My boyfriend always makes fun of me and when ever im upset or "overeact" he immediately says im on my period I want this to work out please help?

[Anonymous]

I've been with this guy over a year. He's a good guy i know it but im just at a loss of what to do. He's so immature and he's 28 he pressures me to get my license which i understand i need to get I've got a driving instructor now so im reaching my goal but has absolutely no patience for me when it comes to geting my license he thinks i can just get it over night but i feel more comfortable going through the course (im 23 by the way) im striving to get driving but when scheduling drives i can only do one driving session per week. And that set him off immediately "so im not going to see you for 6 weeks" ( he lives a hour away) i told him no I'll be doing it every other week so i could see him. And then got even more pissed that im gonna spend two months to learn how to drive. He continued to be angry about how i was setting up my drives. But now he says i just need to get it done all in one go and when i said no. I want to do it this way. He then basically called me dumb. I got upset after that and he said "damn ur period must of hit like a truck today I don't know why ur so enraged " not only that he's made fun of my weight mutiple times even though I've told him to stop (goes the same for his other "jokes" about me) im trying to get into fitness im not overweight for my age but he wants me to stay in shape so i get that he's a gym freak. The list just goes on. The one "bit" as he likes to call them that finally sorta stoped is him telling me im gonna go to hell because of my "sex life" with him which makes me so upset. God i just wish he'd understand that he does hurt me but apparently says this stuff because he cares? I dont get it i just want this to work out i need advice how do i calmy approuch his comments about me.

[Christoff92]

He's having a bit of ego on him. Assuming family oppression in always being let down. So taking his frustration on you because what was given on to him is very hurtful indeed. This is very b*littering and oppressing.

Maybe sit down with him. Talk to him about things which he never got in life. Things that bothered him growing up. What's given him anger and grief so on. Fighting and debating with him ain't going to solve anything unless you talk with him about his issue especially with Families. Another thing to is perfectionism. Everybody would practice this if they see this as an idea from others

Then they'll believe they're everything when deep down inside are really b*littering themselves. So give it a shot ok 😉

[Iron_Man]

Tell him your feelings, talk it out work it out

[slatyb]

Dump him. This is the opposite of love.

[Anonymous]

Do not tolerate verbal abuse. Leave

[In_Trance]

I think you need to make a decision

[Nominal]

He is childish.