I like it as a sign of discipline and don't think that one is too extreme. If it starts getting to the point where you can see ab veins, then I think it's a bit much although girls generally don't maintain that level of leanness all year around.
I think it looks fine and great. I might visually prefer a slightly softer look but the leanness I admire more from a "personality" perspective, perhaps? That is to say, I admire the discipline and hard work required to achieve it, and I have no doubt that the girl is fit and is going to enjoy outgoing physical activities which I think is very attractive.
Where I draw the line quicker is mass. If a girl has like massive traps or huge biceps, then it starts to look a bit "masculine" to me (perhaps because it generally requires high testosterone levels to achieve that much mass). But with extreme mass aside, I don't equate leanness with a "masculine" look.
>> What's your option on my stomach. I think it's time to start working on it. Is it fine? Or I need to get more toned?
It looks very nice to me, although if you want to get leaner, I'd still find it very attractive. I am also working on mine. :-D It is tough these days at 39-years old. My lowest body fat in recent years was last year, although I've gotten a bit soft again this year and have to lean down again. But I can certainly appreciate the discipline and effort required to do it.
Its up to you. This looks good. If you want to work on making your abs even more solid, you will probably still look good. I would say it really depends how you carry it. If a solid six pack abs or even eight pack makes you happy, chances are you'll carry it well and still look good. Hope this helps :)
Girls with abs aren't "masculine" to me at all. I never equate muscles with being purely "masculine". I think that's silly. A woman with muscular definition is still very feminine in my eyes. A woman's physique doesn't solely determine her femininity in my opinion. I think abs on a girl is beautiful and attractive, but it's not like it's a "prerequisite" to be attractive either. Bottom line though, I think women should be able to be and enjoy their body however they like, no matter what body type they have. Because beauty truly does come in all shapes and sizes. But yes, women with abs are beautiful too. 😊
Update: That is up to you, you look fine as you are, but it would not hurt to get a bit more muscle tone, but that is only my opinion, again, it is entirely up to you and what you would be most happy with.
I'm not attracted to women with abs or slight muscles, I don't mind slightly toned, but ripped is too masculine.
See Madonna in recent years, I think her arms etc are too muscular and its unattractive.
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It looks kind masculine depending on how ripped she is. It's kinda like if your man had a big soft round jiggly booty. It might be a little bit too womanly.
My ideal girl would have a flat stomach with no visible abs. However, I could "tolerate" a certain degree of ab definition. The abs in the pic you provided are too much though.
I would love it, but also feel bad as I am currently falling apart and so I am not working out and I sit a lot and yeah... well... but I think it is generally a turn on as long as it doesn't start to get obsessive...
Physically active and in good physical shape that could kick my Ass anytime she wanted, so I say please, thank you, and I am sorry if I upset you in anyway.
i’m not really attracted to specific body parts, but abs on both genders is a sign of hard work and dedication, so if i saw a woman with a six-pack i’d congratulate her on her progress (:
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