I broke up with my ex boyfriend back in May because he was cheating on me for the past 4 months of us together. We were about to make a year. He treated me horrible and I let him get away with so much. Pretty much all of this is my fault because he had many red flags that Ignored because I liked him so much. During the first part of me and my ex relationship, we both agreed to be honest with each other especially if we started seeing someone else to let each other know. He went beyond that. He had an emotional relationship behind my back with a girl for months, slept with both her and me unprotected and even had nude pics of me on his phone i had no idea about. It has caused trauma to the point im afraid to trust another man. I had a long talk with an older friend who has been through it all who I get advice from. He told me be careful who you trust and that's all I've been doing.
I've been healing since and have met a new man. The more I'm around him the more I forget about my ex. His personality and looks is an upgrade from my ex. He's so into me and I'm falling for him but im afraid to trust him. I'm already making mistakes such as questioning his behavior and asking if he is trying to play me. He thinks im not over my ex from my actions and has reassured me that not everyone is my ex. And that he has not come into my life with bad intentions. I haven't talked about my ex to him at all unless he brings it up. I believe im over my ex, i dont have any romantic feelings for him but I am still hurt by everything he did. I honestly do like this new guy and feel like im going to screw up but I can't get rid of the feeling he's going to hurt me next. Need some advice.
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He is feeling like the rebound guy which means, most of the time, that he will start looking for an out.