Are muscles gross on a girl?

[Anonymous]

my main goal is to get a slight 4 pack, or some type of abdominal definition. I love the way I look but I do worry about if my body still feminine looking. I have naturally small-ish breast and as the picture shows I don't have much of a waist (very straight up and down). Am I doing too much, if I keep going will that be too much? Just looking for some input. Thanks

[Sojex]

Never ever change yourself for the sake of trying to appeal to others interests.

With that said, I believe that most people, men and women, who say that a person with muscles is ugly are usually those who don't live active, athletic lifestyles themselves. People who understand the effort needed to achieve a fit physique just appreciate it more. If you like the way you're going then just keep at it!

I personally like ladies with fit bodies and I think yours is lovely. If you're kinda worried that guys will be less inclined to go out with you cause your body might not be "feminine" don't sweat it. You'll find a guy all about you and what you do soon enough.

[Asker]

thank you i really needed to hear that, and yeah i shouldn't change to please others.

[cavmanier]

Muscles have become the trend pretty recently so I think a lot of guys like the athletic with muscles look. I personally think toned looks nice, but that's more muscular than my preference. I bet you would especially appeal to a lot of very muscular guys.

[Asker]

haha ironically, i'm not very into very muscular guys

[Anonymous]

Girrrrl! Your muscle definition is awesome! Gotta be honest with you though, some guys will be turned off by that. Some guys will be turned on and admire the hard work! Yet some will think you look too man-ish not very feminine. Femininity is associated with being physically soft (skin, hair) and while men want women who are internally strong, they want that softness too.

[Asker]

thank you for the compliment! yeah i guessed that, I'm hoping that me having a "baby face" will balance that out a bit haha. But yeah, I understand that femininity is about being soft and I'm kind of going in the opposite direction but I'd still pick my fitness over that group of men I guess haha.

[Opinion Owner]

Yw.
You also gotta remember that for some guys, it's difficult or damn near impossible to get that definition so naturally, you would make them feel insecure. It's similar to chubbier girls who feel insecure with skinnier or more toned/fit boyfriends. It's a constant reminder of what they don't have and can't seem to get :/

[Opinion Owner]

Softness meaning just appealing to his senses kinesthetically not implying that softness means weakness or submission. Softness referring to soft hair, soft skin, soft cooch, soft touches, soft lips. That Aphrodite type of soft that probably got her in and out of everything :P

[RoseBlonde]

Get a load of paige Hathaway...
google. co. uk/search? q=paige+hathaway&es_sm=93&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=ZI2SVauzAqPR7QaU4JFw&ved=0CAcQ_AUoAQ&biw=1366&bih=643#imgrc=R6b9DyD9-gBhVM%3A

[Candy_Girl]

muscles are very attractive on girls! and your body looks great! hot actually! keep going, girl, don't stop!

[Asker]

aww thank you!! I really appreciate the compliments :)

[Candy_Girl]

anytime sweetie! and muscles on girls are not only sexy but feminine too, just looking at your body is making me excited. sorry if that's too much info.

[Candy_Girl]

umm i'm new here, looks like i'm not allowed to PM? but i have been receiving plenty. is there a way we can chat or no? sorry i just keep coming back to your pic and it has me kinda... i dont know. i just sound like a mess, nevermind :(

[Asker]

sorry it took so long to get back to you, I've been at work all day. I'm up for chatting or messaging you but I should warn you that I'm not into girls in that way

[Candy_Girl]

oh thats fine haha maybe you can just give me some muscle pointers as i compliment you on yours! :) PM me if you can!

[Candy_Girl]

still the hottest girl I've seen on here...

[Asker]

lmao thank you!!! Love that you came back to say that haha

[Candy_Girl]

sorry, i was just reading a topic somewhere about who is the hottest person here, and you immediately came to mind :) mysterious headless anonymous hotness girl :) I never received that PM from you :( :( :(

[Anonymous]

From just looking at the picture, id say its quite attractive. I remember one day this girl came into my job and we were talking, she was into wrestling and she was very toned and she had the prettiest smile, I should of asked her for her number but i felt she must have a boyfriend.

So dont let the opinions of others prevent you from chasing your goals! Go for it!

[AlphaPerry]

Wow! To be honest, I think your body looks reeeally hot right where it is haha. Keep up the good work. You'll look pretty damn amazing either way 😊

[Asker]

:) Thank you! That means a lot, I worked really hard for it! I'm actually pretty surprised that all the guys approve!

[justbanANNAz]

u look great. i think muscles on girls r fantastic. if u wanna tighten ur waist for more curves i suggest doing exercises that isolate ur obliques. lots of twisting in general.

[GlamFelix]

No. I mean, no, it's not gross. Musculature is a sign of health. Long as you aren't doing anything unhealthy to get them, if you're exercising and eating right--and even that isn't really my business, but in no way do I find that gross.

[Asker]

I just try to eat well (pretty much avoid anything processed) and work out a lot, I just really like the idea of looking strong and healthy

[GlamFelix]

Oh, yeah, then hey, you're doing great. You look great and I'd bet you feel great cx

[GlamFelix]

by which I meant you
feeling great
not me feeling you and thinking you feel great
good lord ill stop typing now omg

[Asker]

lmao that's cute, don't worry I understood what you meant (i don't think you're a creep), and I do feel really good both inside and out. Good health is one of the best things to have in my opinion

[LoverMike]

that pic is so sexy. Great job keep up the hard work

[Asker]

thanks!

[LoverMike]

You're welcome

[MissNowhere]

I personally don't like how it looks, but whatever works for you.

[SilenRose]

Your body isn't bad but it looks like your doing the workouts guys do to get that "V-cut".

[Asker]

yeah I did that on purpose haha, I really wanted the V-cut

[SilenRose]

Oh okay. Well then I would suggest google P! nk's workouts. She has abs with that V-cut as well.

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Personally I don't like V-cuts on women but as long as you feel comfortable in your own body that's what matters. This is my toning goal:

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[Asker]

haha yeah p! nk, megan fox, and a few others are my main inspirations. I am very happy with how I looks, it sucks that some guys will write me off because of it but it's whatever. I like your goal as well, she's got a bit of a 4 pack too

[SilenRose]

Thanks. I feel that look suites my body. :) I have to actually take a month off from working out because I injured my knee. :/

Have guys really written you off or are you refering to the ones on this site? I honestly don't believe a guy really cares in the end. But I wish you luck on the rest of your training. :D

[Asker]

aww that sucks, you could still swim or something right? swimming is really effective and is good for those with knee pain (i think).

i'm just talking about the guys on this site, right now is the fittest as I've ever been so no guys in real life have really seen it yet (or seen me with my shirt off). yeah you may be right, i mean guys date girls who are overweight, it's not like that was the body they imagined for their girlfriend but they end up liking it (usually)

[SilenRose]

My doctor wrote a referral to see a physical therapist but she was kind enough to print out a list of exercises to do in the mean time. I live 15 mins from the beach so I'll definitely try to utilize the ocean more. :)

Oh okay and yeah guys are naturally attracted to fit girls. You won't have any problem getting attention. You'll probably end up dating another fit guy who keeps you motivated. ;)

[legslover79]

actually muscles on a girl looks very hella sexy, especially if she has a 4 pack and muscular thighs

[ClariceOwen23]

I actually like them. I wish I looked like that lol

[dudegrt09]

Decent amount of muscles are okay like yours.
This is gross in my opinion-

www.bodyrock.tv/.../photo-1-21.jpg

[Candy_Girl]

why is that gross? i admire that. lovely woman.

[dudegrt09]

@candy_girl doesn't do it for me... too masculine for my taste.

[Candy_Girl]

she looks feminine to me, muscles dont necessarily make you masculine. attitude and personality is a bigger factor. her body is amazing. i wish i looked like her.

[dudegrt09]

okay good for you then, I'll always be scarred of her that she'll beat the shit out of me :D

[dudegrt09]

@candy_girl

[Candy_Girl]

thats a good thing! :)

[dudegrt09]

@candy_girl what you want me to get beaten up?

[Candy_Girl]

no. just a little scared of a powerful woman :)

[dudegrt09]

@candy_girl oh yeah that I am :D

[Candy_Girl]

i wish i could do that to a guy. i'm to little though :/ i wanna grow up and be like her! :p

[dudegrt09]

@candy_girl lol what you wanna beat up guys? well I like petite girls like you and most guys I know like em' too instead of female schwarzeneggers

[Candy_Girl]

I guess we all wanna be someone we can't be sometimes. I dont necessarily wanna beat up guys (well maybe) just wanna put some fear in them so they know not to mess with me

[RoseBlonde]

that is fucking vile... scuse my french

[dudegrt09]

@RoseBlonde I know right

[Ihav2fart]

Your body isn't gross, but I do like a female with a slightly softer body.

[Blondiee2014]

I wouldn't want anymore muscular than you already are tbh.

[Asker]

so am i too muscular or the right amount?

[Blondiee2014]

I would still touch it 😌🙊

[jessicorn]

tbh i dont really like muscles on a girl... i just like looking lean... and muscles tend to make a girl look 'fat'

[Climber]

I have them and don't mind. My girlfriend likes them and at the gym nobody looks repulsive to me.

[Climber]

@asker: if thats you on the pic, I find it very OK. Nice athletic and still female. And small breast you have to accept if you train low fat. As long as you still have curves and look females, I like. I also have only B-size.

[Asker]

yeah thats me, I have a naturally small chest so i'm happy with them, i'm just slightly worried about all the guys i'll turn off but i guess i have to deal with it since i don't want to get any "softer"

[Climber]

@asker. Guys may say they are turned off, but its more jalousy on your toned body. Internally, guys like it. I get many complimnets on my body, so don't be afraid.

[Asker]

thanks! that makes me feel better then

[Nuqood]

I'd prefer your body a lot softer.

You aren't gross, but you aren't ideal either (for me).

[FakeName123]

Yes, it is offputting and doesn't look appealing at all. If I were attracted and wanted to date muscular people, I would be into guys.

[JohnBhoy94]

I'm into feminine girls... so girls with defined muscles turn be off completely.

[G-Daz]

I'm turned off by muscle definition on girls but some guys like it

[itsagirlthing900]

you are so beautiful keep up the good work. I aspire to look like you!

[Phoenix98]

If your worried about being to muscular don't be, your not bad, it gets disgusting when you go from looking like a strong, fit women to a man.

[Shaft50]

Muscles aren't gross on a girl in my honest opinion... I love the definition of a nicely toned physique...

[ConsultantIsBack]

No they aren't gross. Congrats, lady abs are very difficult to obtain for most.

[Asker]

thank you! and they did take a long time to get

[chrisbigman]

No, I don't have a problem with muscles. Now, if you get bigger than me, then that's rather freaky!!!

[Xlink]

Yeah it looks cool. but I'm not attracted to that. I admire your body but yeah not attracted to that.

[phanindra554plus]

I think your body is ok but myself I don't like mus

[Anonymous]

The thing what you have right now is perfect... MAINTAIN THE LEVEL YOU ARE... don't EXCEED...

[Notedkibbles]

That's just toning up your muscles a lot of guys don't mind

[subzero007]

Nope not at all ripped and shredded are beautiful *_*

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

No , Gillian MIchaels is hot and sh has muscles

[Anonymous]

The amount you are aiming for doesn't sound too much. just don't go overboard...

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

yes it's turn off i like a girly look

[Anonymous]

i like them!

[Asker]

thank you!

[James77]

Abs on a girl is HOT!! dont stop!! ;)

[djstylez76]

Love sexy muscles hon <3

[Lily821]

I'd kill for your body so no, they are not gross.

[Anonymous]

Personally I don't like the look on you.

[dsrice]

You are just perfect, I love muscular women!

[WhaChaChaKing]

I don't think so.

[essayisttt]

nice bpdy