Would a man fall in love with any beautiful girl as soon as he sees her?

[Anonymous]

Yes men are visual

No it is just lust

A total of 96 votes were cast: 38 girls and 58 guys. See detailed results

[YourExLover69]

It doesn't work that way for me.

I might find her attractive but for falling in love I need to know about behavior, personality of a girl. If she is kind, loyal, caring, friendly, educated, listener, not shallow, takes care of herself, talkative with me then she is my type I'd fall for that kind of girl.

[SirJohn42]

Agreed. No guys dont fall in love right away. I Think maybe crush first. Some lust first.
We are visual yes. But untell we get to know her no its not love.

[Pohjolan]

At that point it may be a crush but not yet love but for some young men it seems like love because a crush is as far as they have gone in this regard.

[Miristheiss]

No. He can be crazy about her beauty and totally mesmerized but it isn't love.

How can it be? He knows nothing about her.

For example,

Let's say a guy is really anti gun, really pro abortion, pro-sexual liberation, he hates guns and will never want one in his home, he is kinky and into threesomes and wants a girl that is experienced and wild and ready to do all of these kinks sexually, he loves to drink and go to clubs all the time, he is a thrill seeker and loves to rock climb, parachute , he wants no kids, he wants a wife that works and makes as much as him.

Then this beauty that took his breath away turns out to be traditional and a virgin and saving sex for marriage, she wants to be a stay at home mom, she is pro life, she is pro gun and pro 2nd Amendment, she is totally against threesomes, she doesn't like clubs and loves to make a home cooked meal and watch a movie and cuddle and to take walks together, she wants at least 2 kids, maybe 3.

Or the vice versa he is more traditional and conservative and she is super leftist?

If you know nothing about a person you can't know if you have similar core values, if you like each other at all, if you have anything in common.

She looks beautiful and is sexy. That's all he knows. He'll make up some imaginary personality and assume she'll be wonderful and they'll click but until he actually hangs around her and gets to know her he doesn't really know anything except the sex must be amazing with a body like that!. ZERO love, just infatuation and lust.

[Valso]

That's not how it works, at least not for me anyway. Sure, it starts with the visuals but if she turns out to be a bi7ch/bully to everyone and sees herself as the queen of the planet - not a chance. Between that beautiful bi7ch and a less beautiful but kind girl, I'll try my chances with the less beautiful one.

[Asker]

But it is also true that you will first give a chance to that beautiful girl because she is beautiful and then leave her after looking at her personality. But an average looking girl is rejected just by looking, she is not even given a chance.

[Valso]

Not necessarily. If she's the type I call "plastic doll" (tons of makeup that you can see and smell from a mile away), I won't even bother with her and look for a girl with natural beauty that doesn't use makeup.

[Anonymous]

No, there's more involved. I see plenty of physically beautiful women that don't appeal to me, usually because they give off a vibe I don't like. Yes, men are visual, but we care about more than looks.

[Asker]

I wish i could select your answer as MHO but i already selected. I think its more about vibes.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, it's the thought that counts.

[BoopBoopBeep]

As a man, I see attractive people every day, I see truly beautiful people at least a couple times a week. I don't fall in love with any of them. I likely wouldn't take time out of my schedule to talk to most of them. Beautiful people are nice. They're not an endangered species though. There's 8 billion people in the world. If one hundredth of one percent of them are beautiful, that's still 8 million.

When I go to a gallery/museum I don't want to steal all the artwork either.

[tzdc21]

They wanna have sex with her the first time they see her but never fall in love. Anyone who tells you otherwise is stupid

[Asker]

True

[CB-Raido-Time]

If that were the case I would have had sex many times over. Speak for yourself.

[tzdc21]

@CB-Raido-Time I'm speaking for a lot of guys. I don't look just for sex. And it doesn't appear you do either. But other guys aren't all the same

[Ms_Facesitter]

Lust. They fall in love with how you look, it doesn't go further than that.

[Asker]

True

[FreyaRed]

Love exists, it's not a matter of looks but mutual addiction. Looks can cause infatuation. It's not love, just a temporary obsession.

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the man. It’s hard to be in love with someone you don’t know. Is it possible? Yes.


All men are different. I’m visual in ways but it takes more then that to want the be with someone.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, not anymore. Because we're older now, so we know how women are. So we're skeptical of them, and it's harder to fall in love.

Now, if you're talking about a young boy? Then Yes, he can definitely fall in love at first sight!

[strateguy632]

no and yes, not "any pretty" but sometimes "at first sight" then love not lust. and "any" is only good looking neither "visual love nor lust". see dictionary "lust".

[Venymal]

Men don’t fall in love with a girl just because she’s beautiful. There are many girls that I think look beautiful but I’m not attracted to them, let alone love them.

[VikingWarLord]

Beta Male simps fall in love with anything, even overweight women or average women.

The desperation in the West is ironically created by they themselves.

[alina177]

You are beta.

[VikingWarLord]

@alina177 You are obese

[alina177]

Not easily offended like a beta male

[Anonymous]

Only young stupid guys ruled by thier hormones. 😆

[MountAverage]

Are you being for real? So by that logic, we men all constantly fall in love with dozens of women every single day. Umm, right. Totally not an insane thing to think.

[sheikalana]

That's not exactly called love that's called attraction.

[dudeinohio]

I don't. I need to talk to this person and get a feel for her personality.

[gag37627]

Perhaps with a cute, innocent girl. But with hot girl it is just lust

[CB-Raido-Time]

Not necessarily she could be beautiful yet be missing the pull that draws to her no interest.

[Anonymous]

I doubt it. especially if she is beautiful and not rich.. its turn off. many men are actually spoiled by sugar mamas. Thus go figure what they are really into. beautiful doesn't guarantee money nor sex.

[JonesT10Apr]

yes men can get attracted very quickly and have infatuation and crush immediately

[brandon1122]

That's not love, that's lust

[inhua]

for simps yes

for non-simps no

[BoobMan]

That'd be lust!

[Anonymous]

If its off looks alone

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That’s a Shakespeare reference

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[Luckycharms12]

No lust