Can shy guys be players?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Anyone with options can decide to cheat or play games.
But even if he don't mean to play games his vague nature can trigger assumptions of his intentions, so he can unintentionally play with peoples emotions or move on to the next because what he meant was not reflected in his subtle actions.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Don't be silly. Shy guys can't do much of anything.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Really anyone can be... my dad is super shy but when he drinks he is a whole different person and is whorey as fuck lol
Where as my husband was really out going and friendly but actually doesn't really like people and he never cheated..

Haha456 · Accepted Answer

"player" is just a nice name for sexual predator. A man who lies, deceives, cheats his way into a girl's pants...

do you really want to marry a guy like that have someone like him be a mentor to your own son?

nitsuj86 · Answer

I have always been a bit more introverted/shy and nerdy. I didn't have a lot going for me from a women's perspective when I was younger. I didn't really start having success with women until my 30s, when I grew into myself. But I had a bit of a "player" faze for a few years. So I would say it's possible.

I think the main 2 things that changed my luck with women...

1. Got a better job. Tired of women looking down on me for having roommates. Money is the most important when dating as a man in his 30s. I got a job that made a lot more money and sounded important. Went on a few trips out of the country and got some pics. Suddenly I was getting a lot more dates/interest.

2. I started not giving a fuck about what women thought of me. It sounds bad, but a lot of women treated me like shit when I was younger. The stuff I hear them complain about men doing, they do it too, they just hide it and make excuses. They are no better than men, just think they are. Once I caught on to this, and really started viewing women more as children, sorry but in dating it's true. They ate that shit up. I don't get it.

Get money, and treat women like you are better than them, they will be lining up to date and marry you. It really is crazy.

That being said. I found a nice, respectful woman that was worth taking care of. Treat the hoes like hoes, and find a good girl to wife up.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Anyone can be a player, shy or not. You just have to know what you're doing and have a little confidence.  BEING PLAYED

Anjoomkabir · Answer

Yes especially when they're not used to female attention. And you'd be surprised how much more attention shy guys get when women see that they're taken.

Genie23 · Answer

@EmmaMary Like she said there's some of the worse ones it's just because they're so good at hiding things and pretending to be this nervous/less confident timid person who would be happy if a girl shows interest, hell be hers happily

Shy_Steve · Answer

How can Shy Guys be Players, It's pretty much impossible.

If a Guy is too Shy to talk to a Girl how can He be a Player, That's a Contradiction.

The definition of Shy pretty much is someone who is afraid of Approaching and talking to People especially the opposite Sex so he is either a Player or a Shy Guy, He can't be both at the same time.

That's just Ridiculous.

EmmaMary · Answer

They have been known to be some of the worse!

melanieeeB · Answer

Of course, they're playing the game just a little differently but still everyone can manipulate you, gaslight you and so on

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sure, they just play the game differently.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Ofc. My second ex was just like that - shy. But he wasn’t shy in playing me and another girl. 😑

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

It is always the quiet ones you never expect. Still waters run deep.

OracleCassandra · Answer

I guess. But I've yet to see it happen. Maybe if it was someone FAKING being shy? I don't know.

sage2021 · Answer

Definitely! Just because he's seeing you doesn't mean he's not having sex with two women.

nolabels · Answer

When he finds out that he can be, he can. Until then, nah.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

From experience, YES.  The ex that was sooooooo shy did me the dirtiest out of all my exes lol.

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah it’s possible. If a guy sleeps around a lot and you’re aware of it. Best to avoid him

MementoMori777 · Answer

I doubt it and that's good, it's why shy girls catch my attention, well it's one of the reasons

linka_pat307 · Answer

Of course because being shy isn't a true personality.. Because I can be shy with people but with my mind

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

For the last time ladies... Even if the guy is mad ugly... You're never safe xD

FootfetishistBoy · Answer

Probably. But maybe shy guys Gets too 'honest' even if they set themselves into player mode.

Anonymous · Answer

No. But it might SEEM that way to a woman if they don't understand the nature of the guy because she only really thinking about her and not really him.

Andres77 · Answer

not really. we're more surprised than you are that anything happens. we're just happy to be there

Sparkie460 · Answer

It's highly unlikely that a shy guy would be a player

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Any guy can be a player if he's good looking.

Iron_Man · Answer

Probably once they come out of their shyness

mommymommymommy · Answer

Anyone can be a player, just, shyer ones are LESS LIKELY to be

OG956 · Answer

Anyone can be, but not everyone is (and I say this even tho I'm scared to have someone, cause I don't want to burn myself again).

nawtee_me · Answer

Pretending to be shy is a good way to have a girl do for you….

Jltakk · Answer

I doubt they have the social game required to pull it off to be honest.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Shy guys are the biggest players

Justaguyagain · Answer

I'm a minecraft player if that's what you mean

007kingifrit · Answer

i don't see how or he wouldn't be shy?

Christoff92 · Answer

Depending on their attitudes 😀

SoJust · Answer

Nope, I dont shy

TrillXHippy · Answer

Can I be a player? No I can’t

Pohjolan · Answer

Well not very good players.

alearningboy · Answer

Yes they can be players too but shy is shy like me

Fuentes · Answer

They can be

JonesT10Apr · Answer

yes they could

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