Polls: Guy's Behavior

There is a guy who is like a friend and I think I might have a tiny crush on him and at times his behaviour reflects it too , I mean , he sends me memes when I get busy and stop talking to him. He lives in a different state and we don't meet often but when we do. I get a vibe that he is into me. He is into dark humour and I am not a big fan of it. I am confused whether his hiding his story from me is bcz he puts dark memes or stuff in his insta stories and doesn't want me to see it , thinking I'll judge him.. or He is not into me at all and Its because I am not that close or important to him and he finds me judgmental and uncool. Frankly I am cool person I just don't enjoy memes on sensitive and problematic issues. :'(

Guys' opinion is welcome.. At first he pursued me, flirted, I reciprocated and he suggested to go out. I said yes but he never made plans. Then he started playing games, when I ignored his message once he said 'you never liked me'. When he was transferring money to me he said it was 'for coffee'. I thought he was just playing me so I started treating him like he doesn't exist. He tried to talk to me and stared A LOT then but I ignored him. Then on social media he would post 'don't trust people who don't reply' or 'people don't know what they have until they lose it'. I thought it may've been directed to me. After holidays when there was no contact between us I decided to ask him out. He didn't reply but he started staring again and wanted my attention. We started talking again. He messaged me for weeks, was flirty in messages, sent me hearts and hugs, always texted first and a lot but avoided me irl. He stopped initiating physical contact though (at first he was also physical). He would kind of avoid me or run away from me, avoided eye contact too. He honestly seemed frightened of me. Recently he suggested that we meet but with my friend invited too (he didn't flirt with her but me all that time). I confronted him, asked if he's even interested, added that I don't like texting, told him either we hang out or to leave me alone. He said he was sorry for not organizing a meeting and said he wants to continue our relationship, and said I shouldn't be negative and overreact and that I can always tell him anything I want face to face. I replied to tell me when he's free. No response but he still wanted to talk to me in person. In total I asked him out like FOUR times already. Now he ignores me. Doesn't text anymore but is very nice in person. What's going on? Why is he doing this to me? At first he chased me a lot and now it's like a different person.

I am petite with small boobs and a bigger bum. He had only been with the opposite body type to me before. I am slim but not really skinny.

He said years ago he likes bigger boobs moving but then recently siad he doesn’t care for that and doesn’t remember saying it

He told me he loves my small boobs and they are easily the ever hee seen in person. He said they barely move during sex

Then recently he has said he doesn’t care for boobs.

He has always said he’s a bum guy.

But is it true does he really not care for boobs?

He didn’t come up when he said he would and was out the night before. He got a new Instagram follower.

Messaged me the next day saying he didn’t do anything but randomly doesn’t trust me, doesn’t think I tell him the truth

Then later on seemed game to sleep with me the following day.

Hee stopped going to the gym at his usual time so makes me think he’s with someone else

And the out of the blue saying I’m paranoid and worried all the time because I’m doing what I ask him if he is.

So the Instagram follower, the lying about going out, ignoring me all the next day because he was “pissed off at me” then saying he doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m doing what I ask him if he is and not going to the gym at the certain time anymore.

Does this seem like he has someone or I’ve overthought. He said he didn’t but also said he didn’t go out

He went out on sat and got a new Instagram follower. I know he didn’t sleep with a girl that night. He was meant to come over Saturday but used the excuse I annoyed him and he was too pissed off. He did leave in a mood

But on Monday and Tuesday he always goes to the gym with his friend and he wasn’t there. Was he away seeing whoever from sat

He keeps swearing to me he’s not talking to anyone from sat. He does massively struggle to get female attention but he is willing to settle.

He then was supposed to come up last night and said I’d pissed him off so never did. Then never went to the gym again

Is he away seeing someone or am I overthinking. He does go see his friends outside of the friend he goes to the gym with but he always makes time for the gym. His friend does occasionally not post him in the gym photos but he recorded himself so he wasn’t here. He does go to his friends band practice a lot too but why say yoyll come over if you were doing that?

Been talking to a guy on and off I usually get him whatever but I never asked him for anytbing but want be sure I’m not being manipulated or maybe he the type to only do it in relationships? And yes he asked me out before but I wasn’t ready I was dealing with family stuff..

I was chatting to a colleague and he asked what I was doing on my day off.

I told him that I was going to a hair and makeup trial. He asked me why.

I said, “because I need to look beautiful on my big day”

And he said, “Why don’t you just do it yourself then?”

Then we had a moment of just staring at each other haha

Is this good or bad

what would u respond

Someone posted this quote on their social media

What does he mean by it?
Why would he post that?

It suck. I think that women look very good with curly hair but most of them straighten their hair because of society beauty standard