My boyfriend and I been together 3 almost 4 years. I’ll admit I am a nag and require a lot of attention. I’ve been trying to back off and not be too much, and it seemed to help us and I’ve been trying to get over my insecurities. I saw him yesterday and we had a good time and laughed made dinner together. Asked him if he loved me and he said yes and got a little annoyed when I asked a lot. Today I was busy hanging out with my pal and I called him to say I was all done and I asked if he missed me and he said “ no I just saw you yesterday” should I be offended I hung up. also my boyfriend has been not an emotion full guy and he doesn’t like to get into full feelings. I am the opposite and I love to say how I feel (I miss you etc love you) he’s not into that
I’m hurt by what my boyfriend has been doing lately?
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If you have insecurities, you need to work on them and talk about it openly with your boyfriend if you want to keep the relationship going. When he said, "I just saw you yesterday" that tells me that he is not getting enough space. Feeling smothered is a turn-off in a relationship. That was one of the reasons I broke up with my ex-girlfriend because she could not respect my boundaries and didn't give me enough alone time. You should supplement his life, not hinder it or be a burden or annoyance. It's the same the other way around as well. Try asking him how much alone time he needs and respect it. Ask him why he is not emotionally involved and fix it together. If you are unable to have this conversation with your boyfriend then you may need to break up.
You’ve been together almost 4 years? This is the sort of thing that becomes clear within the first year for most people. I’m not sure why you’re still together if you’re not emotionally compatible. Seems like a lost cause relationship.
Good lord I feel sorry for your boyfriend. No wonder he is annoyed.