he used to date very plain looking, not very outgoing or fun women. women who never wanted to do anything and had children. I have his email password because I use his email for ebay and paypal, and one day I got nosy and looked at old messages. he was very loving and not at all sexual, more family oriented. he constantly talked about their children and how he wanted to be the dad, etc...and was very romantic and giving...telling one girl he would give her 2 grand because she asked! he wanted to steel down and get married and be a stepfather to two of the women's children he saw before me.
now suddenly...he is all sexual toward me...doesn't ever speak about family or marriage. in fact he told me "i don't want to get married now...maybe in the future". what did I do wrong? we have been together for 8 months...and he brought up marriage and being there for their children RIGHT AWAY...but nothing with me. should I make myself more plain and not try?i want him to think of me as a motherly/wife woman than a very attractive girlfriend. he treats me too sexually...not lovey enough...what should I do? why would he be so into being someone else's kids father (three kids) than have his own with me?
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