Girls, what do you think about guys who don't work out?

[Anonymous]

Like younger guys 18-25? I think guys who don't workout have no business trying to approach beautiful women who workout.

Sure, I'd date them

No, I like a guys who's fit

i'd date a skinny guys who doesn't workout over a fit guy who worksout

It depends; Explain.

[Snow-Wolf18]

I don't mind it. It's nice to be fit for health reasons but most people do it purely for how it looks. Not dating someone just because they're not completely toned seems a bit shallow to me, especially if you like them as a person and in all other regards. Not only that, working out doesn't necessarily make someone more attractive. Their body may look nice, but it doesn't change the way their faces look nor their personality. Some guys are also naturally lean and don't need to work out to stay that way. A guy working out is a nice bonus, but it's not everything to me.

[Asker]

Working out always makes someone more attractive.

[GoldenSunshine]

I don't agree that it always makes someone more attractive. I find bodybuilder men very unattractive

[Asker]

Im not talking about body builders. People who never did a pushup in their lives typically think anything associated with working out = bodybuilder/steroid look. Im talking about athletic men.

[MaskedSanity]

"Guys who work out" is a very broad spectrum. There are obese men, who work out and then there's skinny guys that do as well.

I think you're referring to guys that are physically fit and muscular.

To answer your question, yes - I would date a skinny bloke and I am. We've been together for nearly 3 years and he's only started properly working out a few months ago. Did I pressure him? Nope, entirety his choice. His skinniness did not affect my attraction to him in any bad way. :P

I can date a skinny dude and a fit dude, but not an obese one.

[lostcause23]

As long as you're healthy it shouldn't matter. Girls workout to feel good about themselves, and if a guy doesn't work out that's his choice. Often times guys that dedicate their lives to working out and bulking aren't the best to date, that's just a generalization from person experience. Girls aren't always shallow.

[Asker]

so you think a skinny guy is just as attractive as a fit guy who works out?

[lostcause23]

Ya! Body doesn't matter.

[Asker]

straight lie

[ASOIAF]

I wouldn't say a guy has to work out, but he better have something else to offer (ie good looking and tall or very rich) or he won't be attracting any decent women.

[ASOIAF]

I warn you though, people here are quite delusional and like to pretend looks don't matter, probably because most of them look like shit, want to sound less shallow than they are and can't face reality.

[Asker]

exactly.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't approach "beautiful women who workout" if they were the last women on earth. Not my type. Six-packs on a woman make me cringe.

[Opinion Owner]

They tend to have bad attitudes from what I've seen, anyways.

[Asker]

Im not talking about bodybuilding women, but atheltic women, toned. Like a soccer or volleyball player.

[Opinion Owner]

That's who I'm talking about.

[Opinion Owner]

I like curves. Low body-fat is not a look that I find appealing in women.

[Opinion Owner]

And any woman who refuses to date a guy because he doesn't work out is just as shallow as a man who refuses to date a woman for not looking like a supermodel.

[Asker]

You never seen volleyball players? Their curvy as hell.

[Opinion Owner]

The only ones I've seen are skinny and muscular. That ain't curvy to me. Curvy is voluptuous. Large chest and big hips. Women who work out religiously aren't going to have that.

[Asker]

Your trippin dude. you probably just mad because your fat or something, but the soccer players and volleyball players i see are thick as hell.

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[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, all butt and no boobs.

[Asker]

boobs are for pubescent white boys.

[Opinion Owner]

And we have a racist here, ladies and gentlemen... :)

[Cruz_]

not racist lol just a joke don't be so sensitive

[GoldenSunshine]

I really don't care. But I'd prefer my guy to stay healthy because I care about him :) That doesn't necessarily mean that I want him to have a sixpack and biceps bigger than my thighs :P
What is a turn-off though is a guy (or girl) who only works out for their looks.

[Asker]

working out is never a turnoff. Being fat is a turnoff.

[GoldenSunshine]

Then we disagree :) I've been in love with skinny guys, chubby guys and athletic guys and I wouldn't want them any other way. Attractiveness lies in the eyes of the beholder ;)

[Asker]

Its probably because your easy. You've been "in love" with all these guys. Irregardless, chubbiness is not attractive.

[GoldenSunshine]

If I'm "easy" for letting love into my life and not being shallow I'm totally easy :)

[Asker]

More like getting a cheap sense of self-validation from being in a relationship in order to blanket your low self-esteem.

[GoldenSunshine]

I don't have low self-esteem, I actually feel very good and love my life, but thanks for caring :)

[Asker]

if you "loved" all these guys, the how much is your "love" even worth? More like infatuation. Empty.

[GoldenSunshine]

Actually I said "in love" and not "love". Check up synonyms for "in love". You might learn something new, for exampe that infatuation, a crush and in love can mean the same thing :) If it's easier for you to understand the word "crush" that's what I meant. Actually I've only truly loved one person in my life, and he's called my beautiful and caring boyfriend :)

[GoldenSunshine]

Either way it's attraction, and that's what your question is about, right?

[Asker]

Yes it is what the question is about. Anyhow, a fit guy will always pull more chicks than your bf. And once again, if the only person you've ever loved in your life is your bf and not your parents, friends, family, then i really have no idea what to say to you.

[GoldenSunshine]

I don't remember saying that my boyfriend isn't fit? But either way he's the most perfect guy to me so I don't care :) And why would I want my boyfriend to have several chicks running after him? lol
I meant the only loveinterest I've really loved if that makes it easier for you to understand, you're not very good at reading between the lines :)

[Asker]

No, its just that im not good at reading vague sentences. But i said several times that your bf isn't fit. he's probably one of those niggas that try and act white.

[GoldenSunshine]

You never answered my second question. Don't bother anyway because I don't have time for racists

[Anonymous]

if you don't work out then why chase after women who do? it's just hypocritical and self entitled to constantly try for girls above your league. I mean we all see the appeal of someone with a nice fit body, however if you yourself don't even want to put forth the effort to attain one, then why not go for a woman with the female equivalent of a body like yours? so if you are out of shape then date a girl who is. if you are skinny and frail then why not find a girl who isn't toned and is frail?

[Asker]

Thats what i be telling these guys. But these girls seem to always be going for these skinny or chubby dudes. Even if the female is above the guys league. I think women do this because their insecure and want a guy who doesn't look as good so they can feel better. They dont have the self esteem to date a guy who works out.

[Teneray]

I like a guy who is naturally fit and has muscles by nature without working out. A guy who does work out is probably a metrosexual and I dont lke metrosexuales.

[Asker]

No such thing as "naturally" fit.

[Teneray]

Sure! Black guys XD

[Asker]

we workout, its not natural.

[Teneray]

My boyfriend doesn't and he is fit...

[Asker]

Trust me, he is not fit. He may be fit and impressive to you because youve never been a athlete before and don't know what "fit" is. He's not fit, quit trying to blow that nigga up.

[Teneray]

XD Well I guess what you consider being fit now. I love his body and I wouldn't like him to change. I like real natural bodies, workin out makes them seem unnatural in my opinion, so if a guy doesn't work out, I dont really care.

[Asker]

you couldnt get a guy who does workout to look your way.

[Teneray]

i suppose we all have preferences. you like to workout and be fit even more and you like girls who also workout. i dont workout and i dont care if a guy does it or doesnt. i dont like narcissists, and in my experience the majority of guys who do it are. i would feel like i'm in a relationship with that guy a saw on YouTube that is obsessed with making his poor wife to be fit and i think he would put to much pressure to everybody around him to eat healthy and to work out. i would be like please, let me eat and have a little bit of fat. those may be prejudices, but guys like that in general dont attract me because the first thing i think is that theyre narcissists

[Asker]

So guys who workout are narcissist? Thats the best you got?

[twigsducks]

kind of the same way I feel about girls who don't wear makeup: some can pull it off and still look good, but the vast majority benefit greatly from it. :-)

[Maazin]

Its proven working out makes you look good in some way or the other.

[Asker]

It definitely does.

[LastGirlScout]

No business approaching pretty women? I don't think it's any of your business what these people do, shall we start letting them dictate how you should live your life?

[Anonymous]

If he's always the gym then no, but if he goes now and then then yes cause i love a guy who is fit. Id rather dates guys who are athletic and fit rather than a bit chubby or average guys.

[Asker]

whats "always in the gym"?

[Opinion Owner]

As in if he goes pratically all the time not doung anything else apart from working out

[Asker]

I rather be in the gym than always sitting on my ass watching netflix.

[PYTcassiaxo]

I prefer either or skinny or fit or a little cubby. Tbh I'm not attracted to fat dudes lol.

[Cyhhgg]

Lol

Good thing your opinion means shit to me. Lmfao!

I have no business... motherfucker, get with reality and stop sucking down the protein drinks. Shits fucked up your brain. Lol

[Mgoods]

Can't be with someone that's always at the gym.

[Asker]

Im talking about fit people. Why does everybody feel insecure all of the sudden anytime people talk about fitness? Like people want to take a cheap jab and be like "oh i can't be with someone whos ALWAYS in the gym" as if its a choice of either you don't workout at all, or your ALWAYS in the gym, like there is no middle. Dont be mad because people who go to the gym look better, just join us and quit hatin'. Shit.

[Mgoods]

I'm not hating. It's not a cheap jab. My body is awesome.
I'm a lazy person. I've realised from experience, I want to be with someone like me. It's that's simple. Kudos to you gym bodies, I have no issue with that. You shouldn't assume, love.

[YannaBanana]

I don't mind as long as he's healthy. :>