Guys, do you like fat girls?

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I don't like fat girls. I like my girls skinny or average weight.

Guys do you like fat girls?

MaskedSanity · Accepted Answer

Well, from the way the question is worded it would appear you're asking mostly what guys think. But since you have not enabled gender filtering, I'll go ahead and chunk my 2 cents in.

I don't like fat guys either. I just can't bring myself to be with someone I find physically repulsive. There would be no sex and I'd be pretty miserable.
It's one thing to have a slight chub on them, but when they are just fat, I'm instantly turned off.

That being said, I don't think there's anything wrong with your preference as I imagine you have a similar outlook to my own in terms of physical attraction. Can't be with someone you're not physically attracted to and that's completely understandable.

But of course people are gonna call you out on your hypocrisy and I personally agree. If you don't hold yourself to the same standards you expect from others, nobody is going to be particularly impressed.

It's not your preference that's the issue here, it's the character behind it.

shesAcylon · Accepted Answer

I think its great you know what you like. I don't have a preference. I am fat and my SO loves me. I love me. You know what you like so that takes some edge off the search for the right one. Not sure why so many people took this as a opportunity to tell you about your looks. I have seen couples of all sorts. Skinny girl with fat man, fit guy with curvy girl, ugly with gorgeous. If that is what makes them happy then I am glad they found it as I hope you find your lady one day and she fits the mold you have made for her

olala · Accepted Answer

LET'S BURN ALL THE FREAKING WEIGHING SCALES. I LOVE YOU ALL.

Kabloosh75 · Accepted Answer

I'm thin and pretty athletic looking so I prefer girls I date to be in similar physical condition.
That doesn't mean I'll completely rule out an charming semi overweight girl. If she's a blimp well that's a 100% no go.
How you take care of your body tells quite a bit about yourself actually. Yeah there are people that have an legitimate disability but they are few and far between. Most obese people are like that because they are lazy or have a reckless diet... Or usually a combination of both. I understand the difficulties of getting to the gym or doing some exercise a few days a week when you work so much. I get it, but I do it anyways. I was in the military it was part of the job and I had to work out after work.
So to me it matters how you look. It is a reflection of your personality and how much you respect yourself. So get out there and get fit and don't get pussed of I don't find you attractive because you're 80 pounds heavier than me yet I'm 3 inches taller than you.

DaveyYourFavey · Accepted Answer

I dont like your options.

I like my girls curvy (which is not fat btw)

Wide hips, narrow waist, big boobs, hourglass figure and a little "thickness".

I don't like skinny girls :/ Women like VS models don't appeal to me at all...

I just love curvy women :)

mutedaisy · Answer

To you and your pug-tacular self I say

HeatherJaney · Answer

People need to calm down. I know fat women who want 6ft ripped men. This fat guy wants a thin girl. It's all preferences.

Personally I like fit/normal weight guys. (I'd say average but that is overweight now and I don't like fat guys.)

Again preferences are allowed even if considered hypocritical but I'm a fit girl into fit guys.

tmac725 · Answer

Not to be a dick but you really shouldn't be so judgmental pal. We all know what people are gonna say. Healthy is what's important and there's people everywhere who struggle with their weight, have a little more respect when you pose questions like this.

lanternhill · Answer

I don't think people understand that saying "it's a preference - is he a hypocrite for liking girls with x criterion that he doesn't have?" is faulty logic. The issue is that this question implies that being fat is bad (or that being thin is better) (whereas skin color for instance is not bad) - and people saying he should be thinner are saying that you should be "as good" as what you want.

I don't care if he's big and likes skinny girls as long as he doesn't bash on bigger people. I also don't think being above a certain weight is healthy, and therefore yes they should get thinner and/or whatever healthy looks like on them, but it's not ok to say that someone is less as a partner just because they're not tiny. (Obviously sexual attraction needs to be there - I'm just saying that *with that established*, people need to stop hating on those who aren't a size 0 but are still healthy. As for those who aren't considered attractive due to weight, keep working at your health.)

lanagirl · Answer

Hmm I understand that you can have preferences. I mean, that's probably something you can't change. But the average woman in the United States is overweight so if you only like slim gals it's really going to decrease your potential dating pool. Maybe you could try to give a chubbier girl a chance. If you're able to look past her weight, you may find you like her for other reasons! A lot of my friends, including myself, aren't what you'd consider slim. But we can be as great as any skinnier girls! Maybe try and focus less on appearance in the beginning, so you can really get to know people.

Scrambled · Answer

What I don't get about the women comments on this thread, is that they all say "who are you to choose?", "have you taken a look in the mirror?", basically who are you asker to judge? the irony being that you have standards, you being confident etc, which attracts girls;) Then when I try explore the ugliness factor in my questions below, some women fight to the death that its not about looks. Dude, have your preferences and be merry, who gives a fuck about others opinions anyway.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1333877-has-anyone-embraced-their-ugliness-or-social-ineptness-no-it-s

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1381487-they-say-you-shouldn-t-just-settle-for-any-women-or-guy-but-i-have

Snorkasaurus · Answer

Whoa. He just said "I don't like fat girls." Why all the hate? I have a somewhat low EQ and i really want to know why. Why is what he said considered bashing? Yes i can see in the picture that he is not skinny. But since when is does our body shape should dictate our preference. It's like most of you think that a guy dating a skinny guy is wrong. Why is this?

mistninja314 · Answer

Yup I like any girl with a cute face in general

Consultant · Answer

I'll just put it to ya straight.

Fat acceptance is a huge problem.

People shouldn't be fat.

The only people that are with fat people are fat people.

Just like smoking is a problem, being fat is a problem. It's destroying your body literally, self imposing a host of diseases and failing organs. It's just not worth it.

snowboarder720 · Answer

I've never been attracted to a large woman. I don't hate on them... I just don't prefer them. The reason being is that I love having a very active life. I'm an awesome snowboarder, I skateboard a lot, I love aggressive sports and extreme sports, I hike mountains like a beast, and I love just getting out.
I want a woman who may keep up with me and help push my physical boundaries making me more fit and help me conquer my goals and dreams. I can't do that with a large woman. I have nothing personal against them, and AGAIN I DO NOT HATE ON THEM.

dipta · Answer

Yeah, we were really in dire need of promoting once again the hate against fat people, especially females, and even create a poll with biased options for people to vote on...

We all know that given a choice most men would prefer model like girls (and that's not even counting the girl's shape or proportions) even when they themselves may look like Jabba.
And we all know that's especially true with guys in your age range who don't seem to see women as people i. e. care enough about the girl's personality.
Nothing to see here...

suckclick · Answer

Having a healthy lifestyle is the most important thing. Eating healthy, exercising, no mental baggage or problems like depression is the most important thing. A healthy lifestyle leads to aging with grace.

I'm most attracted to girls who take good care of themselves with a hip-waist-bust ratio of about 0.70. Even if they body type is a bit on the chub side it's still OK if they are overall healthy. A skinny-fat girl is a turn off. Someone who eats a lot, is unhealthy and still skinny... Their bodies are typically toxic inside... A total turn off once you get to know them.

Also many people who are overty fat or over eat often have mild depression which I'd rather not deal with. Just take the caloric intake you need and move on to other enjoyable activities in life... Hahaha

Kris85 · Answer

It's ok to have preferences but don't be surprised or pissed off. when a thinner girl doesn't want to date you because HER preferences are fit or thinner guys.

PureBliss · Answer

This is honestly just his own personal preference and no one should be getting mad about or offended by it. If you're offended then you're obviously not happy with yourself. Obviously he's overweight, but your own looks don't play a rule in what you're attracted to. This is stupid though. Really lol what happened to looking past the outer figure and getting to know whats on the inside.

zazada12 · Answer

Lmao... okay?

I really can't even think of a nice way to express my opinion. So I'll just say this

Kinda hypocritical. That's alright. You're into skinny girls, understandable. And reversable. Don't be surprised if a majority of skinny girls don't want overweight guys.

beachgirl1995 · Answer

When was the last time you have looked in the mirror? You would like a skinny girl but you aren't even all that fit yourself. You might want to reconsider your thinking because I don't know any skinny girls who would even consider hooking up with you. Hit the gym, buddy.

baarkmann · Answer

the irony in your comment, you are a close minded one...

Anyway i don't mind her weight, aslong as she isn't ugly.
the face matters the most, if she has a really cute face i will consider regardless whether she's fat or not.

skinny girls may look slightly better, but there are some cute fat girls i would choose over ugly skinny ones.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

A little judgmental aren't we? You're allowed to like what you like, but you aren't the most fit guy at the table. You're idea of fat may not be the same as someone else's. Just thought I'd throw that out there.

Kshppatel · Answer

OP I know you don't want to hear this but what gives you the right to judge fat girls when you are fat yourself. Look guy I am fat too but you don't see me saying I don't like fat girls. Having preferences is cool but still.

lollipopfop · Answer

Fat people are costing the country billions in health care dollars, so i don't much like them either. The worst thing is that they keep on trying to make people think it is normal to have rolls of fat, and thighs that get sore from rubbing as they walk! Obviously, that is not what the human body was meant to be. The more we accept fat as being normal, the more people out there decide that they will just pig out and get fat. And I don't mean the kid of food they eat. Its the quantity. You can eat healthy foods, but if you eat too much of them, its still bad for you.

LauraMarx · Answer

I'm a little disappointed that everyone who yelled at you for this bullshit fatphobic question did so in a really fatphobic way :/

SweetTeaGirl · Answer

I like nice people. Whether they fit your ideas of "fat" or "skinny" is completely irrelevant.

Takada · Answer

Is it not ironic that you don't like fat women, but are fat yourself? Anyway, I think women of an average weight are the most aesthetically pleasing.

viviansmommy · Answer

Lol well, I bet I could change your mind. I may be fat but I'm an outstanding, amazing woman. Your loss!

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Well... I mean... you don't look overly fit yourself...

LittleSally · Answer

Most people like average weight people I think. Hilarious of someone who looks like you to say this, though... Haha

DaddyRollingStone · Answer

Its funny and sad that average woman is now overweight and men have to pretend they want a *curvy woman that eats only processed food and doesn't do any exercise.

The majority of men want a thin woman, a lot won't admit it so they dont scare away any of their potential hamplanet dates, because that's how desperate they are.

*fat

Anonymous · Answer

Hmmm...

TheDevilInside · Answer

Here's an advice: Look at yourself in the mirror more?

simplysam_ · Answer

If you like to have your girls skinny or average weight then you my friend have to be the same too !

Polswedgirl · Answer

Being fat/overweight isn't healthy. Neither is being too skinny if you aren't born with that shape.

Anonymous · Answer

Hahahaha. No.

Octavion · Answer

Where's the, "I like healthy weight girls for their build and height so I don't outlive them by 20 years..."?

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone has their own definition of both fat and skinny. What might be average/skinny to you, could be chubby to me - or vise versa. People like what they like, and everyone have the right to hold their future partner to very high (or very low) standards. As long as you know, the more standards you set, the harder it will to find someone, and even someone who also wants you. The few people who are actually those 115lbs, 5'6, extremely beautiful and have large breasts and butt (just an example of course) probably also have very high standards for their partner, standards you probably don't meet unless you're 6'3, ripped and hot as hell.
You can't ever be mad about the girl not wanting you.

Aud_Queen · Answer

You posted this question off anon. You already know what people are going to say.

DaGenius · Answer

There's nothing wrong with a CURVY girl. Not FAT, CURVY. My girl is curvy. And she rocks it well. Honestly that's shallow and hypocritical bc dude you're fat.

justbanANNAz · Answer

this question is repulsive. not a girl's fault that u can't appreciate all forms of beauty.

1-3-2-4 · Answer

I'm involved with a girl who is "big" I take offense to this topic she knows she's big I knew that before we met but we love each other very much and I'd never let anyone talk bad about her she's one of the sweetest girl I've met.

datgirl · Answer

Wow. And have you looked in a mirror recently? You have no right to be so picky.

talldude · Answer

dude look not to be rude or anything but you're a bit chubby yourself i am tall and slim and have dated chubby girls before so don't be a hypocrite please...

astatine · Answer

sheer hypocrisy. are you perfect? then how can you judge a girl based on her weight?

lynneishappi · Answer

Wow I'm feel for you all these comments are negative and about you. I get what you're saying, personally I like any weight as long as its not obese, chubby is cool but not obesely big. I like girls so that's why I commented

Pink2000 · Answer

Ain't that the pot calling the kettle black. You really need to look in the mirror

ImSky · Answer

Everyone has their opinion and everyone's attracted to different things so I don't really get why this is a big deal... I mean there's a bunch of guys that are attracted to bigger women instead of skinnier ones and they aren't bashed like this guy over here.

MissAnna_B · Answer

Pity us as fat girl :(  Nobody want us. I'm going to die now. LOL

Mar1na · Answer

what makes you think that a skinny girl (i mean sexy skinny) would like to date you?

live4love · Answer

Oh look another unoriginal tasteless post inspired to rip apart female body image due to a less than par male thinking he is superior and able to get a stunning woman though he himself is repulsive in character and physicality, yawn typical

ObviouslyBored · Answer

Someone said this once.
"I like girls cause I'm not gay."
Yea... I like him. Lol. No he wasn't saying anything negative about gays, he was just saying his options are open to most women because he isn't gay. Lol.

MrBurger · Answer

I'll be honest and I feel ashamed
I had a very good fat friend girl and we were like lovers
People thought we were dating and shit but to think of her with me I just couldn't because she was fat
I had a great time with her as a friend but not more than that
Im just not attracted to fat girls

Anonymous · Answer

no one does. humans are attracted to healthy humans. it's evolution.

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

Good god all the emotionally charged women who are so easily offended lmao.  No, I don't like fat women. Heck I even tried to bypass that aspect in a girl once. Couldn't do it in the end.

Reginelli · Answer

I don't mind if she is overweight, as long as she carries herself good and is confident, its cool with me.

sean1234 · Answer

I like girls who care about their own body as much as they care about their boyfriend/husband.

sobg71124 · Answer

The average women in America weighs 162 lbs. So, I would vote average myself.

aficionado · Answer

I don't like 'fat' girls, but only if they're 'really' fat. Because in the current era, even curvy or healthy women are often considered fat.

carrotforscale · Answer

How is it that women can have all kinds of deal-breaking preferences while a fellow cannot? One of my deal-breakers is intelligence, and almost all the women in this thread failed horribly on that count.

BZerpy · Answer

I prefer skinny.  I eat healthy balanced foods and do sports 6 days a week. No fat person can (seriously) claim doing either so they wouldn't go well with my lifestyle.

fuuuark · Answer

Fat girls disgust me, and before anyone says "well you better be fit", well i am fit , very fit.

skullly · Answer

if it's to be critical, a skinny human is just as unappealing as a fat one...  I prefer a ell proportionate healthy human, neither boney nor flabby.

Wireyriverboy · Answer

I'd prefer someone smaller so when I put my foot in my mouth I won't get knocked out before I can apologize. (Completely the truth it happened to my brother)

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