muscles, or lean?

[Xavier238]

ok this is a question I have always wanted to know,

does a girl like their men all buff with almost no fat or lean with some muscle and fat?

i would understand "buff because they can be a real help when we have kids" haha

but girls, your opinion? and any guys think they can pitch in too go for it!

[yoooitshallie]

I usually find myself more attracted to the more lean guys, but I do like muscle. Flat tummy, don't have to have abs, but they are nice, just no flab. Usually muscles on guys arms are attractive. This is useful when you're walking with a girl, sometimes they'll hold onto your arm or kind of lay their head on your arm, and they'll notice the muscle. I think that's the safest way to go, if you want to work out, chest and arms. I personally think ripped out legs are really unattractive, and I know a lot of girls who feel the same way.

But like others said below me, in the end it's personality. One of my previous boyfriends was overweight but he had a killer personality, and it made him gorgeous to me because I loved him so much and he was so hilarious!

[sanam]

Definitely not to buff with only muscle, the whole body builder thing doesn't do it for me really, I mean I love a guy who takes care of himself and works out, but don't overdo it, you know?

but at the end of the day, these things don't really matter, if he's buff or not says nothing about the kinda man he is or how he'll treat me, and that's definitely more important than his body type!

just my thoughts!

[Xavier238]

Wow very though out !

[sanam]

Hey, thanks!

i try my best! LOL!!!

[RockemSockem]

I've always liked athletic guys with some muscle (but not excessively buff) because I think it shows dedication and I just happen to find it attractive.

Some of my friends, however, are into very lean guys that can wear the same size pants that they do. I think it's really a matter of personal preference.

[AquaBlue]

I've never gone for buff. Completely muscle-bound is a real turn-off for me. Strangely enough, I usually go for tall lean guys.

[Jamerz]

i like a guy with meat on him, to much muscles is nasty, I like my man with muscle and little fat lol not into the skinny kind. so I would say Lean :)

[ilyzubra]

Honestly, if the guy has a great personality and their nice and caring, I don't think that girls care. I know that I don't

[Xavier238]

Very true!

[cun7n1nja]

I'm not into huge bulky muscles. But it really depends on the girl. I personally like lean muscle, with a little bit of fat, because it's realistic.

[Xavier238]

So true, so not like scary abs right?

[cun7n1nja]

Yes exactly. I like abs but with a little bit of softness. Having like zero body fat at all kind of weirds me out. Some of the hottest guys I know don't have super defined abs at all and they get all kinds of ladies, haha. And a little bit of pudge isn't a big deal at all either. I don't really care about that kind of thing too much.

[Xavier238]

Haha that's awesome!

i bet you got a lot of pudgy people's confidence up while they're reading this =)

[cun7n1nja]

I hope so! =] I've got a little bit of chub myself, so I know what it's like to feel left out of the attraction game sometimes, haha. I care more about my chemistry with someone than whether they have abs or not.

[crazyhorserocky]

I will go in between too buff makes it not attractive and so does too lean. But I will go with noraml lean

[lola23]

i like my guy to be thin with muscle def. buff isn't really my thing.

[ilyzubra]

well if a guy isreally buff I would be worried that he would spend more time at the gym then with me. but buff is nice cause hugs are better with muscly arms ;)

[r3al-sag1ttar1us]

i would say lean. too buff scares me.

[Xavier238]

HAHA :P

[RationalLioness]

Muscles. Hundred percent.

[FutureSoldier726]

I love muscles on a man its hot.

[desperado]

sure why not?