.

BeMuse · Answer

Generally unless they are a single dad/divorced thus are wearing the same shoes or they’re into some weird shit (i. e. pedophile)...

Capnjaques · Answer

I'm actually more attracted to single moms, but only if they take care of their children properly. You can learn a lot about a person by that.

Ripper_E · Answer

No. Her being a single mom has nothing to do with whether or not I find her attractive. Dating and committing, however, is different.

Avicenna · Answer

Honestly, yes, and the baggage they bring with them is too much to expect most guys to deal with.

oncpl · Answer

I like single mom. One of my ex gfs was single mom, hence very experienced, open, bit sex starved, so she gave me excellent pleasure.

cossidilla · Answer

No it's just a little more difficult to get around that that's not my kid but ok. It will get better in time

jss123 · Answer

No. But I've had someone tell me her 21 year old son took precedence over me even after we got married. He was married too by the way..

JimboGB · Answer

Yes, that is profoundly true. That is one reason why the institution of marriage is so important.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I happen to like single moms, just depends if I find her attractive and if her kids like me.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Single Moms are invisible to me...

Anonymous · Answer

i just couldnt do a single mom, its too much baggage

UncleBumbleF_K · Answer

Some do and some don't.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Single mothers are not worth a mans time.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

not really, open to date single moms too :)

scooogy · Answer

I think it depends on the kids

bigcountry330 · Answer

Fuck no

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Not particularly no

Rc1990 · Answer

Not at all

adidas0169 · Answer

hasn't bothered me

dudeinohio · Answer

no i do not

Tyffen · Answer

Yeah

KatoMagnus · Answer

Yeah. Obviously.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.

bigd480 · Answer

They are fucking hot

kavein11 · Answer

Not at all

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